Imagine being in a loving relationship for six years, only to have it end over a disagreement about having children. That’s exactly what happened to a 30-year-old man who broke off his engagement with his 33-year-old girlfriend, Tara. Things took an unexpected turn when Tara’s daughter, Sasha, couldn’t let go and started showing up at his new house. After multiple attempts to resolve the situation, he finally called the cops on her. Was he justified? Let’s dive into the story.
The Relationship and Breakup
Meeting Sasha
The Dealbreaker
Change of Heart
Breaking Off the Engagement
Moving Out and Moving On
Sasha’s Unannounced Visits
A Sit-Down Conversation ️
New Relationship, New Problems
Car Vandalism
Suspecting Sasha ️
Calling the Cops
Blocked on Social Media
Tara Arrives
No Charges This Time ⚖️
Tara’s Reaction
Was Calling the Cops Too Harsh?
After breaking off his engagement due to a disagreement about having children, our protagonist found himself dealing with his ex’s daughter, Sasha, showing up at his new house unannounced. Despite multiple attempts to resolve the situation, he finally called the cops on her. With Tara furious and Sasha in tears, the question remains: was calling the cops too harsh, or was it a necessary step to protect himself and his new relationship? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA for calling the cops, but commenters question OP’s quick rebound.
Dating someone else days after ending 6-yr relationship? Yikes
Debate over man’s actions towards ex’s daughter sparks ESH sentiment.
Parenting disagreements lead to chaotic behaviour from ex’s daughter. ESH.
Ex’s daughter hurt by breakup, but is OP really the a**hole?
Ex’s daughter seeks contact after split, NTA for calling cops.
Commenter questions OP’s emotional connection and biased account
Calling the police was the best option to protect yourself
Ex’s daughter causes drama, but who’s really in the wrong?
Protect yourself legally from potential stalker behavior. Don’t engage.
NTA for calling cops on ex’s daughter, who needs therapy
Divided opinions on whether ex’s daughter deserved police intervention.
Commenter criticizes man’s behavior and views on women, defends ex’s daughter.
NTA calls cops on ex’s daughter for damaging GF’s car
NTA for calling the cops on ex’s daughter’s inappropriate behavior.
Respecting boundaries and teaching consequences. NTA
Curious about the backstory of this situation
NTA defends himself against accusations of being an a**hole
Mother should take responsibility for daughter’s actions. NTA
Ex’s daughter drama – commenter says NTA, ex is AH
Calling the cops was necessary for insurance. NTA
Navigating relationships with ex’s kids can be a slippery slope
Man calls cops on ex’s daughter for vandalism. NTA says comment.
Calling the cops was the safest option. NTA
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NTA, but moving because of Sasha’s behavior is unrealistic
Setting boundaries with ex’s kids: NTA or ESH?
Ex not responsible for ex’s daughter’s vandalism, NTA
Ex’s daughter feels abandoned, but no contact is best. Move on.
Ex’s daughter blocked him, so he called cops. NTA.
Dating a single parent can be complicated
Calling cops not always TA, but ESH in this case ♀️
Abandoned ex’s daughter acts out, both parties are at fault
Calling cops on ex’s daughter, NTA. But dating so soon?
Ex’s daughter causes trouble, NTA for calling the cops
Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important
Man’s ex’s daughter needs love and support, but both ESH.
Take it slow , kids are hard and don’t fix relationships ✌️
OP accused of neglecting ex’s daughter
Man calls cops on ex’s daughter for showing up unattended
Man calls cops on ex’s daughter, deemed NTA by commenter.
Ex’s daughter drama ends with NTA verdict
Ex’s daughter causes trouble, commenter says NTA.
Ex’s daughter causes trouble, commenter says NTA for calling cops.
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Commenter defends ex’s daughter, calls out OP’s behavior.
Dating someone new right after a breakup: ETA or NAH?
Clear judgement, no a-hole here
Teenager wants to hang out with ex’s partner. Soft YTA.
Man calls cops on ex’s daughter after being lied to
Man refuses to be in little girl’s life after being like a father figure. ESH
Dumped fiancee’s daughter calls out OP’s cold behavior
