Imagine planning your dream wedding, only to have your own mother ruin it with a cruel joke. That’s what happened to a 29-year-old bride-to-be when her mom gifted her wheelchair-bound fiancé a pair of running shoes as a ‘joke’ during his birthday party. The bride was understandably furious, and the conflict escalated to the point where she uninvited her mom from the wedding.
Meeting the Love of Her Life

Mom’s Rude Behavior

A Painful Joke

Mom’s Apology

A Change of Heart?

The Cruel Gift

Mom’s ‘Joke’ Explained

Bride Loses It

Uninvited from the Wedding

Dad Steps In

Party Turns Awkward

Family Intervention ️

Family’s Opinion

Bride Stands Firm ✊

Will She Reinvite Her Mom? ♀️
Despite the family’s pleas, the bride is standing her ground and refusing to reinvite her mom to the wedding. After all, how can she trust her mom not to ruin the big day after such a heartless ‘joke’? The internet is buzzing with opinions on this dramatic situation. Let’s see what people have to say…
Bride uninvites mom to wedding over cruel ‘joke’ – NTA

NTA. Commenters offer support and concern for OP’s self-esteem and agree with the decision to uninvite her cruel mother from the wedding. Some express sadness over OP’s negative self-image and speculate that it may have been influenced by her mother.

Cutting toxic family members out of your life is self-care

A mother’s cruel joke leads to a family dispute.

Standing up for your fiancé is the right thing . NTA.

Petty revenge is not the answer, but these replies are hilarious

NTA for uninviting mom who made cruel ‘joke’.

Resending the invite won’t solve the issue. NTA

Using humor to cope with disability is one thing, but cruel jokes are unacceptable. NTA.

Stand your ground and don’t subject your husband to cruelty

Standing up to family abuse is tough, but worth it.

Insensitive ‘jokes’ are never funny. NTA for uninviting her.

Man defends bride’s decision to uninvite mom, praises her restraint

Bride uninvites disrespectful mom from wedding, NTA

Bride uninvites mom to wedding over cruel joke. Commenter agrees.

Protect your partner from abusive family members. NTA.

Agreed! No one deserves to be treated that way

Using respectful language when referring to wheelchair users is important.

Cutting off toxic family members is sometimes necessary

NTA comment calls out toxic behavior of bride’s mother.

Mother’s cruel joke backfires, bride uninvites her from wedding

Protect your partner from toxic family members. Uninvite them.

Standing up to family jokes is important. NTA.

Mom gets uninvited to wedding over cruel ‘joke’

Mother makes cruel joke, bride uninvites her from wedding. NTA

Cutting toxic family members out of your life is liberating. NTA

Bride uninvites mom over cruel joke about mom’s death
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Standing up for your soon-to-be husband, NTA! Sending hugs

Support each other and live your lives in peace

NTA. The mother’s joke was cruel and insensitive. No sympathy here

Stand your ground and don’t let anyone question your decision

Excluding her from your wedding is the minimum you should do

Savage revenge ideas for uninvited mother. NTA

Bride’s mom bullies husband, gets uninvited from wedding

Cutting off toxic family members is sometimes necessary

Commenter expresses shock and concern over bride’s mom’s behavior

Mother’s cruel joke towards STBH warrants uninvitation to wedding. NTA

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole to partner.

A heartwarming response to a cruel ‘joke’ by a despicable mother

Savage revenge suggestion for a justified NTA comment

Don’t invite the toxic one to your special day

Standing up against bullying disguised as jokes

Protect your wedding day and yourself. You’re not being unreasonable

NTA, mom’s cruel ‘joke’ is unacceptable. Support each other ❤️

Breaking free from toxic family dynamics.

Cutting ties with toxic family members.

Commenter agrees with bride’s decision, calls mom ‘awful’

Mom’s cruel ‘joke’ causes bride to uninvite her

Cutting contact with mom over cruel joke? NTA, agreed.

Commenter calls out cruel mother and supports OP.

Supportive commenters agree mom is cruel and attention-seeking

Supportive comment section urges bride to cut toxic family ties

Commenter calls out mother’s cruel ‘joke’ and offers support ❤️

Stand your ground, OP! Your mom’s behavior is cruel

A dark joke gone too far. NTA for uninviting mom

Commenter uses the Narcissist’s Prayer to describe situation.

Have a backup plan in case mom crashes the wedding

Cutting ties with toxic family members is necessary for growth

Bride uninvites mom to wedding over cruel joke. NTA.

Supportive partner stands up to hurtful mother-in-law

Protecting the wedding from cruel ‘jokes’

Supportive commenters agree: NTA for uninviting cruel mother from wedding

Standing up for your fiancé, NTA. Mom’s ‘joke’ was cruel

Standing up against ableism and setting boundaries. NTA

Protecting yourself from toxic family members

Cutting toxic family ties. Good for you!

Mom clearly doesn’t care about stbh’s feelings. NTA.

NTA. Bride’s mom made cruel ‘jokes’ and is uninvited from wedding
