Woman Loves Her Dog More Than Boyfriend's Kid: Is She In the Wrong? 😲🐶

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Meet our protagonist, a 26-year-old woman who's been in a relationship with her 28-year-old boyfriend for over two years. He has a 5-year-old son from a previous relationship, and she has a beloved dog. They don't live together, and she's always been clear about her priorities. But when her dog needed surgery, and she didn't hesitate to pay, things took a turn. The boyfriend started questioning her love for his son and her willingness to contribute financially to their relationship. Let's dive into the story and see how this love triangle unfolds. 🐶💔

The Boyfriend and His Son

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The Dog and Her Heart

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Living Arrangements

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The Surgery That Changed Everything

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Money Matters

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Family Priorities

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The Money Jokes Begin

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Vacation Planning

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The Vacation Proposal

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Her Response

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The Big Question

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The Fight and Silence

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The Breakup

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The Long Talk

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The Money Issue

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The End

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Love, Money, and Priorities: A Relationship Torn Apart 🐶💸💔

Our protagonist's love for her dog and her willingness to spend on her pet's well-being led to a rift in her relationship. Her boyfriend began to question her priorities and even expected her to contribute financially to his son's needs. The tension escalated when they discussed a vacation, and she refused to pay for a trip she wouldn't enjoy. Finally, she admitted to loving her dog more than her boyfriend's son, which led to a massive fight and ultimately, a breakup. The couple had a long talk, revealing their differing expectations on money and responsibility. In the end, they decided it was best to part ways, as they both deserved partners who shared their values. 💔🐾

Dating a guy with a son she doesn't care for? NTA, but it's time to choose: all in or walk away. 🐶

MonkeysFanny | MonkeysFanny

NTA, the comment section agrees: it's about money, not love 💵

alliwilli92 | alliwilli92

Woman adores dog over boyfriend's child; BF wants financial help. Boundaries needed.

Dramatic-Stress | Dramatic-Stress

Dating a man with a child: love the kid or leave?

Sorcha16 | Sorcha16

Balancing love for dog and boyfriend's child proves challenging. ESH.

Terpsichorean_Wombat | Terpsichorean_Wombat

Dog vs kid debate: NTA on the dog, but ESH on finances.

askingformybrain | askingformybrain

BF wants her money for his kid, NTA. Relationship future uncertain. 🐶

teresajs | teresajs

Commenter calls out both parties for not communicating effectively 👏

catchyourwave | catchyourwave

Don't let anyone guilt you into paying for his kid. NTA 👏

post_faith | post_faith

Boyfriend wants family vacation, girlfriend doesn't want to pay for kid.

ThatB0yAintR1ght | ThatB0yAintR1ght

YTA prioritizing your dog over your partner's child is wrong 😔

sdgeee | sdgeee

Woman expresses not wanting to be a mother figure. Partner agrees.

stalefuzzball85 | stalefuzzball85

Commenter calls out OP for not being mature enough to handle a relationship with a child. Replies agree and label OP as TA.

Bryek | Bryek

Choosing a dog over a boyfriend's kid? NTA, but reevaluate relationship.

AQualityKoalaTeacher | AQualityKoalaTeacher

Choosing a dog over a boyfriend's kid? NTA, according to commenters. 🐶

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Pets are family too! NTA for prioritizing your dog 🐶

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Dating someone with a kid? It's a package deal. ESH.

WildChildALR | WildChildALR

NTA. Boyfriend judges OP's spending and feels entitled to her money.

lmholot1981 | lmholot1981

Prioritizing a dog over a partner's kid? NTA, find someone compatible 🐶

spooktober36s | spooktober36s

Loving your dog more than your partner's kid? Drop his a**. 🐶


Loving animals over people is okay, but build a relationship too 🐶

Deanrox13 | Deanrox13

NTA. Incompatible lifestyles & different goals. Bonus buddies are optional. 🐶

TeddyLovedust | TeddyLovedust

Dog lover defends pet against abusive partner, sparks outrage.

mnfeathers | mnfeathers

Boyfriend wants to blend families, but isn't honest about it 🤷‍♀️🐶

SalaciousSapphic | SalaciousSapphic

Boyfriend wants girlfriend to pay for his holiday, is he TA? 🤔

Exact_Lab | Exact_Lab

Choosing a dog over a boyfriend's child: NTA or ESH?

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Dog vs. boyfriend's kid: NTA for prioritizing own finances and boundaries 🐶

kimmy_123 | kimmy_123

Dating someone with a kid but don't like their child? YTA 😕

First_Cardinal | First_Cardinal

Gender bias in dating: Woman not obligated to play momma. 🐶

JezebelBlue | JezebelBlue

Setting boundaries as a step-parent: it's okay to be friendly

lilmissalycat | lilmissalycat

Relationship advice: If you don't want to be a mother figure, leave. 🐶

carolinemathildes | carolinemathildes

Choosing a dog over a boyfriend's kid? NTA. 🐶

Violetteashes | Violetteashes

Dating someone with a kid but prioritizing a dog? ESH 😕🐶

907RedFox91 | 907RedFox91

Woman defends love for dog over boyfriend's child, sparks debate 🐶

C_Alex_author | C_Alex_author

Dating a guy with a kid? YTA for not accepting it 🚫

coolcoldrevenge | coolcoldrevenge

Loving your dog more than your boyfriend's kid? NTA according to commenters 🐶

nonanonaye | nonanonaye

NTA for prioritizing pet, but relationship with kid needs work 🐶

SahilTheCranberry | SahilTheCranberry

Woman defends her love for her dog over boyfriend's kid 🐶

bearhunt3r | bearhunt3r

Commenter questions the relationship's future with a child involved. 🤔

txsmd | txsmd

Boyfriend expects too much, dog is priority. NTA 🐶

ShadowCast2550 | ShadowCast2550

NTA for not loving boyfriend's kid, but YWBTA if you stay.

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Boyfriend's lack of support for dog's surgery may be telling. 🐶

cptnstup1d | cptnstup1d

Different priorities? Maybe it's time to reevaluate the relationship 🤔

OttoManSatire | OttoManSatire

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