Pregnant Woman Left Alone in Hospital: Fear of Hospitals or Just Plain Insensitive? 🤔

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Imagine being 15 weeks pregnant and suddenly experiencing heavy bleeding at work. You rush to the ER, terrified that you might be losing your baby. You call your boyfriend for support, but he's too busy playing video games with his friends. Even when your boss offers to pick him up and bring him to the hospital, he refuses. Is his fear of hospitals a valid excuse, or is he just being plain insensitive? Read on to find out what happened in this heart-wrenching story. 😢💔

Terrifying Bleeding Incident 😰

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Video Games Over Support? 🎮

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Boyfriend's Reluctance 😕

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Boss Steps In 👩‍💼

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Still a No-Show 🙅‍♂️

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Distracted and Alone 😔

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Nurses' Cold Comfort ❄️

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Driving Home Alone 😞

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Confrontation at Home 🤬

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Fear of Hospitals? 🏥

no-one-wants-me | no-one-wants-me

Spider Comparison 🕷️

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Inconsiderate or Justified? 🤷‍♀️

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Update: Overwhelming Support 🥰

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Same Guy, Same Problems 😓

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Looking for Resources 🌟

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Fear of Hospitals vs. Support: Who's Right? 🤷‍♀️

In this emotionally charged story, a pregnant woman is left to face a terrifying ordeal alone at the hospital while her boyfriend chooses video games and his fear of hospitals over supporting her. Was she inconsiderate of his fear, or should he have put her needs first? The internet has weighed in with overwhelming support for the woman, urging her to find a way out of this relationship for her and her child's sake. What do you think? Share your thoughts in the comments! 💬💔

NTA. Concerns raised about partner's future behavior. Support offered.

fatheryeg | fatheryeg

Commenter and replies unanimously agree to leave the abusive partner.

Hotbitch2019 | Hotbitch2019

Commenter calls out immature boyfriend, warns OP of future with him.

MD7001 | MD7001

Commenter receives support and understanding for being in an abusive relationship.

Puzzleheaded_Order78 | Puzzleheaded_Order78

Expecting father refuses to attend appointments and birth. 😑

thisisgettingdaft | thisisgettingdaft

Protect yourself and your baby with legal agreements. 👍

QuinGood | QuinGood

NTA's partner prioritizes their pregnant SO over hospital fears 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA calls out immature and inconsiderate partner, sparks red flags 🚩

scbalazs | scbalazs

Commenter advises pregnant woman to leave toxic partner. 👍

NinjaDefenestrator | NinjaDefenestrator

Supportive comment for pregnant woman abandoned at hospital. 👏

lilmiscantberong | lilmiscantberong

Partner prioritizes video games over pregnant girlfriend in hospital. NTA.

Accomplished_Kick181 | Accomplished_Kick181

Partner leaves pregnant woman alone to play videogames, NTA.

lilEve77 | lilEve77

A supportive partner is crucial during tough times 👏

CadenceQuandry | CadenceQuandry

Curious comment and replies, demanding more information 🤔

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Support for NTA but concern for gaslighting behavior 👍

EastLeastCoast | EastLeastCoast

BF's fear of hospitals overrode fear for unborn child's life 😱

soul_and_fire | soul_and_fire

Red flags in the relationship. Seek help and support 🙏

paperbackedsea | paperbackedsea

Boyfriend prioritizes video games over pregnant partner's needs 😡

Many-Example-1747 | Many-Example-1747

Partner prioritizes videogames over pregnant girlfriend's hospital visit. Toxic behavior 💯

gnimmuc6898 | gnimmuc6898

Concerned commenter urges pregnant woman to seek help and support 🙏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Commenter suggests extreme action for neglectful boyfriend. 😱

Sufficient-Opening57 | Sufficient-Opening57

Insensitive boyfriend neglects pregnant girlfriend, NTA for leaving him.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Harsh but necessary advice for someone in an abusive relationship. 🚨

Ultrabigasstaco | Ultrabigasstaco

NTA comment: BF's immaturity and lack of concern for health 😠

Codename_Jelly | Codename_Jelly

Concerns raised about unreliable boyfriend's role in birthing plan 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Dump him already! 🤦‍♀️ YTA for staying with him.

positivepeoplehater | positivepeoplehater

Man's fear of hospitals may have stemmed from past trauma.

plushiemancer | plushiemancer

Boyfriend prioritizes video games over pregnant girlfriend's hospital stay. NTA.

Craniumology | Craniumology

Red flags in OP's post history make situation even scarier. 😱

FireflyExotica | FireflyExotica

Boyfriend's fear of hospitals causing communication breakdown during pregnancy 🤦‍♀️

ElectricMoccoson | ElectricMoccoson

Warning for the future with a NTA comment 😡

itstheweathergirll | itstheweathergirll

Single mom-to-be gets real about her situation 🙏

uberpop | uberpop

Lack of empathy from BF towards pregnant partner. Have a serious talk 👍

xonoodlerolls | xonoodlerolls

Commenter offers advice on immature partner and father potential.

hummingbird1969 | hummingbird1969

Commenter advises pregnant woman to leave abusive boyfriend. 🚫

SlothyGirl42069 | SlothyGirl42069

Father's absence during childbirth questioned. 😳

cupcakecounter | cupcakecounter

Ex-boyfriend's neglectful behavior during asthma attack. NTA.

SuzanneStoHelit | SuzanneStoHelit

Partner's fear of hospitals leaves pregnant woman alone. NTA.

fromhelley | fromhelley

Concerned comment receives no replies, hope the woman is safe. 😢

GeorgiaOQweefe | GeorgiaOQweefe

Encouraging comment to leave abusive relationship before baby arrives 👍

ClarinetKitten | ClarinetKitten

Pregnant woman left alone in hospital during medical emergency. NTA.

A_Brit_Abroad | A_Brit_Abroad

Empowering advice for a pregnant woman dealing with an absent partner. 👏

Special-Attitude-242 | Special-Attitude-242

Partner fails to be there for pregnant woman in hospital 😢

ddra196 | ddra196

Partner fails to provide support during emergency 😔

PinkDancingFlamingo | PinkDancingFlamingo

Pregnant woman gets support for ditching unsupportive partner. 👏

Zubinka | Zubinka

Pregnant woman not at fault, but why NTA? 🤔

idowithkozlowski | idowithkozlowski

NTA, but where to run? 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supportive comment urges pregnant woman to leave abusive partner. 👏

SaintBetty_the_White | SaintBetty_the_White

Partner's lack of attention during hospital visit raises red flags 🤔

Expensive-Ad-3006 | Expensive-Ad-3006

Commenter expresses concern for pregnant woman left alone. 😱

TeeDiddy324 | TeeDiddy324

Partner refuses to attend appointments or birth. NTA to leave. 👍

Melin_Lavendel_Rosa | Melin_Lavendel_Rosa

Single parenting is easier than dealing with a deadbeat dad. 👍

squintintarantino__ | squintintarantino__

Warning signs of abuse in relationships. Seek help and safety.

Ninanotseen | Ninanotseen

Supportive comment advises caution and standing up for oneself. 👍

CrazyPenguin_90 | CrazyPenguin_90

Find solace in r/momforaminute's unconditional love and support ❤️

your_surrogate_mom | your_surrogate_mom

Supportive comment calls out unsupportive partner. 👏

SereneGoldfish | SereneGoldfish

Dump him! Pregnant woman left alone in hospital. 👍

HOUAtty | HOUAtty

Savage response to a questionable father figure. 😂

HazyMclazy24 | HazyMclazy24

Curious comment with no context. 🤔

juicy_belly | juicy_belly

Serious warning to OP about leaving abusive partner. 😱

honeymallow | honeymallow

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