Imagine being a mother dealing with your child's cancer diagnosis, only to have your mother-in-law make it all about her. That's exactly what happened to one woman, who's already struggling to cope with the emotional and physical toll of her baby's illness. Her husband is away, and she's left to handle everything on her own. But when her MIL demands daily updates, this mom has had enough. 💔😥
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The Cancer Diagnosis 💔
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MIL's Demanding Call 📞
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Offering a Compromise 🤝
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MIL's Selfish Response 😒
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Mom's Bold Reply 🙅♀️
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The Aftermath 🌪
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Update: Delegating Updates 📲
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The Difference Between Moms 💞
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MIL's Lack of Effort 😠
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MIL's Entitlement 🤦♀️
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MIL's Lack of Empathy 😔
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The Reality of the Relationship 🌩
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The Need for Respect ✊
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Therapist's Suggestions 🗣
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Brother's Supportive Gesture 💕
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MIL's Absence 😞
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Mom Stands Her Ground Against Self-Centered MIL 😤
This brave mom is dealing with her baby's cancer diagnosis, her husband's absence, and her mother-in-law's selfish demands. When the MIL insists on daily updates, the mom puts her foot down, reminding her that this isn't about the MIL's feelings. As the mom continues to navigate this difficult time, she's found support from her own mother, her brother, and the kind words of strangers. But will her MIL ever learn to put someone else's needs before her own? 🤔💔
Toxic MIL makes baby's cancer diagnosis all about herself 😲
b00tsc00ter | b00tsc00ter
Red Cross can help bring him home, get support on r/JUSTNOMIL 🙌
naranghim | naranghim
Heartbreaking story of a mother dealing with her baby's cancer diagnosis.
fittoniamaniabania | fittoniamaniabania
Delegate communication to a friend or family member for support and protection 👍
LylaThayde | LylaThayde
Setting boundaries is key when dealing with loved one's cancer 🙏
spiritedenthusiasm8 | spiritedenthusiasm8
Supportive comment defends OP against MIL's selfish behavior 🙌
throwawaygrosso | throwawaygrosso
A kind and supportive comment with helpful advice for parents. 🙏
Ok_Stargazer_333 | Ok_Stargazer_333
Grandma's selfishness in baby's cancer diagnosis - NTA stands firm 😲
unlabeledpunk | unlabeledpunk
Family feud ensues as commenters debate who's in the wrong 🤷♀️
Secret_Werewolf1942 | Secret_Werewolf1942
Supportive Redditors offer advice and resources to NTA OP 🙌
MissMurderpants | MissMurderpants
Survivor empathizes with OP, calls MIL a vulture. 😲
KazDemjinBrekker | KazDemjinBrekker
Supportive comment suggests helpful tip for managing updates during crisis 👍
False-Explanation702 | False-Explanation702
Self-care first! Block her and focus on your little one 🙌
IAmGettingThePig | IAmGettingThePig
Commenter suggests MIL's words shouldn't be seen as competition 🤔
SilenceMuseum | SilenceMuseum
MIL makes cancer diagnosis about herself, even illegally accessing medical records 😱
puppyinahat | puppyinahat
Grandmother's inappropriate phone call causes distress for family. NAH.
kb709 | kb709
Fisher House provides support to military families in need ❤️
DrakonBlu | DrakonBlu
Survivor of neuroblastoma offers words of encouragement to fellow patient 💪
cancer2009 | cancer2009
Delegate dealing with MIL to someone else, STAT! 😠
TheBaddestPatsy | TheBaddestPatsy
Supportive comment receives virtual hugs and encouragement ❤️
Melody_PondPhD | Melody_PondPhD
Grandmother overstepping boundaries during baby's cancer diagnosis. NTA.
Alyssa_Hargreaves | Alyssa_Hargreaves
Supportive comment validates emotional and physical toll of situation 👏
Akalard | Akalard
Military mom receives support and advice for family situation.
chyaraskiss | chyaraskiss
Keeping a cancer diagnosis private can hurt loved ones too 😢
Outside-Feeling | Outside-Feeling
Suggesting a way to deal with overbearing MIL 🤔
whatchagonnadobedo | whatchagonnadobedo
Creating a group chat for updates: a good boundary-setting idea 👍
charletRoss | charletRoss
MIL's absence from granddaughter's life might be justified. 🤷♀️
DlProgan | DlProgan
Navigating family dynamics during a difficult time 👥💔
spectrum_92 | spectrum_92
Commenter empathizes with OP's MIL issues, offers support and advice.
Penguinator53 | Penguinator53
Self-centered MIL makes baby's cancer diagnosis about her. NTA wins.
gen_petra | gen_petra
Supportive comment calling out MIL's selfish behavior during baby's cancer.
centernova | centernova
MIL makes baby's cancer diagnosis about herself. Commenter suggests sassy response. #NTA 😲
Far-Bug8226 | Far-Bug8226
Supportive commenter agrees with OP and suggests going no contact.
B0326C0821 | B0326C0821
Setting boundaries with toxic family members is important for mental health 🙏
tergiversensation | tergiversensation
NTA asks for clarification on LO, gets helpful reply 👍
MqAuNeTeInS | MqAuNeTeInS
Supportive comment condemns MIL's selfish behavior in cancer diagnosis.
manifestingellewoods | manifestingellewoods
Commenter firmly supports OP's decision to stand up to MIL.
SinLives | SinLives
Comment suggests military should have better family relocation policies 👍
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Supporting a loved one with cancer: sharing updates vs self-pity 👍
Gemmkafa | Gemmkafa
Supportive comment to mom dealing with child's cancer, criticizing MIL.
ehoaandthebeast | ehoaandthebeast
Supportive comment section with NTA verdict and well wishes 😊
Dimityblue | Dimityblue
Heartfelt support for parent dealing with MIL's insensitivity 😢
PersiPaige | PersiPaige
Confused commenter seeks explanation for common parenting acronym.
Delouest | Delouest
Update your mom instead of dealing with MIL's insensitivity. 💕
LittleFatSheep | LittleFatSheep
Suggestion to create a group chat for both families included 👥
annoyed68 | annoyed68
Grandparent's pain is real but MIL handled poorly. NTA
GrammyMe | GrammyMe
Supportive comment offers validation and empathy for struggling parent.
Singing7Leo | Singing7Leo
Pediatric intern offers support and advice to cancer-diagnosed baby's family.
DocJekl | DocJekl
Heartfelt support and offers of help for family with sick baby ❤️
DarthVadarLips27 | DarthVadarLips27
Helpful advice on emergency leave for military families dealing with illness.
RetMilRob | RetMilRob
Supportive comment offers empathy and encouragement to mother.
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MIL's selfish behavior during baby's cancer diagnosis. NTA.
just_n_observer | just_n_observer
Grandma deserves to know, but making it about her is wrong 😒
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A helpful suggestion for sharing medical updates on CaringBridge.org 👍
friendly-reddit-name | friendly-reddit-name
Supportive comment suggests keeping family informed during difficult time. 🙌
yssic_1961 | yssic_1961
Sending love and support to a brave mom dealing with crisis 💜
MonicaHJ | MonicaHJ
Supportive comment calls out MIL's narcissism, encourages focus on LO's.
Mis_Red | Mis_Red
A heartwarming story of friendship and support during tough times ❤️
rebelwithmouseyhair | rebelwithmouseyhair
Supportive comment applauds OP's restraint and wishes baby well ❤️
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Dealing with insensitive people at difficult times can be tough 😔
batmantha_x | batmantha_x
Supportive comment offers advice for dealing with difficult MIL.
unconvincingcoolname | unconvincingcoolname
NTA receives support and shares a helpful article on how to comfort.
rrincon6 | rrincon6
Grandma makes baby's cancer about herself. NTA for setting boundaries.
grngecko | grngecko
Sending support to OP and their family during this difficult time 🙏
Romdowa | Romdowa
Sharing updates on a blog can be therapeutic during tough times 🙏
Stella430 | Stella430
Supportive comment about keeping cancer diagnosis private for emotional reasons 😢
Skipuella | Skipuella
