We've all had our fair share of dating mishaps, but this story might just take the cake. Our protagonist, let's call him Mr. Punctual, had been chatting with a girl from Hinge (we'll call her Carol) and they decided to meet up at a fun-themed restaurant/bar. Everything seemed to be going well, with the two texting back and forth throughout the day. Little did Mr. Punctual know, Carol was about to throw a wrench in their plans. 😱
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Carol Apologizes 🥺
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The Verdict: Justified or Overreaction? 🤷♂️
So, was Mr. Punctual's decision to call off the date justified or an overreaction? On one hand, he had every right to be frustrated with Carol's tardiness and apparent dishonesty. On the other, could he have given her a chance to make amends? Whatever your opinion, this story is sure to spark some heated debates! 🔥 Let's dive into some top responses from the internet to see what people think about this situation... 🍿
Arriving 40 minutes late with no prior notice is a deal-breaker. NTA
HapaMari | HapaMari
Being upfront and honest, NTA for using time as desired 👍
PandaS0ck5 | PandaS0ck5
First date arrives 40 minutes late, but OP is NTA. Dodged a bullet with a girl who wanted to push limits.
neoKushan | neoKushan
Woman stands up for herself after date arrives 40 mins late 😍
shmookieguinz | shmookieguinz
Dodged a bullet! First dates are important 👍
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Commenter rightfully calls out flaky date excuses 🙄
FinalFeeling | FinalFeeling
Commenter defends being late, but gets called out for manipulation.
salukiqueen | salukiqueen
Respect for time is non-negotiable. NTA made the right call.
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Late friend shows lack of respect, NTA for sticking up.
hannahsflora | hannahsflora
Being fashionably late is not always a good idea 🤷♂️
Negative-Swordfish-9 | Negative-Swordfish-9
Communication is key, being late is forgivable with prior notice 👍
Froggetpwagain | Froggetpwagain
NTA. Carol's bizarre behavior and sudden interest in the date raises questions 🤔
lucia-pacciola | lucia-pacciola
Late to a first date? NTA says leave, and we agree 😍
HiddenFigures72 | HiddenFigures72
Booking a 'fun' themed restaurant leads to a hilarious date. 😂 NTA
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No-show date? NTA! Don't waste your time 👍
Squid0s | Squid0s
Deposits for restaurant reservations becoming more common due to COVID-19 🤔
Evaderofdoom | Evaderofdoom
Late or controlling? The real reason behind the delay. 🤔
TheMostBrokenBoy | TheMostBrokenBoy
No excuse, no match. NTA according to commenter.
nister0 | nister0
Commenter calls out Carol's behavior with a cringe factor 😑
willow-bee | willow-bee
Don't wait for someone who doesn't value your time 👍
brownshugababy | brownshugababy
First date, 40 mins late? NTA. Communication is key.
cmonmaan | cmonmaan
Being late is not cute or quirky, it's rude and inconsiderate. 😒
youknopeit | youknopeit
Don't let anyone disrespect your time 👍
toblerone_777 | toblerone_777
Late date? NTA says 'F*** that' to excuses.
TheCodeMan95 | TheCodeMan95
Refreshing self-awareness in a sea of self-justification 😊
RedOaky | RedOaky
Being late without a valid excuse is always wrong. NTA.
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Late date turned into 15-year marriage. Graciousness pays off. 😍
rbaltimore | rbaltimore
Commenter blames woman for being late, calls it a "shit test" 🤬
Skoodledoo | Skoodledoo
Date arrives 40 mins late, but excuses fall short 😐
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40 minutes late? Not cool. NTA for not waiting.
DogsReadingBooks | DogsReadingBooks
Dodged a bullet 💥. No excuse for lateness in 2020 📞
capricorn40 | capricorn40
Late date pushes boundaries, NTA for not waiting. 🙅
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Waiting for someone who's late is a waste of time 😒
BisquickNinja | BisquickNinja
Late date? NTA orders, eats, pays, and leaves before arrival 😂
Summoning-Freaks | Summoning-Freaks
NTA stands up to late date, suspicions of test arise 🤔
broadsharp | broadsharp
Curious about why she thought the date wasn't happening. NTA.
einois | einois
Arriving late? Ain't nobody got time for that! 😂
DraculasSecondCousin | DraculasSecondCousin
Don't play games, NTA stood up for himself 👏
Gooch_Rogers | Gooch_Rogers
Punctuality is important, but did he confirm the date beforehand?
stardew618 | stardew618
Bad first impression on first date, but NTA.
AKneelingOx | AKneelingOx
Demanding respect in dating 👏
cantankerouswhale | cantankerouswhale
Respect your time, NTA. Waiting 40 mins with no effort? 🙄
ohhlookshiny | ohhlookshiny
Cutting ties early? NTA comment suggests bad date behavior.
Koreanboie156 | Koreanboie156
Dodging a bullet 💥: Commenter explains why unapologetic tardiness is a major red flag.
TheBrassDancer | TheBrassDancer
Being late is not always a deal-breaker. NTA, but introspect.
Crolleen | Crolleen
Late on purpose? 🤔 NTA for cancelling the date.
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Different regions have different etiquette, but miscommunications happen. 😕
StatusSnow | StatusSnow
Respect your time, respect yourself. NTA for standing up.
shaylaa30 | shaylaa30
No excuses, no second chances. NTA made the right call. 👍
proassassin00 | proassassin00
Punctuality speaks volumes. NTA for not waiting.
mymonstersarereal95 | mymonstersarereal95
Friends won't let it go? NTA, move on 🙌
StainlessHinge | StainlessHinge
Late for a date with no good excuse? Not cool 😒
sockmaster420 | sockmaster420
Late date and miscommunication leads to NTA verdict 😕
DizzyHeron3 | DizzyHeron3
Arriving 40 minutes late for a date - NTA or not?
Dacookies | Dacookies
Not the a**hole, but what happened next? 🤔
Dovahkiinkv1 | Dovahkiinkv1
Avoid being walked over on dates by setting clear expectations 😊
greenrosepdtl | greenrosepdtl
Don't be late and blame it on me! NTA 👍
seba_make | seba_make
No heads up? No problem. NTA for being upset 😏
erin_notaaron | erin_notaaron
Respect your time and ditch those who don't value it 💪
DyingDarkness | DyingDarkness
Arriving late? Not the a**hole according to this commenter. 👍
jessikatnip7 | jessikatnip7
Dodged a bullet 💥, no chance for someone who doesn't care 🙅
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No harm, no foul. Being fashionably late is overrated. 😎
kellyhitchcock | kellyhitchcock
Late date and weak excuse, commenter says NTA 😎
ms-anthrope | ms-anthrope
Respect your time and don't bother with those who don't. ⏳
Vagrant123 | Vagrant123
Been there, done that. No need to waste time. 💪
verygayumbrella | verygayumbrella
Setting boundaries is important. NTA for valuing your time 👍
hristory | hristory
First impressions matter. Being 40 minutes late is not cool. ⏳
llorandosefue1 | llorandosefue1
Dodged a bullet with a flaky narcissist 🎯
SpartEng76 | SpartEng76
Respect is key. Being late is unacceptable. 👍
juniper_berry_crunch | juniper_berry_crunch
Commenter is not the a**hole, but why? 🤔
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