Weddings are supposed to be a time of love and celebration, but sometimes they can bring out the worst in people. In a recent story, a woman’s sister got engaged 9 years ago but had to delay their wedding due to financial struggles and the fiancé’s battle with cancer. Now, they’ve decided to have a small wedding next year. But when the sister’s trust-fund friend gets engaged and throws a party, she takes the opportunity to shame the sister for her small wedding, calling her poor and dumb. Let’s dive into this drama-filled story.
Sister’s Long Engagement

Financial Struggles and Cancer Battle

Small Wedding Plans

Trust Fund Friend’s Speech

Party Turns Awkward

Sister’s Reaction

Standing Up for Sister

Trust Fund Friend’s Reaction

Mixed Opinions

Trust Fund Friend Gets a Dose of Reality ️
So, our protagonist decided to stand up for her sister after the trust fund friend’s hurtful speech. She confronted the friend, reminding her of her privileged life and how her sister is a fighter who’s faced real struggles. While some people at the party think she went too far, others believe she did the right thing. What do you think? Let’s check out some of the top responses from the internet…
Sister’s friend uses engagement party to shame her, OP defends. NTA

NTA shuts down wedding shamer, speculation on shamer’s motives

Sister shuts down wedding shamer with truth and loyalty

Friend insults sister’s wedding with backhanded compliments

NTA shuts down wedding shamer, but why did they stay?

Weddings should be unique to the couple, not societal expectations.

NTA shuts down entitled girl, gets attacked but stands firm

Sister’s friend gave a cringey speech and insulted her, NTA.

Commenter defends sister’s wedding and calls out friend’s insensitivity

Commenter asks about Covid safe party amidst debate on safety

Doubtful comment sparks agreement among readers

Comment and replies seem fake, but entertaining nonetheless

Jealousy or mean-spiritedness? NTA gets a reality check

Supportive commenters agree: friend is TA, sister deserves better
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Commenter praises OP for not stooping to snob’s level.

Supportive comment receives validation for small wedding choice
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Sibling defends wedding shamer, but money can’t buy class

When the ending is too good to be true
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Commenter defends OP’s response to bridezilla. NTA

Sister’s defender shuts down friend’s job-shaming with

Wedding shamed for being too small, commenter calls out safety concerns

Supportive commenter defends sister against wedding shamer

Navigating social events during Covid-19 pandemic

Standing up against bullies is always the right thing

Doubts arise about the authenticity of the story

Supportive comment shuts down wedding shamer.

Supportive comment receives no backlash, sister is lucky to have OP

Wedding speaker targets bride’s sister with cruel jokes

Commenter questions the validity of the story with humor

Friend shames sister for small wedding, gets called out

Commenter questions the validity of the story and criticizes friend’s behavior

Shaming the bride at her wedding? Not cool. NTA.

Don’t let entitled bullies win. Stand up for yourself!

NTA commenter offers wise advice for confronting others with empathy.

Don’t let anyone shame you for your wedding choices

Wedding cost doesn’t define the longevity of a marriage

Sister’s ex-friend shamed her for small wedding. Commenter calls NTA.

Standing up for yourself and a bizarre wedding speech.

Commenter expresses skepticism about a ‘covid-safe party’.

Is the sister’s friend just a jealous frenemy?

Sister’s friend shames her for small wedding, gets called out

Commenter supports sticking up for sister’s wedding, advises toning language.

Commenter deems sister’s friend the a-hole or everyone sucks here.

Commenter receives unexpected question, causing second thoughts

Confused reaction to strange situation

Standing up to wedding shamers, NTA gets validation

Privileged friend shames small wedding, gets reality check. NTA

Standing up for family and putting a rude friend in their place

Sibling support triumphs over wedding shamers
