New Coworker's 'Ball and Chain' Joke Leaves Everyone Stunned 😲

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

We've all heard those old-fashioned jokes about spouses being a 'ball and chain,' but what happens when someone takes it a bit too seriously? A 21-year-old employee found themselves in a situation where a new coworker, Sean, was making jokes about lying to his wife to go out for drinks. Concerned about the implications, the employee confronted Sean, asking if he was okay and if he was really not allowed out without permission. This awkward exchange left the group questioning if the employee was in the wrong for taking the joke too far. Let's dive into the story... 🤔🍻

Happy Hour with Coworkers 🍻

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Sean's 'Ball and Chain' Joke 😅

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Concerned for Sean 😟

throwra-step-sis | throwra-step-sis

Abusive Past and Worries 💔

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Asking Sean If He's Okay 😕

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Sean's Response 🤷‍♂️

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Pushing the Issue 🧐

throwra-step-sis | throwra-step-sis

"You Know Women..." 🙄

throwra-step-sis | throwra-step-sis

Conversation Shifts 🔄

throwra-step-sis | throwra-step-sis

Embarrassing the New Guy? 😳

throwra-step-sis | throwra-step-sis

Not Getting the 'Relatable' Part 🤨

throwra-step-sis | throwra-step-sis

Cringy and Sexist Joke? 🤔

throwra-step-sis | throwra-step-sis

Questioning Their Actions 🙇‍♂️

throwra-step-sis | throwra-step-sis

Taking a Joke Too Far or Genuine Concern? 🤷‍♀️

So, what do you think? Was the employee out of line for taking the 'ball and chain' joke too seriously, or were they right to express concern for their new coworker's situation? It's a tricky situation, especially when personal experiences and emotions come into play. Let's see what people have to say about this awkward happy hour encounter... 🍻💬

Using innocent confusion to take down sexist and racist jokes 😍

lightwoodorchestra | lightwoodorchestra

Middle-aged coworker's sexist joke sparks age divide in comment section 😑

TypicalTeapot | TypicalTeapot

Calling out a sexist joke - NTA. But is he?

Substantial_Recipe67 | Substantial_Recipe67

Calling out sexist jokes at work - good move 💪

mckinnos | mckinnos

Calling out harmful jokes and promoting resources for abuse victims. 👏

mkhorn | mkhorn

Don't normalize toxic relationships under the guise of marriage. NTA.

Insta_Saddie | Insta_Saddie

Compassion wins. It's better to err on the side of kindness 🙌

Phreno-Logical | Phreno-Logical

Shutting down sexist jokes like a boss! 💪

hollowstars | hollowstars

Coworker's sexist 'joke' falls flat, NTA for calling him out 😱

e-elegia | e-elegia

NTA. 'Ball and chain' jokes are not funny and disrespectful 😒

princess-sauerkraut | princess-sauerkraut

Tim Robinson would be proud of this coworker's failed joke 😂

filmkritter | filmkritter

Debate over 'ball and chain' joke and marital obligations.

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Commenter shuts down sexist joke and shares relatable experience.

Finchfarmerquilts | Finchfarmerquilts

Commenter unintentionally funny while supporting NTA coworker 😂

Calmandwise | Calmandwise

Stop normalizing toxic jokes about marriage. #NTA 🚨

PurpleDot0 | PurpleDot0

Three possible scenarios, but either way, you did the right thing 👍

possibility204 | possibility204

Calling out sexist joke and childcare responsibilities. NAH vs YTA

astrobuckeye | astrobuckeye

A link to a comic about straight people. 😐

dontgetcutewithme | dontgetcutewithme

NTA genuinely calls out toxic 'joke' and wins brownie points 👏

uhno28 | uhno28

A lesson on respect in relationships, but is 'checking in' necessary? 🤔

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Supportive comment encourages empathy towards coworker in abusive situation 👍

Final_Commission4160 | Final_Commission4160

Quick thinking and alertness saved the day! 👏

Decent_Ad6389 | Decent_Ad6389

Fighting against toxic workplace culture, shutting down sexist jokes 💪

YamaChampion | YamaChampion

Handling unfunny jokes like a pro 😎

bishkebab | bishkebab

Standing up against sexism, NTA comment sets a great example! 💪

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Sexist 'joke' perpetuates harmful stereotypes about marriage and relationships. NTA.

Raevyne | Raevyne

Defending against a sexist joke, NTA for calling it out 💪

ConsistentCheesecake | ConsistentCheesecake

Perfect response to cringey and sexist 'joke' 😊

JennaLS | JennaLS

Calling out regressive humor earns NTA commenter praise 👏

CatTaxAuditor | CatTaxAuditor

NTA. Married people deserve a social life too 😎

Agreeable-Asparagus | Agreeable-Asparagus

Commenter defends women and calls out sexist coworker 💪

ViolasDIL | ViolasDIL

Insightful comment on the 'ball and chain' joke phenomenon 😍

joljenni1717 | joljenni1717

Victory for equality! Commenter shuts down sexist coworker's joke 💪

annaflixion | annaflixion

Calling out toxic masculinity in the workplace 💪

mynotsosecretreddit1 | mynotsosecretreddit1

Standing up against sexist jokes, NTA wins the day 💪

Anubis-Hound | Anubis-Hound

Breaking the stereotype: Men can be victims of abuse too 🚨

MotherofJackals | MotherofJackals

Misunderstood joke leads to awkward situation, NTA suggests apology.

Nesterminator | Nesterminator

Understanding sarcasm can be tricky, even for the best.

earthtoeveryoneX | earthtoeveryoneX

Don't be afraid to challenge harmful 'cultural contexts' 💪

kgberton | kgberton

Promoting unhealthy relationship ideals? Not funny. NTA.

Ace_In_The_Whole1776 | Ace_In_The_Whole1776

Buried! NTA shuts down inappropriate joke 👍

twiggy572 | twiggy572

Bro-itude alert! NTA coworker shuts down inappropriate joke 🙌

SwiggyBloodlust | SwiggyBloodlust

Outdated sexist jokes have no place in the workplace 😑

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Perfect response to sexist joke shuts down coworker's behavior 💪

ameinias | ameinias

Commenter praises OP for not changing and being amazing 😍

Oracle5of7 | Oracle5of7

Standing up against abusive language - a job well done! 💪

TheCBDiva | TheCBDiva

Commenter defends OP and criticizes outdated joke, mentions COVID-19 concerns.

shades-of-gray312 | shades-of-gray312

Commenter finds joke funny and plans to use it. NTA.

lolatheshark | lolatheshark

NTA responds to a sexist joke with concern 😊

Libra180 | Libra180

Spouse jokes aren't funny, they're a red flag 😑

sparklesparkle5 | sparklesparkle5

Defending against harmful jokes, NTA's reaction is hilarious 😂

West-Cook | West-Cook

Combatting offensive jokes with confusion and empathy 🤷‍♂️

SereniaKat | SereniaKat

Standing up against toxic humor 💪

MaddiGenn | MaddiGenn

Supportive comment receives positive response. 👍

Unidentifiedten | Unidentifiedten

Supportive response to reasonable boundaries set by coworker's spouse 🙌

nagchampachampagne | nagchampachampagne

Complimented for being a mature 21-year-old after NTA comment 😊

plantscatsrealitytv | plantscatsrealitytv

Making connections at work can change your life 👍

IcicleRock | IcicleRock

Empowering response to sexist joke earns NTA judgement 👏

johnnybird95 | johnnybird95

Commenter defends coworker and shuts down sexist joke with empathy 👏

liamsmum | liamsmum

Redditors discuss straight relationships and toxic behavior.

Calvo7992 | Calvo7992

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