Man Faces Dilemma: Kick Out Jobless Brother, Wife & Newborn or Keep Enduring Their Chaos? 😱

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Imagine opening your home to your brother and his pregnant wife, only to have them overstay their welcome, refuse to clean, and struggle to find a job. That's the situation faced by a 23-year-old man who's now contemplating whether to kick out his brother, sister-in-law, and their newborn baby. As the months go by, tensions rise, and the brother's behavior becomes increasingly frustrating. With no clear end in sight, the man is left to wonder if he's doing the right thing by putting his foot down. 😔

A Desperate Plea for Help 🆘

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A Temporary Solution? 🤔

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The Living Arrangement 🛋️

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Cleaning Crisis 🧹

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Job Hunt Encouragement 📣

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Baby's Arrival 👶

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Finally, a Job! 🎉

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Paying Rent 💵

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Car Troubles 🚗

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Work Ethic Takes a Dive 📉

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Avoiding the Issue 🚫

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A Heated Confrontation 🔥

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Money Matters 💰

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Setting Boundaries 🚧

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An Agreement... or Not? 🤷‍♂️

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A Heart-Wrenching Decision: Family or Sanity? 💔

The man is torn between helping his family and preserving his own sanity. He knows his brother and sister-in-law won't be able to support themselves and their newborn baby if he kicks them out. Yet, their behavior has become unbearable, with the brother avoiding work and lashing out at his sister-in-law. The man's patience is wearing thin, and he's left to wonder if he's doing the right thing by setting boundaries and asking them to leave. Let's see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation... 😢

Don't feel guilty for wanting them out. It's time. 🙌

Dandie24 | Dandie24

NTA for setting boundaries with jobless brother and family 🙏

Appropriate-Energy | Appropriate-Energy

NTA seeks legal help to remove jobless family. Drama ensues 😱

dusktildawn9 | dusktildawn9

Brother may be dealing drugs, commenter suspects. NTA.

salukiqueen | salukiqueen

Jobless brother causing chaos at home, NTA for kicking out? 🤔

Amythist35 | Amythist35

NTA. Commenter suggests calling CPS if brother doesn't leave soon.

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Sibling support gone wrong. Set boundaries for your own sake.

G_F_Y_Plz | G_F_Y_Plz

Being a responsible parent means being financially independent. #NTA 👏

babybella92 | babybella92

Brother's wife defends his actions and refuses to help. NTA

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Kick out the adults, not the newborn. 😊

RenaxTM | RenaxTM

Is the brother hiding something? 🤔

RollingKatamari | RollingKatamari

Brother's ego bounced a check, not your responsibility. NTA 👍

Duukt | Duukt

Don't let them take advantage of you and your relationship. 🙅

rahimmoore26 | rahimmoore26

Commenter suggests tough love for jobless brother and wife 👍

brita998866 | brita998866

Financially drained and marital friction? NTA, kick them out! 💸👋

fiio83 | fiio83

👏 NTA, kick them out now! Your brother and his family are taking advantage of you and your wife. It's time to put your foot down and prioritize your own well-being. 💪

seba_make | seba_make

Brother's laziness and entitlement leads to tough love decision. 🤔

Acceptable-Abalone20 | Acceptable-Abalone20

Brother and wife rely on family charity, refuse to take responsibility. 🙅

dookle14 | dookle14

Take back control! Cut them off slowly and steadily. 💪

shilo31 | shilo31

Commenter calls out irresponsible brother, no sympathy for him. 👍

Flaky_Ad194 | Flaky_Ad194

Commenter believes the man is not the a**hole. 👍

TemporaryExam5717 | TemporaryExam5717

Commenter expresses concern over jobless brother's potential illegal activities. NTA

anathema_deviced | anathema_deviced

👢👋 Kick them out: a tough but necessary decision.

maggieandminky | maggieandminky

Supportive comment defends OP's actions in tough family situation 👏

AlaskaNebreska | AlaskaNebreska

Commenter believes person is not the a**hole. 👍

HomeworkDry4850 | HomeworkDry4850

Commenter is not the a**hole, but why? 🤔

maggieandminky | maggieandminky

Commenter believes the man is not the a**hole 🙌

Maeve4159 | Maeve4159

NTA calls out freeloaders for having kids while living on charity.

Psychotic_Froggy | Psychotic_Froggy

Be cautious when offering housing to those in need. 🚨

Ichauch13 | Ichauch13

Sassy response to criticism of kicking out jobless brother 👀

julzferacia | julzferacia

Eviction advice sparks concern over COVID complications 😨

ShelbyCobra_90 | ShelbyCobra_90

Parenting advice falls flat in tense family situation 😕

TheOnlyGabe1 | TheOnlyGabe1

Setting boundaries is tough, but necessary for self-care. 🙏

Leland_Gaunt_ | Leland_Gaunt_

Lazy moochers? Find out why the commenter says NTA.

Deviiant_Artist | Deviiant_Artist

NTA. Brother and SIL taking advantage of generosity. Legal and social help needed.

BarbarianSpoonie | BarbarianSpoonie

NTA. Tough love is necessary for their growth 👍

theambears | theambears

Generosity has limits. NTA for considering kicking out brother.

ComatoseSquirrel | ComatoseSquirrel

Think twice before taking in family members kicked out by others 🙅

QNaima | QNaima

User suggests calling CPS in chaotic family situation. 🚨

ninjasylph | ninjasylph

Setting rules for unemployed houseguests: fair or too strict? 🤔

FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams

NTA for kicking out jobless brother and family. Stand your ground 💪

whomenow1313 | whomenow1313

Setting boundaries with family can be tough 😢

3x1stent1alCr1s1s | 3x1stent1alCr1s1s

When in-laws attack: one man's story of family drama 🤯

dreamscaperomantic | dreamscaperomantic

Compassionate response to jobless brother with a warning for future.

judeen | judeen

Commenter suggests past behavior may have led to eviction. 🤔

Management_sucks | Management_sucks

Unemployed brother causing chaos? NTA, time to kick him out! 🙌

Responsible-Seat1082 | Responsible-Seat1082

No comments or replies to display. Let's move on.

Fun-Calligrapher980 | Fun-Calligrapher980

Don't let his self-caused problems ruin your family. NTA 👍

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NTA. The brother and his wife are content to live off others.


Commenter calls out brother's family for taking advantage. NTA.

nora_jora | nora_jora

Generous offer rejected, commenter is NTA. 👍

Andress1 | Andress1

Commenter says jobless brother is responsible for his own family.

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Consult legal help to evict family members. Squatters have rights. 😔

Affectionate-Dirt777 | Affectionate-Dirt777

Commenter supports OP and calls out the brother's behavior. 👍

zalachenko123 | zalachenko123

Supportive comment suggests kicking out jobless family members. 👍

solo954 | solo954

Man struggles with kicking out jobless brother and family 😱

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A commenter suggests kicking out jobless brother for tough love.

Equivalent_Track_372 | Equivalent_Track_372

NTA struggles with getting rid of jobless brother. 😩

Canadian_momma2016 | Canadian_momma2016

Commenter is not the a**hole, but what about the brother?

LilPerditaGattino | LilPerditaGattino

Dealing with deadbeats 😲

DntGtMadGtGlad2021 | DntGtMadGtGlad2021

Navigating the fine line between helping and enabling family 😔

ekesse | ekesse

Encouraging eviction? 🤔

Mission-Cloud360 | Mission-Cloud360

Commenter sympathizes with OP, calls out brother's family's behavior. 😠

karenhater12345 | karenhater12345

Tough love time. NTA kicks out jobless brother, wife, newborn.

nebunala4328 | nebunala4328

Tough love may be necessary. You're NTA for setting boundaries.

MasterHarperJamieJo | MasterHarperJamieJo

Keeping promises is important, even if it's inconvenient. 👍

chichilex | chichilex

Taking advantage of family's hospitality? NTA stands firm.

kotran1989 | kotran1989

Don't let kindness be taken advantage of. Encourage responsibility. 👍

Kix_Giggles_784 | Kix_Giggles_784

Dealing with a jobless brother who won't leave. NTA.

BA-Crag | BA-Crag

NTA. Kick him out. Brushing off concerns & blowing up? 👍

LunaDarkHuntressArt | LunaDarkHuntressArt

Brother and his wife are taking advantage. NTA for kicking out.

No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628

Setting boundaries with family isn't easy, but it's necessary. 🙏

tammigirl6767 | tammigirl6767

NTA, but be prepared for legal action if they refuse.

Roetorooter | Roetorooter

Time to say goodbye? NTA commenter advises kicking out jobless family.

HeidiFree | HeidiFree

Time for tough love? Commenter advises man to let go. 👍

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NTA, but need more info on why they were kicked out 🤔

MrAvalanche1981 | MrAvalanche1981

Don't let a leech suck you dry. NTA 👍

KnightofForestsWild | KnightofForestsWild

Letting someone hit rock bottom can be the most loving act 👍

Snoo-40699 | Snoo-40699

Wife stuck cleaning up after jobless brother and family 🤔

Lizzyrules | Lizzyrules

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