Deadbeat Dad Demands Custody After 11 Years to Avoid Child Support! 😲

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Imagine having a child and the father denying paternity despite DNA evidence. Fast forward 11 years, and the same dad suddenly demands custody of the child, not out of love, but to avoid child support payments! 😠💔 This is the story of a mother who shared her experience online, seeking opinions on whether she was wrong for not forcing her son to meet his estranged father.

DNA Doesn't Lie 🧬

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Courtroom Drama 😳

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Questionable Remarks 🤬

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Judge's Decision 🏛️

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Unwanted Support 💸

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Back Child Support 😨

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CPS Gets Involved 📞

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Sudden Custody Request 🤔

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Ulterior Motive Exposed 🚨

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Mother Says No ❌

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Son's Opinion Matters 🗣️

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Son's Decision 🚫

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Ex's Threats 😤

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Uninformed Guess 💭

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Harsh Words 🤬

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Using a Child to Dodge Payments? 😡

This mother's story has left many people outraged. After 11 years of denying paternity and paying minimal child support, the deadbeat dad suddenly wants custody of his son. But it's not out of love or a desire to be a father. Instead, he wants to lower his child support payments! 😠 The mother, rightfully upset, refuses to force her son to meet his estranged father. The son also expresses no interest in meeting him. The father threatens to take the matter to court, but his true intentions are clear. Let's see how the internet reacts to this shocking situation... 😲💬

Record all communication and let him go to court. NTA.

HapaMari | HapaMari

NTA comment suggests going back to court for increased child support.

zwergschnauzer | zwergschnauzer

NTA. Joint custody doesn't negate child support. He's just blowing smoke 😒

CajunKC | CajunKC

NTA. Ex demands custody to avoid child support. Increase support order.

squeakylittlecat | squeakylittlecat

NTA suggests reassessing income to deadbeat dad demanding custody. 😎

Lexi_Banner | Lexi_Banner

Get a lawyer ASAP! Protect yourself from deadbeat dads 🙌

SecretSummerMidnight | SecretSummerMidnight

Protecting your child from a deadbeat dad 🚨

idontreply_aita | idontreply_aita

Misunderstanding about child support leads to humorous exchange 😂

cherry-cheescake | cherry-cheescake

Ex's motives are selfish, NTA for prioritizing son's wellbeing 👏

eternal_entropy | eternal_entropy

Commenter accuses OP of watching too much Judge Judy.

unlucki67 | unlucki67

Doubting the authenticity of the story 🤔

Robbert | Robbert

Sarcastic comment receives no replies. 🤨

FerretAres | FerretAres

This comment shuts down the deadbeat dad's ridiculous request 👏

bajenbarsbrudar | bajenbarsbrudar

Debt confusion and missed payments lead to custody battle. 😕

dcoleski | dcoleski

Not impressed with the deadbeat dad's custody demand 😑

ThatoneguyJorge13 | ThatoneguyJorge13

A shocking difference in child support payments. 🤔

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Disappointed commenter finds the subreddit unamusing 😔

usernamy | usernamy

Protect yourself and your son from abusive deadbeat dad 💪

snow_whiteish | snow_whiteish

Deadbeat dad demands custody to avoid child support? YTA.

ripjuke | ripjuke

Commenter expresses frustration with child support payments during pandemic.

Donotbanmebeeotch | Donotbanmebeeotch

Commenter calls out OP for seeking validation, replies call story fake.

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Co-parenting for the sake of the child 👨🏻‍👦🏻 is the way to go.

ACatGod | ACatGod

Confident response to a clear-cut situation. 💪

Remarkable_Nobody_95 | Remarkable_Nobody_95

Get educated on court system & child support calculation with lawyer! 👨‍🎓

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NTA and a round of applause 👏

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Sneaky tactics to avoid child support? NTA has evidence. 🤔

Amara_Undone | Amara_Undone

Clear-cut case of NTA, but why post it here?

gotbeefpudding | gotbeefpudding

Son's wishes should be respected. DNA doesn't guarantee a good parent. 👍

PurpleDot0 | PurpleDot0

NTA mother seeks advice on deadbeat dad demanding custody after 11 years.

shadowknuxem | shadowknuxem

Protect yourself and your child, gather evidence and fight back! 💪

srslyeffedmind | srslyeffedmind

Don't let him off the hook! Get every penny 💰

AuntKatLovesYou | AuntKatLovesYou

Save all evidence and let the lawyer handle it 👍

DrOwldragon | DrOwldragon

Don't let him off the hook. Keep the texts and pursue the money. 💵

Maximum_System_7819 | Maximum_System_7819

Take control! Get a lawyer and shut down the deadbeat dad! 💪

Viperbunny | Viperbunny

Father wants custody after 11 years to avoid child support 😲

Abadazed | Abadazed

Protecting her son from a deadbeat dad and teaching empathy 👏

knowyourdata | knowyourdata

Is this post too good to be true? 🤔

unkindmillie | unkindmillie

Protect your family and keep records of communication. 👍

vengefulmanatee | vengefulmanatee

Keep receipts! NTA can use his texts to protect custody.

NorthernLitUp | NorthernLitUp

Protect yourself legally and document everything! 👍

girlwithdog_79 | girlwithdog_79

Deadbeat dad tries to avoid child support after 11 years. NTA suggests court won't grant custody to a stranger. 😑

brazentory | brazentory

NTA. Document everything and take him to court 📝. Involve your child.

lizzyote | lizzyote

A sarcastic comment about an unrelated banana. Classic Reddit.

Darkliandra | Darkliandra

Record his behavior and communicate in texts to avoid issues 👍

Froggetpwagain | Froggetpwagain

Don't let a deadbeat dad off the hook for child support 👋

topgirlaurora | topgirlaurora

Ex demands custody after 11 years to avoid child support. NTA.

murano84 | murano84

NTA suggests saving child support for unpredictable future 👍

minezjoy | minezjoy

Well-handled situation, NTA! Your son's choice matters the most. 👍

SomethingBurgundy | SomethingBurgundy

Father demands custody after 11 years to avoid child support? NTA.

JustMyStuffHi | JustMyStuffHi

Engaging advice met with skepticism and backlash. 🤔

SpookySugarSkull | SpookySugarSkull

Supportive comment defends against ex, warns against forcing child custody. 👏

ChaInTheHat | ChaInTheHat

CPS not involved with child support. Get a lawyer ASAP!

vingtsun_guy | vingtsun_guy

Deadbeat dad wants custody to avoid child support? 🤔

ParentsRpain | ParentsRpain

Father demands custody after 11 years to avoid child support. NTA.

joshi38 | joshi38

User seeks legal advice after deadbeat dad demands custody. 👨‍💻

PartyySnacks | PartyySnacks

Deadbeat dad tries to avoid child support with custody demand. NTA.

DocSternau | DocSternau

Commenter questions why people ask for validation on NTA posts.

Other_Waffer | Other_Waffer

Father wants custody to avoid child support payments 🤨

julesB09 | julesB09

Single mother defends child support rights, encourages college fund.

Murdy2020 | Murdy2020

Ex's delusional demand for custody to avoid child support backfires. 😂

Attention_Defecit | Attention_Defecit

Deadbeat dad gets served a cold dish of karma 👌

Substantial-Fee5845 | Substantial-Fee5845

Protect yourself and your son. Record all communication with ex. 👍

Bloodredrose999 | Bloodredrose999

Deadbeat dad threatens mom over child support, gets served a reality check. 😎

katmcflame | katmcflame

Comment dismissed as fake with laughing emoji 😂

philthebeat1 | philthebeat1

Don't worry, NTA. Most states won't give custody to deadbeats. 😉

jaethegreatone | jaethegreatone

Abandoned for 11 years, back child support as leverage. NTA 💯

mrsdoobie_525 | mrsdoobie_525

Deadbeat dad demands custody to avoid child support. NTA shuts him down.

JDK002 | JDK002

Not the a**hole! Let's hear why in the replies. 👏

IsolatedCatastrophe | IsolatedCatastrophe

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