Man Refuses to Repay Brother's $12k Loan: Family Feud or Justified? 😲

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We all know that money can cause major rifts in families, but what happens when a brother refuses to pay back a life-saving loan? Ten years ago, our protagonist (let's call him 'Gambler') was in deep trouble due to a gambling addiction. His brother Seth stepped in, taking out a $12,000 loan to help Gambler repay his debts and start therapy. Fast forward a decade, and Seth is now asking for his money back, but Gambler isn't quite ready to cough it up. 🤑💔

The Desperate Call for Help 📞

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Seth's Generosity 🙏

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Wedding Bells and Money Demands 💒💰

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Covid Strikes, and Seth Gets Patient ⏳

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Partial Payment and a New Car 🚗

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The Pressure Increases ⌛

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Birthday Vacation Surprise 🏖️

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Seth's Confrontation and the BBQ 🍖

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Cold Shoulders and Rude Goodbyes ❄️

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Threats of Legal Action ⚖️

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Gambler's Defense 🛡️

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The Final Showdown 🥊

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Seth's Response and the Silent Treatment 🤐

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Family Ties Strained 🧨

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Gambler's Final Thoughts 💭

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Money Matters: Is Gambler in the Right? 🤷‍♂️

Gambler's refusal to repay the $12k loan has led to a family feud, with Seth and his wife giving him the cold shoulder. Gambler argues that he's helped Seth in the past and that helping should be mutual. He's even outraged at the suggestion of being sued! As tensions rise, the question remains: is Gambler justified in his actions, or is he just avoiding responsibility? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💬🔥

OP refuses to pay back $12k loan from brother: unanimous YTA.

tatasz | tatasz

OP refuses to repay brother's $12k loan and justifies with gifts.

GreekAmericanDom | GreekAmericanDom

OP refuses to repay brother's $12k loan, but commenters say YTA.

MicciMichi | MicciMichi

Commenter and replies agree OP is in the wrong. 👍

Alternative-Wait3533 | Alternative-Wait3533

Man refuses to repay $10k loan, compares it to gas money 🤯

boogley88 | boogley88

Addict brother refuses to repay $12k loan. YTA. Pay him back. 😠

Ok-Chance-619 | Ok-Chance-619

Man refuses to repay $12k loan from brother, called a deadbeat. 😱

Pebbleinmyownshoe | Pebbleinmyownshoe

OP is the a**hole for refusing to repay brother's loan 😒

GreeneyedSigma | GreeneyedSigma

OP is clearly YTA for not repaying brother's $12k loan 😠

winesis | winesis

Commenter and reply call out OP's lack of self-awareness. 🤔

Issyswe | Issyswe

Man risks brother's credit, refuses to repay $12k loan. YTA.

naynay2908 | naynay2908

Man gambles away stolen money, refuses to repay brother's loan. YTA 😲

disindiantho | disindiantho

Man refuses to repay $12k loan from brother. Commenter calls him out.

CompetitiveStick6239 | CompetitiveStick6239

Commenter calls out OP for being TA with strong language 🤬

Lumpy-Point-9972 | Lumpy-Point-9972

Man refuses to repay brother's loan after addiction recovery. YTA.

Current_Difficulty88 | Current_Difficulty88

Man refuses to repay brother's loan, called out as YTA 😡

GarysCanary | GarysCanary

YTA refuses to repay brother's loan for 10 years 😱

inigos_left_hand | inigos_left_hand

Commenter calls out OP for not repaying brother's loan. YTA 😡

KimmyStand | KimmyStand

Early bird gets the worm, but does it start a feud? 🤔

Icy_Conversation_612 | Icy_Conversation_612

Gambling addiction leads to stolen money and family feud 😱

HPNerd44 | HPNerd44

Commenter and reply agree: YTA. Pay back the loan. 🚫

YinzerChick70 | YinzerChick70

Man refuses to repay brother's $12k loan: YTA or justified? 🤔

evelbug | evelbug

Commenter called out as YTA for not repaying loan 😕

ourladyofsnails | ourladyofsnails

Man refuses to repay brother's loan, called out for entitlement 😑

chleotochloe | chleotochloe

Pay your debts! 💰 Don't be an a**hole. 🤯

Tatertotsmagee | Tatertotsmagee

Man refuses to repay brother's loan, YTA and needs to pay up 😒

EngineeringOwn2299 | EngineeringOwn2299

Don't be an a**hole, pay your brother back 🚫

NefariousnessGlum424 | NefariousnessGlum424

Man refuses to repay $12k loan for 10 years: YTA.

TallCombination6 | TallCombination6

Cancel the vacation and repay your brother, YTA 😡

nathashanails | nathashanails

Empathy is key. Imagine being in their shoes. 🙏

lotus_eater123 | lotus_eater123

Man refuses to repay brother's loan and gets called out. YTA 😡

sonicblue217 | sonicblue217

Commenter calls out OP's entitlement and irresponsibility with loan repayment 🤦‍♂️

JrCoxy | JrCoxy

Ungrateful brother refuses to repay $12k loan from sibling. YTA 😠

clefaaaaaaairy | clefaaaaaaairy

Commenter calls out OP for posting twice, deems them YTA 🤨

lezoons | lezoons

Borrower refuses to repay $12k loan, called out as YTA 🤯

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Pay back your debts to family. 👍

Ok_Imagination7913 | Ok_Imagination7913

Commenter calls out YTA and their spouse 🤬

Still_Storm7432 | Still_Storm7432

Man refuses to repay brother's $12k loan - YTA comment.

Inner-Device-4530 | Inner-Device-4530

Commenter slams OP for refusing to repay brother's loan 😠

holden204 | holden204

Reposting won't change the judgement. YTA 🙄

Peasplease25 | Peasplease25

Debt is debt, whether it's from a bank or family. 💰 Grow up.

TexasPathfinder | TexasPathfinder

Borrowed money from brother, refused to repay. YTA. 🤬

Prestigious-Stop-777 | Prestigious-Stop-777

Commenter calls out OP for being a scammer and a**hole 😱

Impossible-Price | Impossible-Price

Man refuses to repay brother's loan, labeled YTA by commenters 😕

pookguyinc | pookguyinc

Commenter calls out person for being a**hole over loan 💸

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Commenter calls out the obvious YTA with humor 😂

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Commenter calls out bad behavior and warns of consequences 😡

Plastic_Expression89 | Plastic_Expression89

Man refuses to repay $12k loan from brother, calls him YTA 🤯

Relevant-Economy-927 | Relevant-Economy-927

Man refuses to repay brother's $12k loan, called out as YTA 😲

Cali_Macchiato | Cali_Macchiato

Gambling addiction leads to debt, family feud and entitlement. YTA.

Devegas49 | Devegas49

Commenter calls out person for not repaying $12k loan 😱

muchlikejoker | muchlikejoker

Man refuses to repay $12k loan, called out for excuses. 🤨

7witewolf7 | 7witewolf7

Commenter calls out person for being a huge a**hole 😱

OnyxRain0831 | OnyxRain0831

Commenter calls out person for not repaying loan. 😱

Mikey_the_bestTMNT | Mikey_the_bestTMNT

OP is in hot water for not repaying brother's loan 😱

callmekvothe | callmekvothe

Man refuses to repay $12k loan: Reddit calls him an a**hole 😠

mizfit0416 | mizfit0416

Man refuses to repay brother's loan despite saving him from jail. YTA.

jeepstarr29 | jeepstarr29

Unrepaid loan causes family feud: YTA refuses to repay. 😱

Relative_Zone_3416 | Relative_Zone_3416

Straightforward judgement: YTA 🤬

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Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole in loan dispute 😱

ourladyPattyMeltdown | ourladyPattyMeltdown

Commenter calls out person for not repaying loan. 😠

QuirkySchool2 | QuirkySchool2

Man refuses to repay $12k loan from brother. Commenters call him YTA 😱

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