Imagine living with your partner for over a year, only to find out they've been keeping a major secret from you. That's exactly what happened to one man who discovered that his boyfriend's parents had no idea about their son's sexuality, or the true nature of their relationship. 😱 The couple, both men in their twenties, had been living together in a two-bedroom flat in California, while the boyfriend's family lived in Florida. But when the parents announced they were coming to visit, things took a dramatic turn... 🌀
Man Refuses to Pretend He's Just a Roommate 🤯 The Shocking Reason Behind It!
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The Big Secret 🤫
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The Parents' Visit 🏠
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The Roommate Ruse 🎭
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Taking a Stand ✊
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The Ultimatum ⚖️
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The Accusations Fly 🗣️
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The Background 🌉
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The Broken Trust 💔
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The Temporary Solution 🚪
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The Future 🤔
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The Fallout and the Future 💥
This shocking revelation has left the couple at odds, with the man refusing to participate in the roommate ruse. He's currently staying with a friend until his boyfriend's parents leave, but the future of their relationship hangs in the balance. 😔 Being closeted is a dealbreaker for him, and he feels betrayed by his boyfriend's deception. The couple plans to talk once the parents are gone, but only time will tell if they can mend their relationship and move forward. 🤷♂️ Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...
NTA for not pretending to be someone you're not for BF's lies.
hannahsflora | hannahsflora
NTA. Boyfriend needs to come clean with parents about relationship 🌈
brownbird8888 | brownbird8888
NTA- He lied for 2 years and wants you to hide. 🚶♂️
qshak86 | qshak86
Comment section turns into a discussion about the 'quest room' 🤩
DionFW | DionFW
Coming out of the closet is hard, but staying in hurts.
BitchThunder | BitchThunder
Supportive commenters suggest discussing coming out to his parents together 👍
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Being true to yourself is more important than pleasing others. 👍
artemisreid | artemisreid
Supportive straight man defends gay bros against homophobic parents. 👏
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Honesty is key in any relationship 💍
ancientmob | ancientmob
Partner lied about being out, OP won't pretend to be straight 👮🏻👨🏻👩🏻👧🏻
belleandbean | belleandbean
Partner lied for 2 years, but people blame the one lied to? 🤔
nymrod_ | nymrod_
NTA, but forcing him to out himself is not recommended. Consider leaving.
foulbachelorlife | foulbachelorlife
A quest room? Count me in! 🤩
ms-anthrope | ms-anthrope
OP's boyfriend trying to force him back in the closet 👎
adamfnj | adamfnj
Partner's dishonesty exposed. Commenter not at fault. 👍
pbcbmf | pbcbmf
Partner comes out after lying, but denies choice to girlfriend.
ScienceNotKids | ScienceNotKids
Her boyfriend has been calling their female friends to be his pretend girlfriend 🤯
HumbleInstruction4 | HumbleInstruction4
Navigating coming out to conservative parents 🏳️🌈
DeathGP | DeathGP
Partner lied about coming out to parents, NTA for setting boundaries 👍
emanresuelbaliavayna | emanresuelbaliavayna
Roommate lied, NTA for not pretending. I get it 😊
BreeezyP | BreeezyP
NTA for not tolerating closetedness dealbreaker and being lied to.
ChiaraSs7 | ChiaraSs7
Curious about the spare bedroom's double duty? 🤔
DieseljareD187 | DieseljareD187
Partner's closeted sexuality causes issues with bigoted parents. NTA.
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Betrayed and lied to, NTA stands up for themselves 🙌
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Partner's refusal to come out to parents, NTA. 👍
portlandtrees333 | portlandtrees333
Partner lied about sexuality, expects deception. NTA for leaving.
chokeychokey | chokeychokey
Gay man gives advice to partner on coming out to parents
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Partner's deception and lack of trust causes heartbreak. NTA.
OzemirtheBard | OzemirtheBard
Don't be his closeted roommate. You gave him the ultimatum.
Avistew | Avistew
Navigating the complexities of coming out to parents. 👨🎓 NTA for standing up for yourself.
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Movie recommendation to educate clueless boyfriend 📺
nobracketsociety | nobracketsociety
Partner's closeted status causes major inconvenience and trust issues. NTA.
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OP refuses to pretend he's just a roommate to protect BF's secret
stappernn | stappernn
Partner is NTA for wanting honesty, but outing is wrong 👍
fantasticox | fantasticox
Lesbian commenter shares understanding and advice for closeted boyfriend.
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Don't be someone's dirty little secret 👍 NTA
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Transform your spare room into an adventure with quest ideas! 🛠
Saltystrawberrys | Saltystrawberrys
The struggle of maintaining a relationship with unsupportive parents 😢
Donthurlemogurlx | Donthurlemogurlx
Boyfriend lied for 2+ years about being out to family. NTA.
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Partner lied about being just a roommate for 2+ years. NTA.
superfastmomma | superfastmomma
Deceived for 2 years - NTA's fury over closeted partner 🗣️
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Partner comes out after 2 years of lying. Trust issues?
the_great_zyzogg | the_great_zyzogg
Southern mother supports son's relationship, urges him to not accept denial
RoseyOnTheOtherSide | RoseyOnTheOtherSide
Insider shares heartbreaking story of cultural acceptance and honesty.
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Roommate situation ends with NTA verdict 👍
kappaschlange | kappaschlange
Don't settle for being a secret 👍 You deserve better.
Goatlessly | Goatlessly
Respect his privacy, but don't compromise your own values 🙌
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Setting boundaries and respecting choices. NTA 👍
lets-get-dangerous | lets-get-dangerous
Being true to yourself is never wrong. 👏 #NTA
Chicho77 | Chicho77
Queer person supports OP's decision to not pretend to be roommate.
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Honesty is the best policy 👍
SantaPachaMama | SantaPachaMama
Partner's denial and lack of communication leads to NTA judgement.
jgcrawfo | jgcrawfo
Hiding relationship from SO's family is not okay. NTA.
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