Imagine opening your home to your brother and his pregnant wife, only to have them overstay their welcome, refuse to clean, and struggle to find a job. That's the situation faced by a 23-year-old man who's now contemplating whether to kick out his brother, sister-in-law, and their newborn baby. As the months go by, tensions rise, and the brother's behavior becomes increasingly frustrating. With no clear end in sight, the man is left to wonder if he's doing the right thing by putting his foot down. 😔
Man Faces Dilemma: Kick Out Jobless Brother, Wife & Newborn or Keep Enduring Their Chaos? 😱
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The man is torn between helping his family and preserving his own sanity. He knows his brother and sister-in-law won't be able to support themselves and their newborn baby if he kicks them out. Yet, their behavior has become unbearable, with the brother avoiding work and lashing out at his sister-in-law. The man's patience is wearing thin, and he's left to wonder if he's doing the right thing by setting boundaries and asking them to leave. Let's see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation... 😢
Don't feel guilty for wanting them out. It's time. 🙌
Dandie24 | Dandie24
NTA for setting boundaries with jobless brother and family 🙏
Appropriate-Energy | Appropriate-Energy
NTA seeks legal help to remove jobless family. Drama ensues 😱
dusktildawn9 | dusktildawn9
Brother may be dealing drugs, commenter suspects. NTA.
salukiqueen | salukiqueen
Jobless brother causing chaos at home, NTA for kicking out? 🤔
Amythist35 | Amythist35
NTA. Commenter suggests calling CPS if brother doesn't leave soon.
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Sibling support gone wrong. Set boundaries for your own sake.
G_F_Y_Plz | G_F_Y_Plz
Being a responsible parent means being financially independent. #NTA 👏
babybella92 | babybella92
Brother's wife defends his actions and refuses to help. NTA
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Kick out the adults, not the newborn. 😊
RenaxTM | RenaxTM
Is the brother hiding something? 🤔
RollingKatamari | RollingKatamari
Brother's ego bounced a check, not your responsibility. NTA 👍
Duukt | Duukt
Don't let them take advantage of you and your relationship. 🙅
rahimmoore26 | rahimmoore26
Commenter suggests tough love for jobless brother and wife 👍
brita998866 | brita998866
Financially drained and marital friction? NTA, kick them out! 💸👋
fiio83 | fiio83
👏 NTA, kick them out now! Your brother and his family are taking advantage of you and your wife. It's time to put your foot down and prioritize your own well-being. 💪
seba_make | seba_make
Brother's laziness and entitlement leads to tough love decision. 🤔
Acceptable-Abalone20 | Acceptable-Abalone20
Brother and wife rely on family charity, refuse to take responsibility. 🙅
dookle14 | dookle14
Take back control! Cut them off slowly and steadily. 💪
shilo31 | shilo31
Commenter calls out irresponsible brother, no sympathy for him. 👍
Flaky_Ad194 | Flaky_Ad194
Commenter believes the man is not the a**hole. 👍
TemporaryExam5717 | TemporaryExam5717
Commenter expresses concern over jobless brother's potential illegal activities. NTA
anathema_deviced | anathema_deviced
👢👋 Kick them out: a tough but necessary decision.
maggieandminky | maggieandminky
Supportive comment defends OP's actions in tough family situation 👏
AlaskaNebreska | AlaskaNebreska
Commenter believes person is not the a**hole. 👍
HomeworkDry4850 | HomeworkDry4850
Commenter is not the a**hole, but why? 🤔
maggieandminky | maggieandminky
Commenter believes the man is not the a**hole 🙌
Maeve4159 | Maeve4159
NTA calls out freeloaders for having kids while living on charity.
Psychotic_Froggy | Psychotic_Froggy
Be cautious when offering housing to those in need. 🚨
Ichauch13 | Ichauch13
Sassy response to criticism of kicking out jobless brother 👀
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Eviction advice sparks concern over COVID complications 😨
ShelbyCobra_90 | ShelbyCobra_90
Parenting advice falls flat in tense family situation 😕
TheOnlyGabe1 | TheOnlyGabe1
Setting boundaries is tough, but necessary for self-care. 🙏
Leland_Gaunt_ | Leland_Gaunt_
Lazy moochers? Find out why the commenter says NTA.
Deviiant_Artist | Deviiant_Artist
NTA. Brother and SIL taking advantage of generosity. Legal and social help needed.
BarbarianSpoonie | BarbarianSpoonie
NTA. Tough love is necessary for their growth 👍
theambears | theambears
Generosity has limits. NTA for considering kicking out brother.
ComatoseSquirrel | ComatoseSquirrel
Think twice before taking in family members kicked out by others 🙅
QNaima | QNaima
User suggests calling CPS in chaotic family situation. 🚨
ninjasylph | ninjasylph
Setting rules for unemployed houseguests: fair or too strict? 🤔
FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams
NTA for kicking out jobless brother and family. Stand your ground 💪
whomenow1313 | whomenow1313
Setting boundaries with family can be tough 😢
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When in-laws attack: one man's story of family drama 🤯
dreamscaperomantic | dreamscaperomantic
Compassionate response to jobless brother with a warning for future.
judeen | judeen
Commenter suggests past behavior may have led to eviction. 🤔
Management_sucks | Management_sucks
Unemployed brother causing chaos? NTA, time to kick him out! 🙌
Responsible-Seat1082 | Responsible-Seat1082
No comments or replies to display. Let's move on.
Fun-Calligrapher980 | Fun-Calligrapher980
Don't let his self-caused problems ruin your family. NTA 👍
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NTA. The brother and his wife are content to live off others.
NCKALA | NCKALA
Commenter calls out brother's family for taking advantage. NTA.
nora_jora | nora_jora
Generous offer rejected, commenter is NTA. 👍
Andress1 | Andress1
Commenter says jobless brother is responsible for his own family.
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Consult legal help to evict family members. Squatters have rights. 😔
Affectionate-Dirt777 | Affectionate-Dirt777
Commenter supports OP and calls out the brother's behavior. 👍
zalachenko123 | zalachenko123
Supportive comment suggests kicking out jobless family members. 👍
solo954 | solo954
Man struggles with kicking out jobless brother and family 😱
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A commenter suggests kicking out jobless brother for tough love.
Equivalent_Track_372 | Equivalent_Track_372
NTA struggles with getting rid of jobless brother. 😩
Canadian_momma2016 | Canadian_momma2016
Commenter is not the a**hole, but what about the brother?
LilPerditaGattino | LilPerditaGattino
Dealing with deadbeats 😲
DntGtMadGtGlad2021 | DntGtMadGtGlad2021
Navigating the fine line between helping and enabling family 😔
ekesse | ekesse
Encouraging eviction? 🤔
Mission-Cloud360 | Mission-Cloud360
Commenter sympathizes with OP, calls out brother's family's behavior. 😠
karenhater12345 | karenhater12345
Tough love time. NTA kicks out jobless brother, wife, newborn.
nebunala4328 | nebunala4328
Tough love may be necessary. You're NTA for setting boundaries.
MasterHarperJamieJo | MasterHarperJamieJo
Keeping promises is important, even if it's inconvenient. 👍
chichilex | chichilex
Taking advantage of family's hospitality? NTA stands firm.
kotran1989 | kotran1989
Don't let kindness be taken advantage of. Encourage responsibility. 👍
Kix_Giggles_784 | Kix_Giggles_784
Dealing with a jobless brother who won't leave. NTA.
BA-Crag | BA-Crag
NTA. Kick him out. Brushing off concerns & blowing up? 👍
LunaDarkHuntressArt | LunaDarkHuntressArt
Brother and his wife are taking advantage. NTA for kicking out.
No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628
Setting boundaries with family isn't easy, but it's necessary. 🙏
tammigirl6767 | tammigirl6767
NTA, but be prepared for legal action if they refuse.
Roetorooter | Roetorooter
Time to say goodbye? NTA commenter advises kicking out jobless family.
HeidiFree | HeidiFree
Time for tough love? Commenter advises man to let go. 👍
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NTA, but need more info on why they were kicked out 🤔
MrAvalanche1981 | MrAvalanche1981
Don't let a leech suck you dry. NTA 👍
KnightofForestsWild | KnightofForestsWild
Letting someone hit rock bottom can be the most loving act 👍
Snoo-40699 | Snoo-40699
Wife stuck cleaning up after jobless brother and family 🤔
Lizzyrules | Lizzyrules
