We all know the feeling of receiving a gift that doesn't quite hit the mark, but what if it happens year after year, from the people closest to you? One woman has had enough of the thoughtless gifts she's been receiving from friends and family. She's decided to take matters into her own hands, returning all the presents she's been given and buying her own instead. Is she being spoiled and entitled, or is she just tired of feeling unappreciated? Let's dive into her story. 🤔

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A Bold Move or Justified Frustration? 🤷
After years of receiving thoughtless gifts, this woman has had enough. She returns all the presents she's been given, buys her own, and wraps them up for herself. While her husband is hurt and her friends are disappointed, she's finally getting what she wants. Is she being selfish, or is it time for her loved ones to step up their gift-giving game? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🧐
Fed up with bad gifts? NTA, you deserve better 😊

hydrox51 | hydrox51
Woman is fed up with generic gifts, wants something thoughtful 💚

Thia_M | Thia_M
When gifts are not thoughtful, they just say, 'I am fulfilling my gift giving obligation' 🤔

NoGifts28 | NoGifts28
Feeling unappreciated for gift giving? NTA for returning gifts.

dizmalette | dizmalette
Heartwarming story of daughter's thoughtful gifts 😍

amateurRN | amateurRN
Feeling unappreciated for gift giving efforts during Christmas 😢

distracted_x | distracted_x
Feeling unappreciated by family, woman buys own gifts. NTA 💯

missadechoco | missadechoco
Navigating different love languages in gift-giving can be challenging. Some people may not understand the significance of gifts to others, but it's important to communicate your needs without expecting them to change. Asking for gift receipts and being thankful for what you receive can also help.

ScammerC | ScammerC
Fed up with generic gifts, allergic to polyester, and loves buttons 💎

Woodpecker9001 | Woodpecker9001
Thoughtful gift-giving is a basic courtesy 🙏

ShotBarracuda6 | ShotBarracuda6
OP's gift expectations are reasonable, but reaction is extreme. ESH.

WritPositWrit | WritPositWrit
Gifts are personalized, but OP feels left out. 😔

Herefiraita | Herefiraita
NTA suggests giving dollar store puzzles as revenge. 😂

getjicky | getjicky
Commenter sympathizes with OP's gift struggles, shares their own experiences. 😊

Bryek | Bryek
Setting boundaries is not being spoiled, it's self-care. 🙌

PurpleDot0 | PurpleDot0
Receiving gifts doesn't mean you owe them anything 🙄

throwaway15081979 | throwaway15081979
Discussing gift preferences with your spouse can lead to compromise. 👍

Flashthenthundr | Flashthenthundr
Choosing self-care over guilt: relatable and empowering 🙌

princesszelda_29 | princesszelda_29
Navigating gift-giving can be tricky, but communication is key 👍

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Woman returns gifts and receives support from SIL 👍

Continuity-whore13 | Continuity-whore13
Gift-giving woes: Practical gifts or thoughtful tokens? 🤔

Cuss10 | Cuss10
NTA. Relatable gift-giving struggles and helpful suggestions. 💡

wichtwood | wichtwood
Struggling to receive thoughtful gifts? You're not alone! 😍

TealHousewife | TealHousewife
Don't let bad gift-givers ruin gift-giving for everyone. 🎁

jenonandon | jenonandon
Is it okay to send a Christmas list as an adult? 🤔

ladycousland | ladycousland
One person's NTA Christmas revenge with cheap gifts 🎁

DubiousPeoplePleaser | DubiousPeoplePleaser
Gifts from 2009? 🤢 OP is NTA for returning them.

moxymoxalone | moxymoxalone
Fed up with terrible gifts, woman takes matters into own hands 🙌

Ophyria | Ophyria
NTA! Commenter shares their relatable experience with gift giving.

Natinxa | Natinxa
Communication is key! 🗣️ Let them know how you feel.

ladyk1487 | ladyk1487
When gift-giving goes wrong 😕 NTA returns all gifts

thekrodinator | thekrodinator
Gifts are my love language! 🎁 NTA, I feel you.

SweetSue67 | SweetSue67
Gift giving gone wrong: A relatable struggle for hobbyists 😢

Ars_Are_Beast | Ars_Are_Beast
Woman shares her experience with gift-giving and recommends a book.

Ok_Ad_6626 | Ok_Ad_6626
Receiving impersonal gifts is disheartening, NTA for buying own gifts 😔

roachsgirl | roachsgirl
Gifts that don't match your personality? Relatable AF 😂

Kaedenyo | Kaedenyo
Unfair treatment from MIL at Christmas, NTA for stopping gifts 🙏

Chowderhead1 | Chowderhead1
Fed up with bad gifts, NTA opts out of gift-giving.

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Fed up with thoughtless gifts, woman buys her own. 🙌

StarQueen420 | StarQueen420
Gift-giving trauma: NTA for buying own gifts. 😢

vereynaace | vereynaace
Relatable NTA comment about gift giving struggles. 😍

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Treat yourself this Christmas! 🎄😍

CM_UW | CM_UW
Standing up for yourself is hard, but necessary. 💪

GroovyQueen67 | GroovyQueen67
Fed up with bad gifts, woman returns all and buys own 😎

ImaginaryImagery | ImaginaryImagery
Shared wishlists exist for a reason 🙄 #NTA

Tinawebmom | Tinawebmom
Standing up for herself and getting Bones coffee recommendations ☕

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Gift-giving struggles: NTA returns gifts for cash and self-care 😍

shades-of-gray312 | shades-of-gray312
Gifted cheap perfume sets despite asthma, NTA returns gifts. 🙏

Gege9000 | Gege9000
Taking control of gift-giving: empowering or ungrateful? 🤔

coypaws | coypaws
Expert gifter supports woman buying her own gifts. Communicate preferences. 👍

UsefulCauliflower3 | UsefulCauliflower3