Imagine saving up for years to take your daughter on a dream trip to Italy, only to have your ex and his new wife demand you bring along your daughter’s stepsister on your dime. That’s the dilemma one father is facing, as his ex and her husband insist that their daughter, Lisa, should join the trip because she and Rebecca are ‘basically sisters.’ But Rebecca isn’t too keen on the idea, and neither is her dad. Let’s dive into the story and see what unfolds.
The Background: Two Families Entwined

Rebecca and Lisa: Stepsisters but not Friends

The Dream Trip: Italy Awaits

The Stepsister Dilemma: Lisa Wants In

Financial Expectations: Who Pays?

Rebecca’s Opinion: No Stepsister, Please

Carrie’s Response: Cruel and Selfish?

The Cost of Inclusion: Is it Worth it?

Grandparents Chime In: More Pressure

The Final Decision: To Bring or Not to Bring

Affordability vs. Principle

The Great Europe Trip Debate: Who’s in the Right?
So, the question remains: Should this dad give in to the pressure and bring his daughter’s stepsister on their dream trip to Italy, even though Rebecca doesn’t want her there? The financial burden isn’t the main issue, but the principle of the matter. Is it fair to expect the dad and his new partner to cover the stepsister’s expenses? Or should they stand their ground and keep the trip exclusive to their family? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this sticky situation…








NTA- Don’t let them ruin your once-in-a-lifetime trip

NTA. Spending time with YOUR family is what matters

Protecting daughter’s boundaries on Europe trip with dad and stepsister

NTA – Direct response to stepsister’s unfair demand

Secure your ex’s agreement before your daughter’s stepsister’s trip

Avoiding family drama over a Europe trip

Stepdaughter’s mom demands free trip, commenter says NTA.
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Protect her passport and enjoy your family vacation!

Don’t reward poor behavior. Ex and his wife are entitled.

Using children as weapons for personal gain is despicable.







Explaining the complications of taking a non-relative on a trip

Respect your daughter’s wishes, it’s your trip after all!

Respect Rebecca’s wishes and let Carrie and Steve plan separately

Passport concerns addressed, but family drama still lingers. NTA.

Taking someone else’s minor child on a foreign trip? NTA.

Step-sister wants a free trip, but OP’s daughter doesn’t want her. NTA.

Step-sibling ruining kid’s vacation? NTA for saying no

Step sister demands trip. Daughter said no. NTA.

Pitch in for your own kid. NTA, not responsible for Lisa.

Protecting the bond with your daughter . Don’t let Lisa ruin it.

Don’t let entitled stepsister ruin your daughter’s trip

Stay-at-home mom defends daughter’s Europe trip, criticizes stepsister’s entitlement.

Setting boundaries with family over a trip. NTA

Politely decline and don’t feel guilty. NTA

Set boundaries and say no. NTA comment section

Teaching entitled stepsister a lesson with a European trip? NTA

Ex’s entitled wife demands trip with daughter. NTA stands firm.

Stepdaughter refuses to take stepsister on trip. NTA.

Sassy reply suggests Carrie should wait for Lisa’s stepmom divorce

Daughter’s stepsister demands Europe trip, but NTA for refusing.

Taking stepsister on Europe trip? NTA says commenter.

Teenager not entitled to family vacation money. NTA

Commenter is not the a**hole, but why?

Taking someone else’s kid on a Europe trip? NTA says comment.

Stepparent refuses stepsister’s Europe trip demand, NTA
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Support for refusing to pay for stepsister’s Europe trip.

Hands-off approach to step-sister’s travel demands

Respect your daughter’s wishes, NTA.

Step-sister demands Europe trip, but it’s not OP’s responsibility.

Don’t let anyone pressure you into spending your hard-earned savings!
#NTA

Daughter’s stepsister demands to join Europe trip, but OP is NTA.

Boundaries set for entitled stepsister demanding Europe trip

Daughter dislikes stepsister, NTA for not bringing her on trip

Supportive comment defends daughter’s trip, throws shade at stepsister

Ex’s new partner demands Europe trip: NTA, don’t entertain them

Ex’s wife demands daughter’s stepsister join Europe trip: NTA for refusing

User jokingly offers to send money, advises OP not responsible. NTA

Prioritizing your child’s dream trip over others’ feelings. NTA

Stick to your guns and say no, NTA

Daughter’s dream trip to Italy, not stepsister’s entitlement

Don’t let jealousy ruin your trip! NTA but handle carefully
