Girlfriend Kicks Out Boyfriend Over College Lie 😲 Can Their Relationship Survive?

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We've all heard of couples facing challenges, but this one takes the cake! Our protagonist, let's call her 'Determined Debbie', has been with her boyfriend, 'Secretive Alex', for eight years. They moved in together during the pandemic, and Alex was supposed to be attending college online. Debbie works two jobs to support them both, but recently discovered a shocking secret that Alex had been hiding. 😱🤯

The Family's Verdict 🤔

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Their History 📚

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Moving In Together 🏠

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The Online College Plan 💻

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Alex's Contribution 💸

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Debbie's Supportive Stance 🤗

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The Shocking Confession 😱

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The Deception Unravels 🕵️‍♀️

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Job Hunting? 🧐

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The Ultimatum ⚠️

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The Aftermath 😢

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Debbie's Dilemma 💔

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The Love Remains ❤️

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Family and Friends React 😠

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Taking Sides ⚖️

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To Kick Out or Not to Kick Out? 🤷‍♀️

Determined Debbie is now facing backlash from friends and family for kicking Secretive Alex out of their apartment after discovering he dropped out of college and kept it a secret. With everyone seemingly taking Alex's side, Debbie is left questioning her decision. Is she overreacting, or is she right to demand more from her partner? 💔😕 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

NTA, boyfriend self-sabotaged and betrayed trust. Relationship may not survive.

Stuck_suck | Stuck_suck

Girlfriend kicks out boyfriend for lying about college. NTA according to commenters.

InsidiousToilet | InsidiousToilet

NTA. Boyfriend lied and mooched off OP. Supportive replies.

Bambie-Rizzo | Bambie-Rizzo

Commenter and reply agree: boyfriend was in the wrong 👍

DepartmentOutrageous | DepartmentOutrageous

NTA. Boyfriend lied about college. Keep him out until employed 👍

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Girlfriend kicks out boyfriend over college lie. NTA for leaving.

Prymaat_Conehead | Prymaat_Conehead

Honesty is key for a healthy relationship 💌 Trust broken.

ruinedbymovies | ruinedbymovies

NTA for kicking out lying boyfriend, but can relationship survive?

notMateo | notMateo

Standing up for yourself 💪🏻, NTA gets support from internet stranger

Graysconfused | Graysconfused

NTA. Trust is key, and he broke it. Move on.

Ryuloulou | Ryuloulou

Find your tribe 👫👭 and don't let anyone bring you down 💪

[deleted] | [deleted]

Dump him! 👋 You deserve better than a lying mooch. 🚫

robot428 | robot428

NTA. Trust is important. He lied and was a freeloader. 😲

horsendogguy | horsendogguy

Boyfriend lied about college, girlfriend kicks him out. NTA wins.

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Boyfriend lies about college, girlfriend kicks him out. NTA verdict.

Flippn_Freddy | Flippn_Freddy

Commenter supports girlfriend's decision to kick out lazy boyfriend.

gringaellie | gringaellie

Don't let him take advantage of you 👍. Time to move on.

FunInception | FunInception

Commenter defends OP's actions, receives agreement from a reply.

zoecandle | zoecandle

Supportive comment advises against enabling bad behavior in relationships.

Aessix | Aessix

Essential employee kicks out lying boyfriend during pandemic. NTA.

Rhiannons13 | Rhiannons13

NTA. Lack of communication and care from BF is concerning 🤔

RavenxAlmasy | RavenxAlmasy

Trust is key in any relationship 💔 Can they rebuild it?

Ladyooh | Ladyooh

NTA. Honesty is key in any relationship 👍

Mysterious-Winter616 | Mysterious-Winter616

NTA! Boyfriend lied and barely contributed, time to move on 🙌

PainItForward | PainItForward

When lying to impress others backfires 🤦‍♀️

183672467 | 183672467

Honesty is key 👍 Trust is broken, time to move on.

nan1ta | nan1ta

NTA for kicking out lying boyfriend. You deserve better 👏

CMSkye | CMSkye

NTA's Andy Dwyer reference sparks hilarious comment thread 😂

AJs2ndAlt | AJs2ndAlt

Lack of communication leads to college lie fallout 🤔

Ogreguy | Ogreguy

Boyfriend lies about college for months, gets kicked out. NTA.

Elfere | Elfere

NTA calls out lying boyfriend, can relationship survive? 🤔

hubrisonthemoon | hubrisonthemoon

Lying, mooching boyfriend and unsupportive friends and parents. NTA.

Dry-Investigator1755 | Dry-Investigator1755

Girlfriend kicks out lazy boyfriend, NTA wins the day 👏

Dangerfyeld | Dangerfyeld

Dump the liar 👋 Move on to better things 👌

blasiandontraisin | blasiandontraisin

NTA for kicking out lazy boyfriend who lied about college.

FireEbonyashes | FireEbonyashes

Commenter advises girlfriend to leave lazy and immature boyfriend 😲

jerseygirl1105 | jerseygirl1105

Online classes can be tough, understandable why he lied. NAH.

Teepseyipey | Teepseyipey

Set him free! 🦅 NTA comment suggests ending the relationship.

hallownest_undead | hallownest_undead

Distrust lingers as girlfriend questions boyfriend's honesty 🤔

Snoo-65712 | Snoo-65712

NTA! Boyfriend lied to exploit you and his own parents. Dealbreaker!

clickygirl | clickygirl

Partner lied about college and job search, NTA for kicking out.

veastt | veastt

Empowering comment receives no replies. 👏

Calmandwise | Calmandwise

Choosing honesty or defending lies: the ultimate test for relationships

Mudslingshot | Mudslingshot

Relationship advice: Communicate honestly, set boundaries, and consider separation.

Danmont88 | Danmont88

Fairness in relationships is important. Supporting someone is different.

stressernotafighter | stressernotafighter

Honesty is key 👍. Girlfriend deserves better 💔

CantSpeakOutLoud | CantSpeakOutLoud

Stay strong and stand your ground! 💪

thebadsleepwell00 | thebadsleepwell00

Girlfriend takes charge after boyfriend lies and refuses to support.

The_wayward_painter | The_wayward_painter

Supporting a lying partner? NTA kicks out boyfriend over college lie 😲

teresajs | teresajs

Girlfriend kicks out lazy boyfriend who lied about college 😲

hecknono | hecknono

Harsh advice from a stranger 👎 Can love survive it?

bitemachine | bitemachine

NTA. You deserve better 👏

SnowWhiteCampCat | SnowWhiteCampCat

Commenter defends OP's decision to not financially support boyfriend 💪

AllyKalamity | AllyKalamity

ESH - Discuss expectations and workload like adults 👨🏻‍👩🏻‍👤, find a compromise 🤔

BasketcaseBi-Bi | BasketcaseBi-Bi

NTA girlfriend pays all bills, gives ultimatum to wasteful boyfriend. 💯

thyme_of_my_life | thyme_of_my_life

Boyfriend lied about college, girlfriend kicks him out. NTA.

miflordelicata | miflordelicata

Discovering a partner's lies can be a dealbreaker. Hard NTA 👏

YourLilVeniceBitch | YourLilVeniceBitch

Partner should contribute equally. Reconsider long-term prospects. 👫👬

catdoctor | catdoctor

NTA for kicking out lying boyfriend. Communication is key 👍

jeansareformalwear | jeansareformalwear

Huge lie, huge issue. NTA for being mad and leaving.

PrincessSanguine | PrincessSanguine

Lying boyfriend gets called out for his unacceptable behavior 😒

terrapharma | terrapharma

NTA stands firm in decision to kick out boyfriend 💪

lacyjacobs | lacyjacobs

NTA - Letting him stay with his parents could bring you back together or let it go and move on. 👍

Historical-Ad1493 | Historical-Ad1493

Honesty is key. NTA for calling out the lack of effort 👍

Bdubz29 | Bdubz29

NTA - Don't support a lying putz. Keep him gone 👋

TheYankcunian | TheYankcunian

Girlfriend rightfully kicks out lying and lazy boyfriend 😠

klcampy2244 | klcampy2244

NTA! 🙅‍♀️ You deserve better than a houseboyfriend. 💪

TrixIx | TrixIx

Honesty is the best policy 👍

ciaoravioli | ciaoravioli

Boyfriend's lie backfires, girlfriend kicks him out. NTA.

MoonNomenclature | MoonNomenclature

Supportive commenters agree that NTA and deserve better 👏

headalettuce5 | headalettuce5

NTA calls out lazy boyfriend's lies. What's next for them?

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