Imagine finding an abandoned dog, taking him in, and falling in love with him over two years. Now, picture your family members moving in and your autistic nephew bonding with the dog. The family thinks they're entitled to keep the dog, but you're not ready to let go. What would you do? 🐶💔
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A Heartbreaking Dilemma: Who Gets to Keep Dave? 💔🐶
After unexpectedly adopting Dave the dog and loving him for two years, a family is torn apart when the autistic nephew bonds with him. The in-laws believe they're entitled to keep Dave, but the original rescuer isn't ready to let go. Is it fair to use the nephew's autism as leverage? Can a dog be replaced so easily? As the family grapples with this emotional decision, let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 😢🐾
Husband made a decision without consulting OP. BIL's family overbearing. NTA.
VivaVeronica | VivaVeronica
Teaching kids about disappointment and adopting a service dog instead. NTA 🐶
CaliforniaJade | CaliforniaJade
Creative solution suggested with humorous Reddit commentary. 😂
daaaayyyy_dranker | daaaayyyy_dranker
NTA for wanting to keep your dog. Your husband and in-laws are AHs for giving him away without your consent. Dave has bonded with you and deserves to stay with his family. 🐶
okileggs1992 | okileggs1992
Don't treat pets like toys. NTA for wanting to keep.
terrapharma | terrapharma
Commenter receives support after calling out rude husband 👏
kittcatkelly | kittcatkelly
NTA. The dog is a part of OP's family for 2 years. It's not an object that can be passed around. Neurodivergent person here, he can find another dog IMO. 🐶
undergroundmakeup | undergroundmakeup
Dog's well-being should be top priority. Stick to your guns! 🐶
ddduckduckduck | ddduckduckduck
🐶 Nephew's attachment to dog understandable, but NTA has valid point
Corvidaei | Corvidaei
ESH. Communication is key in making decisions about pets 🐶
im-cold-pls-help | im-cold-pls-help
Heartfelt discussion on who deserves to keep a beloved dog 🐶
JAvantGartist | JAvantGartist
User defends keeping dog with compelling evidence. 🐶
GinnyFromTheBlock96 | GinnyFromTheBlock96
Dog ownership dispute: NTA, husband and in-laws need consent 🐶
MountainCityDweller | MountainCityDweller
Foster fails are a thing. Parents should find nephew another dog.
fiveoclockmocktail | fiveoclockmocktail
Stand your ground and keep Dave! 🐶 #NTA
Critical_Aspect | Critical_Aspect
In-laws need to find a new companion, NTA 🐶
foozballisdevil | foozballisdevil
Wife claims ownership of dog, husband gives it away. NTA.
uglyatheist | uglyatheist
Dog ownership dispute: Autistic sibling wants dog back. NTA stands firm.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Two years later, NTA for keeping Dave. Unfair to expect otherwise.
Midnightnox | Midnightnox
Dog belongs with OP and their dog 🐶
MissConduct0120 | MissConduct0120
NTA. Keep both dogs for their happiness and companionship 🐶
101Geese | 101Geese
Your dog, your rules 🐶. Nephew can adopt his own pet.
gratefulbeav | gratefulbeav
Dog ownership dispute due to lack of communication between spouses. ESH.
MaggieLuisa | MaggieLuisa
Rescued dog is family, not a possession. NTA for keeping.
Dead_Quinn | Dead_Quinn
Therapeutic dogs can be a life saver for kids with autism 🐶
jaethegreatone | jaethegreatone
Rescued dog, rescued family. Don't let bullies win 🐶
Aretta_Conagher | Aretta_Conagher
Stand your ground and don't give in to manipulation tactics. 👍
MikkiTh | MikkiTh
Stand your ground and keep Dave! 🐶
DutyValuable | DutyValuable
A heartwarming NAH comment about sharing the beloved dog.
sirdodger | sirdodger
Husband wants to give away dog. Commenter is NTA. 🐶
H_P_LootCraft | H_P_LootCraft
Communication is key! ESH in dog custody battle 🐶
ThatThreesome | ThatThreesome
Stand your ground! 🐶 Your husband's suggestion is ridiculous.
Church_Creed | Church_Creed
Dog owner fiercely defends keeping their beloved pet from family.
Staci_DC101 | Staci_DC101
A heated debate over rehoming a dog with insightful replies.
Chaserbaser | Chaserbaser
Protect your pup! Know your rights and stand your ground 🐶
ElizaCat9 | ElizaCat9
In-laws want the dog? NTA, but hubby needs a reality check 🐶
Ms_Dizzy_Star | Ms_Dizzy_Star
Autistic commenter defends dog ownership, calls out bullying. 🐶
Zinthr | Zinthr
Heartbreaking story of losing a beloved pet due to family pressure 😢
wolfmoru | wolfmoru
In-laws show no consideration for pet-human bond. NTA.
m_lanterman | m_lanterman
Savage comment suggests keeping the dog and dumping the husband 😎
FleurDeCLE | FleurDeCLE
Rescued dog, permanent part of life. Husband's character in question 🐶
maggotdenier | maggotdenier
Miscommunication leads to family drama over beloved dog 🐶
laderblades | laderblades
Autistic person not entitled to keep dog, adopt instead 🐶
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Fur-ever yours! Commenter keeps beloved dog, no a-hole here. 🐶
rogerg411 | rogerg411
Street dog custody battle: NTA's advice for rightful owner.
CadieWithTheLaugh424 | CadieWithTheLaugh424
Don't be entitled to someone else's dog 🐶. Find your own furry friend 💕
Dovahkiinkv1 | Dovahkiinkv1
NTA: Dogs are family, not possessions 🐶
markdmac | markdmac
NTA. Keep your dog. Nephew's family can adopt an older rescue 🐶
backaritagain | backaritagain
Fighting for a furry friend's happiness and security 🐶
PWMPups | PWMPups
Creative solution proposed for dog custody battle 🐶
RetroRian | RetroRian
Consider the dog's feelings too! Does Dave like the kid?
Witchynana | Witchynana
A beloved dog becomes family. NTA for treating him as such 🐶
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Nephew can find another dog. Parents milking a cash cow. 🐶
MaxTheHor | MaxTheHor
Spouse's disregard for pet raises red flags 🐶
Cool_Rub_7280 | Cool_Rub_7280
Commenter defends keeping beloved dog, compares it to child custody.
A_70s_Virgo | A_70s_Virgo
Dog ownership dispute: NTA, husband's decision seems unfair. Consider dog's feelings 🐶
Dukespino | Dukespino
Stand your ground! Your family has no right to your dog 🐶
Inevitable-Celery-62 | Inevitable-Celery-62
Respectful pet adoption etiquette: Don't try to adopt someone's pet 🐶
happy_panda2400 | happy_panda2400
Dog custody battle turns nasty, but NTA stands their ground 🐶
fernstarx | fernstarx
User defends rightful ownership of dog against entitled family.
Twallot | Twallot
Defending her right to keep the dog against family bullying 🐶
Railroader17 | Railroader17
Commenter supports NTA in dog custody battle 🐶
TheFastLoris | TheFastLoris
Stand your ground and keep the dog 🐶, in-laws be damned 👊
Avebury1 | Avebury1
