Sister's Friend Shames Her for Small Wedding, Gets a Reality Check 😲

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Weddings are supposed to be a time of love and celebration, but sometimes they can bring out the worst in people. In a recent story, a woman's sister got engaged 9 years ago but had to delay their wedding due to financial struggles and the fiancé's battle with cancer. Now, they've decided to have a small wedding next year. But when the sister's trust-fund friend gets engaged and throws a party, she takes the opportunity to shame the sister for her small wedding, calling her poor and dumb. 😠 Let's dive into this drama-filled story.

Sister's Long Engagement 💍

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Financial Struggles and Cancer Battle 🏥

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Small Wedding Plans 🌸

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Trust Fund Friend's Speech 😒

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Party Turns Awkward 😬

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Sister's Reaction 😢

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Standing Up for Sister 💪

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Trust Fund Friend's Reaction 😭

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Mixed Opinions 🤔

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Trust Fund Friend Gets a Dose of Reality 🌶️

So, our protagonist decided to stand up for her sister after the trust fund friend's hurtful speech. She confronted the friend, reminding her of her privileged life and how her sister is a fighter who's faced real struggles. While some people at the party think she went too far, others believe she did the right thing. What do you think? Let's check out some of the top responses from the internet... 💬

Sister's friend uses engagement party to shame her, OP defends. NTA 👏

thiswasyouridea | thiswasyouridea

NTA shuts down wedding shamer, speculation on shamer's motives 🤔

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Sister shuts down wedding shamer with truth and loyalty 🙌

sleepy-popcorn | sleepy-popcorn

Friend insults sister's wedding with backhanded compliments 😑

WebbieVanderquack | WebbieVanderquack

NTA shuts down wedding shamer, but why did they stay? 🤔

Eve-3 | Eve-3

Weddings should be unique to the couple, not societal expectations. 💕

toodleoodidoo | toodleoodidoo

NTA shuts down entitled girl, gets attacked but stands firm 😎

NomadicusRex | NomadicusRex

Sister's friend gave a cringey speech and insulted her, NTA.

Big_Tap1859 | Big_Tap1859

Commenter defends sister's wedding and calls out friend's insensitivity 😲

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Commenter asks about Covid safe party amidst debate on safety

Soexi | Soexi

Doubtful comment sparks agreement among readers 😐

knotsophia | knotsophia

Comment and replies seem fake, but entertaining nonetheless 😂

XxshockwavexXX | XxshockwavexXX

Jealousy or mean-spiritedness? NTA gets a reality check 😲

joesaxxx | joesaxxx

Supportive commenters agree: friend is TA, sister deserves better 👏

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Commenter praises OP for not stooping to snob's level. 👏

justify_it | justify_it

Supportive comment receives validation for small wedding choice 👏

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Sibling defends wedding shamer, but money can't buy class 😒

Amara_Undone | Amara_Undone

When the ending is too good to be true 🤬

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Commenter defends OP's response to bridezilla. NTA 👏

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Sister's defender shuts down friend's job-shaming with 🔥

Avebury1 | Avebury1

Wedding shamed for being too small, commenter calls out safety concerns 🚨

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Supportive commenter defends sister against wedding shamer 👏

CareFrenchieN | CareFrenchieN

Navigating social events during Covid-19 pandemic 🤔

StrawberryKiss2559 | StrawberryKiss2559

Standing up against bullies is always the right thing 💪

Viperbunny | Viperbunny

Doubts arise about the authenticity of the story 🤔

Lozamort91 | Lozamort91

Supportive comment shuts down wedding shamer. 👏

savant9577 | savant9577

Supportive comment receives no backlash, sister is lucky to have OP 🙌

Arnoldie | Arnoldie

Wedding speaker targets bride's sister with cruel jokes 😢

FalseAwe | FalseAwe

Commenter questions the validity of the story with humor 😂

becauseoftheoffice | becauseoftheoffice

Friend shames sister for small wedding, gets called out 😱

mydogwillbeinmyheart | mydogwillbeinmyheart

Commenter questions the validity of the story and criticizes friend's behavior 🤔

smoochface | smoochface

Shaming the bride at her wedding? Not cool. NTA.

RedditVirgin13 | RedditVirgin13

Don't let entitled bullies win. Stand up for yourself! 💪

dreadfulNinja | dreadfulNinja

NTA commenter offers wise advice for confronting others with empathy.

Zorobeans | Zorobeans

Don't let anyone shame you for your wedding choices 👰🏼

Senior_Light_9948 | Senior_Light_9948

Wedding cost doesn't define the longevity of a marriage 💖

AnyConstellation | AnyConstellation

Sister's ex-friend shamed her for small wedding. Commenter calls NTA.

mowgli0423 | mowgli0423

Standing up for yourself and a bizarre wedding speech.

foxtailavenger | foxtailavenger

Commenter expresses skepticism about a 'covid-safe party'.

solanamell | solanamell

Is the sister's friend just a jealous frenemy? 🤔

Nilmah1316 | Nilmah1316

Sister's friend shames her for small wedding, gets called out 😲

57hz | 57hz

Commenter supports sticking up for sister's wedding, advises toning language.

Yelloeisok | Yelloeisok

Commenter deems sister's friend the a-hole or everyone sucks here.

Mikerinokappachino | Mikerinokappachino

Commenter receives unexpected question, causing second thoughts 🤔

stewbugx | stewbugx

Confused reaction to strange situation 🤔

flowers4u | flowers4u

Standing up to wedding shamers, NTA gets validation 👏

The_Calico_Jack | The_Calico_Jack

Privileged friend shames small wedding, gets reality check. NTA 😊

Plasticman4Life | Plasticman4Life

Standing up for family 👏 and putting a rude friend in their place 😎

only_crank | only_crank

Sibling support triumphs over wedding shamers 👏

RebelScientist | RebelScientist

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