Friend Compares Polyamory Ban to Homophobia: You Won't Believe What Happened Next! 😲

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Picture this: you're doing a favor for a friend who's in a tough spot, letting them stay in your home for a week. You lay down some simple house rules, but your friend just can't seem to respect them. Instead, they start giving you unsolicited lectures on your own relationship choices, even comparing your rules to homophobia! 🤯 That's exactly what happened to one woman when she let her polyamorous friend Emily stay with her and her husband. Let's dive into this wild story and see what went down. 😏

The Houseguest Arrives 🏠

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House Rules: No Visitors 🚫

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Homophobia Accusations 😡

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My House, My Rules 🏠

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Unsolicited Lectures at Dinner 🍽️

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Monogamy vs. Polyamory Debates 🤔

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Wedding Album Memories 💍

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A Lifetime Promise: Realistic or Not? 🤷

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The Breaking Point 😤

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Husband's Support 💑

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The Final Verdict 🤔

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Polyamory Lectures at Dinner: Who's in the Wrong? 🤷‍♀️

So, our protagonist is left wondering if she's in the wrong for snapping at her houseguest, Emily. After all, she's just trying to help her friend out during a tough time. But Emily's constant lectures on monogamy and polyamory, and even accusing her queer host of homophobia, have pushed her to the edge. Was it too much to ask for a little respect and appreciation in her own home? 🏠💔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

Ungrateful guest insults host's relationship and home. NTA.

EntranceShadows | EntranceShadows

Polyamory ban compared to homophobia, but is it really? 🤔

oneandonlycmj | oneandonlycmj

Polyamory gone wrong: Commenters agree that OP is NTA.

Timmetie | Timmetie

NTA stands up to rude friend who lectures on relationships 🙌

Olethros842 | Olethros842

Commenter suggests friend's behavior stems from insecurity. Explosive replies.

cocoaqueen | cocoaqueen

Friend disrespects boundaries during pandemic, called out for homophobia. NTA.

Nilmandir | Nilmandir

Polyamory drama queen criticizes friend's marriage, gets called out. NTA.

StereoOnCookingBacon | StereoOnCookingBacon

NTA commenter shares bias against polyamory, sparking discussion on relationship success.

asmallman | asmallman

Polyamorous commenter called NTA for setting boundaries with judgmental friend. Drama ensues 😳

NessieTheOG | NessieTheOG

Support for NTA's polyamory ban, with a side of education 😍

MartHodds | MartHodds

Veganism vs Polyamory: The Ultimate Showdown! 🤬

txdatapro | txdatapro

Polyamory debate during pandemic sparks NTA comment and concerns.

AmyBaby-96 | AmyBaby-96

Debate on Polyamory vs Monogamy gets heated. NTA stands firm.

ChurchMilitant91 | ChurchMilitant91

Polyamory is not for everyone, but insulting someone's relationship is a**hole-ish 😒

Zeditha | Zeditha

Polyamory defended against rude friend during pandemic. NTA snaps back. 😜

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Polyamorous Redditor defends their lifestyle against monogamous friend. 👮🏻👯🏻

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Respectful boundaries set for criticizing OP's marriage. NTA 👍

FresherBlife | FresherBlife

Polyamory debate gets heated as commenter calls out Emily's superiority complex 🤬

as-well | as-well

Commenter criticizes polyamory as a way to skirt consequences. NTA.


Polyamory skeptic questions stability, but not an a-hole 😏

pamar456 | pamar456

Setting boundaries with friends: NTA or ESH? 🤔

mgndn | mgndn

Polyamory isn't for everyone, let people live their lives 👯

mydoghiskid | mydoghiskid

Polyamory debate turns into housemate conflict, NTA stands firm. 😎

TheIndigoCircle | TheIndigoCircle

Monogamy vs Polyamory debate gets heated. NTA defends monogamy.

Kayliee73 | Kayliee73

Setting boundaries with a guest 🙌

redhairedtyrant | redhairedtyrant

Polyamory superiority complex? NTA sets boundaries with friend. 🙄

Jilltro | Jilltro

Commenter makes inappropriate joke, shut down by previous incident 🙄

IlichGreed | IlichGreed

Polyamory debate leads to friend's eviction. NTA wins.

sobrokeitafunny | sobrokeitafunny

Friend criticizes host's polyamorous relationship, gets shut down. 🙌

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Polite host kicks out rude guest, NTA wins the day! 🙌

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Defending monogamy against disrespectful friend. NTA! 👏

StereoOnCookingBacon | StereoOnCookingBacon

Friend compares polyamory ban to homophobia, commenter advises to end friendship.

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Poly queer woman calls out rude guest for endangering lives 😠

celtic-piskie | celtic-piskie

Friend gets evicted, crashes at NTA's place, then lectures them on polyamory. 😒

pdhot65ton | pdhot65ton

Friend called a leech, NTA for cutting ties. 👍

littleski5 | littleski5

Polyamory debate gets heated in monogamous household. NTA.

BriaKhalifa | BriaKhalifa

Friend with 5 partners causing stress, NTA for asking her to leave 🙌

soundspretty | soundspretty

Homeless friend invites guests during pandemic, gets NTA response. 😊

WanderingWedding | WanderingWedding

Short and sweet: NTA, but why is she rude? 😕

throwaway_6338 | throwaway_6338

Polyamory critic gets a taste of her own medicine 🍵

jujubee225 | jujubee225

Polyamorous OP receives NTA judgment, but raises questions about living arrangements 🤔

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Polyamory isn't for everyone, but don't be an ungrateful *itch 😒

Anonymouscha | Anonymouscha

Setting boundaries in polyamory. Let's discuss! 😍

sarahschubear | sarahschubear

Civil discussion recommended for differing views on polyamory. 👍

bobbster574 | bobbster574

Respectful boundaries are key in any relationship 🙌

annoyedpotatolady | annoyedpotatolady

NTA stands up to rude friend in polyamory discussion 💪

NinjaSarBear | NinjaSarBear

Polyamory vs. Homophobia: Navigating Morality in a Pandemic 🤔

BlossomBelow | BlossomBelow

Polyamory is a viable option but not the only one 💜

snarkisms | snarkisms

Polyamorous hypocrisy exposed: promising future with five partners? NTA

misseselise | misseselise

Polyamory and homelessness: a comment on modern relationships 🤔

Yikes44 | Yikes44

Commenter questions the trust in polyamorous relationships. 🤔

Lancalot | Lancalot

Polyamory compared to veganism, commenter not the a**hole. 🌱

Deepdishultra | Deepdishultra

Polyamory isn't a sexuality, it's a lifestyle choice. NTA.

Optimal_Coconut | Optimal_Coconut

Roommate shames polyamorous friend for being homeless 😢

kath4 | kath4

NTA sets boundaries with judgmental friend who disrespects their lifestyle 🙌

spitkitty666 | spitkitty666

Polyamory isn't a guarantee against cheating. NTA for ending friendship. 👍

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Questioning polyamorous choices, is it justified or judgmental? 🤔

karti679 | karti679

Setting boundaries is key 🔑 NTA stands their ground

Hatersgonnahate26-if | Hatersgonnahate26-if

Polyamory shaming? Not cool. Commenter is NTA. 😎

filkerdave | filkerdave

Polyamory debate turns sour as boundaries are crossed 🤯

TheREALNesZapper | TheREALNesZapper

Polyamory debate turns into pandemic safety concern. 😱

mfruitfly | mfruitfly

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