Meet a dad (33M) who's at his wit's end with his wife (31F) over diaper duty. They've been married for six years and have two adopted kids (7F and 5M) from Haiti. Recently, they welcomed a biological baby girl into their family. However, the wife seems to think that changing diapers isn't her job, leaving the dad to handle all the messy business. This led to a dramatic incident where he missed his daughter's soccer game triumph to change the baby's diaper. 😢⚽ Let's dive into the story.

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Diaper Duty Drama Begins 🍼

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New Baby, New Responsibilities 👶

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Mid-Game Meltdown 😡

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Diaper Duty Dilemma 🤦♂️

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Missed Moments 😢

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Disappointed Daughter 💔

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Wife's Response 🤷♀️

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Marriage Counseling 💔

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Counselor's Advice 🗣️

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Heated Argument 🔥

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Dad's Response 🤬

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Diaper Duty Drama: The Aftermath 😬
So, our dad is left wondering if he's the bad guy for telling his wife to step up as a parent. He's been handling all the childcare, even missing his daughter's soccer game triumph to change the baby's diaper. The marriage counselor has suggested the wife do more with the baby, but she doesn't seem to want to. The situation escalated into a heated argument, with the dad snapping back at his wife. Is he really the one to blame here? Let's see what the internet has to say about this diaper duty debacle... 🍿
NTA dad misses daughter's soccer triumph due to wife's diaper drama 😱⚽

MultiFazed | MultiFazed
Father misses daughter's soccer triumph due to wife's diaper duty drama. Commenter sympathizes and calls out wife's Freudian slip and twisted situation. Replies offer different perspectives.

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Commenter sympathizes with dad's situation and suggests wife needs new therapists.

JohnChapter11Verse35 | JohnChapter11Verse35
Commenter calls out lazy wife, sparking discussion on childcare responsibilities 🙌

gooberfaced | gooberfaced
NTA for missing daughter's game due to diaper drama. Counseling tomorrow.

ilovepuscifer | ilovepuscifer
Lazy wife causes husband to miss daughter's soccer triumph. NTA.

ChickNamedVenus | ChickNamedVenus
NTA defends mother's diaper duty, reply shames her laziness 🤪

avatarfan007 | avatarfan007
Dad misses daughter's game for diaper duty, wife calls him lazy 😠

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NTA for missing game, wife's racism and parenting issues addressed 🚨

mochaluvr1 | mochaluvr1
Parenting problems: Commenters agree wife needs to step up 👨👩👧😱

NaryaGenesis | NaryaGenesis
Concerns raised about wife's behavior and possible PPD diagnosis.

9percentchance | 9percentchance
Commenter sympathizes with dad and suggests divorce, replies support

ThePunchlineIsFunny | ThePunchlineIsFunny
Wife's rude comment and blame-shifting leads to missed game. 😕

YeetosCheetos69 | YeetosCheetos69
Wife's statement about slavery overshadows NTA judgement 🤔

Lizardism | Lizardism
Parenting roles and responsibilities causing conflict. 😔

heyykayyy47 | heyykayyy47
Parenting is not easy 🙁, but neglecting your child is unacceptable NTA

Thrwforksandknives | Thrwforksandknives
Lazy wife gaslights daughter, treats baby as accessory. NTA.

kurokurokuromi | kurokurokuromi
Unforeseen post-partum drama raises concern. Hopeful Instagram browsing noted.

SauronOMordor | SauronOMordor
Mom refuses diaper duty, dad misses daughter's game. Red flag?

Mejai91 | Mejai91
Supportive comment calls out bad parenting, no replies yet. 👏

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NTA dad gets support, but feels bad for criticizing wife.

Race-Carr | Race-Carr
Parenting should be 100/100. Thank you for being an example 👏

abandoned_angel | abandoned_angel
NTA stands up to neglectful wife's dismissive and ignorant comments 🙌

FriscoJanet | FriscoJanet
Commenter and reply agree: wife mistreats husband like a nanny 🙄

BoatGoingUphill | BoatGoingUphill
Encourage wife to see a doctor, not just a therapist.

nanimal77 | nanimal77
Wife's diaper duty drama causes dad to miss daughter's triumph. NTA.

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Sensitive topic: Parent seeks advice on addressing potential racism.

Tshepi-world | Tshepi-world
Commenter calls out neglectful mom, says she needs to git gud 💪

KarenSlayer9001 | KarenSlayer9001
NTA commenter suggests couple compare childcare responsibilities for agreement 👨🎲

ohsoluckyme | ohsoluckyme
Couple planned baby but wife expects husband to be a slave? 🤔😑

ducktruck27 | ducktruck27
Adoptive father seeks advice on wife's behavior affecting family dynamics.

R4catstoomany | R4catstoomany
Dad faces diaper duty drama, misses daughter's soccer triumph 😱⚽

Llyndreth | Llyndreth
Mom's diaper duty drama ruins dad's soccer triumph moment. NTA.

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Father misses daughter's soccer game due to wife's neglect. NTA.

riseagainstedits | riseagainstedits
Comment suggests legal separation due to wife's negative impact.

the_last_basselope | the_last_basselope
Supportive comment suggests building spouse's self-confidence amidst tension 👍

copper_rabbit | copper_rabbit
Single dad praised for parenting despite co-parenting challenges. 👏

Pooky582 | Pooky582
Parenting priorities clash: Dad calls out wife's neglectful behavior 😱

switchbladewitch | switchbladewitch
Commenter suggests therapy change, OP disagrees but open to discussion.

Glittering_Figure | Glittering_Figure
Dad misses daughter's game due to wife's diaper drama. NTA.

illegalrooftopbar | illegalrooftopbar
Parenting concerns raised over wife's diaper duty drama 😡

hormonalvirus | hormonalvirus
NTA dad stands up to wife's abhorrent parenting, internet agrees 👏

arahzel | arahzel
A commenter questions the wife's parenting role in the family 👀

gay_flatulent | gay_flatulent
Parenting struggles: When one parent neglects their duties. 😓

livdro650 | livdro650
NTA dad faces manipulative wife, needs to set boundaries 🙌

CoCoNa88 | CoCoNa88
Gender roles and control issues arise in diaper duty drama 🤔

Simulated_Success | Simulated_Success
Parenting conflicts arise as commenters express sympathy for dad.

Han-Lou | Han-Lou
Commenter calls out wife's inappropriate behavior in NTA situation

MatabiTheMagnificent | MatabiTheMagnificent
Parenting priorities clash at soccer game 😱⚽

emmasrad | emmasrad
Redditor suspects wife of mental abuse, advises father to stand up

VirtualMatter2 | VirtualMatter2
Supportive comment calls out gaslighting and recommends therapy for resolution.

geekspice | geekspice
Commenter suggests recording evidence of wife's neglectful behavior 📹

lemondagger | lemondagger
Parenting imbalance causing marital issues. Is divorce necessary? 🤔

UmbralApocrypha | UmbralApocrypha
Commenter suggests therapy for wife's parenting style, potential impact of her own upbringing. Replies reveal father's sexuality and stepdad.

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