Christmas Baby Forced to Choose Between Birthday and Christmas: Who's the Real Grinch? 🎄🎂

Diply Social Team
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Imagine being born on Christmas Day and being forced to choose between celebrating your birthday or Christmas. Sounds like a plot from a holiday movie, right? Well, for one 21-year-old woman, this was her reality. Her parents believed it was greedy to have two celebrations on the same day, so they made her choose between the two. This decision left her feeling excluded and miserable during the holiday season. But now, she's finally standing up for herself. Let's dive into her story. 🎄🎂

A Christmas Birthday Dilemma 🎄🎂

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An Unfair Choice 😔

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Excluded from the Festivities 🎄❌

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A Lose-Lose Situation 😢

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Extended Family Caught in the Middle 😕

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Childhood Hell 😖

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Zoom Call Showdown 📱💥

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Finally Standing Up ✊

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Money Wasn't the Issue 💰

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Family's Reaction 😠

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Christmas Guilt 🎄😔

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Overwhelming Support 🥰

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Best Christmas/Birthday 🎄🎂

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Grateful for the Love ❤️

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A Lifetime of Choosing: Birthday or Christmas? 🤔

This young woman's story of being forced to choose between her birthday and Christmas celebrations is both heartbreaking and infuriating. Her parents' decision to make her choose between the two, despite being financially capable of celebrating both, left her feeling excluded and miserable during the holiday season. Now, she's finally standing up for herself, but her family thinks she's being selfish. What do you think? Let's see what the internet has to say about this festive fiasco... 🎄🎂💔

Choosing between birthday and Christmas? NTA, and commenters agree.

xwordmom | xwordmom

Family drama during holidays? NTA, but why still talk?

Trenvilla | Trenvilla

Parents force child to choose between birthday and Christmas. NTA.

foibleShmoible | foibleShmoible

A heartwarming NTA comment with a birthday wish 🎂

HorseWithNoNames | HorseWithNoNames

Commenter calls out parents for cartoonishly evil behavior. 👏

WallabyInTraining | WallabyInTraining

Choosing a birthday is not an option. 😂

The_Big_Red_Wookie | The_Big_Red_Wookie

Celebrate both! 🎉🎄 NTA deserves a double celebration 🎂🎁

Kreeblim | Kreeblim

Grandad enforces two gifts rule for Christmas birthday, sparks family drama 😒

brunette-38 | brunette-38

Mom of Christmas baby receives support after family combines celebrations.

wind-river7 | wind-river7

Being born on Christmas sucks! NTA, celebrate both holidays 🎄🎂

taykelly28 | taykelly28

Excluded from Christmas? NTA celebrates birthday and holiday! 🎄

Vaughn125 | Vaughn125

Celebrate your child's birthday and Christmas, NTA. 🎂🎄

AmazingRise | AmazingRise

Family's manipulative behavior towards Christmas baby's birthday. NTA wins.

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Celebrate your birthday mid-year for the best of both worlds 🎂🎄

NotSoSilentWatcher | NotSoSilentWatcher

Don't apologize for celebrating your birthday. NTA 🎂

kma1391 | kma1391

Parents treated commenter poorly, NTA, Happy Birthday and Merry Xmas 🎄

SharksInSpace1899 | SharksInSpace1899

Choosing between birthday and Christmas? NTA calls out the weirdness 🎄🎂

shhh_its_me | shhh_its_me

Birthdays near Christmas: NTA comment resonates with many, sparks agreement

Cummybot2-0 | Cummybot2-0

Extended family forgets birthday, commenter not the a**hole (NTA) 😒

Book_devourer | Book_devourer

NTA suggests turning the tables on entitled family members 😎

Squeakiegreen | Squeakiegreen

Parents force child to choose between birthday and Christmas. NTA.

5pinktoes | 5pinktoes

Heartbreaking dilemma for Christmas baby. NTA offers sympathy.

FairieWarrior | FairieWarrior

Celebrate both! This NTA comment and its reply agree.

Jovet_Hunter | Jovet_Hunter

Heartbreaking! Commenter sympathizes with Christmas Baby's unfair situation. 😢

hellofuckingjulie | hellofuckingjulie

Agreed, that policy is a real holiday buzzkill. 😒


Manipulative parents force holiday choice. NTA stands up for self. 😊

sour_lemons | sour_lemons

Excluded from Christmas tree and family call? NTA, cut ties. 🎄

prple_ppl_eater | prple_ppl_eater

Stand up for yourself and demand an apology. NTA 👏

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Commenter sympathizes with bizarre situation, calls out intentional harm. 😕

angry_centipede | angry_centipede

Birthday on Christmas, family wants both? NTA, stand up!

SimplySignifier | SimplySignifier

Celebrating a Christmas baby's birthday in January to avoid overshadowing 🎄

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Heartbreaking abuse, but commenter supports OP's decision. 😢

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Celebrate your birthday week without them! NTA 🎂

GeorgeBird0457 | GeorgeBird0457

Logical NTA comment leaves brains hurting 🤯

margherita_ | margherita_

Insensitive comment receives no support or agreement 😑

my_chaffed_legs | my_chaffed_legs

Birthday-Christmas conflict: Empathetic NTA comment, no replies yet.

greenbean17- | greenbean17-

Celebrate both! NTA! Outrageous to choose between birthday and Christmas. 🎂🎄

Agent_Scully9114 | Agent_Scully9114

Don't let anyone ruin your special day! 🎂🎄

my_chaffed_legs | my_chaffed_legs

Celebrate both! 🎉 Happy Birthday and Merry Christmas 🎄

wildonceuponatime | wildonceuponatime

Parenting gone wrong: Christmas vs Birthday. NTA stands up.

Hikaru2000 | Hikaru2000

Saving money or robbing joy? The ethics of dual holidays.

SadFin13 | SadFin13

NTA suggests cutting ties with family over holiday dilemma 😭

colourouu | colourouu

Short and sweet birthday wishes 🎉

furrie99 | furrie99

Double the celebration! A heartwarming NTA comment and reply. 🎄🎂

koalasarentbears22 | koalasarentbears22

Splitting the present is a simple solution. NTA's reasoning explained.

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Don't let anyone ruin your special day. Happy Birthday 🎂

Arete823 | Arete823

NTA! Unfair treatment on your birthday and Christmas. Double gifts! 🎂🎄

EmLahLady | EmLahLady

A clever half-day celebration idea for Christmas babies. 🎂🎄

One-Audience7821 | One-Audience7821

Celebrating a Christmas baby's birthday is a must, not optional 🎂

A_Biased_God | A_Biased_God

Celebrate both! NTA for not wanting to choose 🎂🎄

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Relatable experience with supportive message. 😊🎂

magictubesocksofjoy | magictubesocksofjoy

Birthday overshadowed by Christmas? NTA for not apologizing. 🎂

brownhaircurlyhair | brownhaircurlyhair

Parents forbid Christmas decorations for a birthday? NTA wins!

FelixAusted | FelixAusted

Celebrating a Christmas baby's birthday isn't greedy 😊

lily3388 | lily3388

Celebrating a Christmas birthday doesn't have to suck 🎄🎂

splendidwaffle | splendidwaffle

Supportive comment offers help to someone in need. 💚

gregdrunk | gregdrunk

A clever combination of two special days 🎂🎄

savita0604 | savita0604

Choosing between Christmas and birthday is bad parenting 😕

MissCheyenne14 | MissCheyenne14

Short and sweet birthday wishes 🎂

therapyinprogress | therapyinprogress

Sibling's Christmas birthday causes parental cop-out. NTA, condolences.

MeowMyOvaries | MeowMyOvaries

Celebrating a Christmas baby's birthday isn't that hard 🎂

WereLupeQueen | WereLupeQueen

Commenter expresses disbelief at child's forced choice, offers support 🎉🎄

lynziB | lynziB

Celebrating a Christmas birthday: NTA and a happy birthday wish 🎂

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