Weddings are supposed to be a celebration of love, but sometimes, they can turn into a battleground. 😬💔 Meet our groom (27M) and his fiancée (25F), who have spent 7 beautiful years together and are now planning their big day. They've been splitting expenses based on their salaries, with the groom covering 67% and the bride 33%. But when it comes to the wedding budget, things get a little more complicated... 🎩👰
Bride-to-Be Wants to Cancel Wedding Over Groom's Refusal to Pay for Extra Guests 😱💔
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So, our groom is standing firm on not paying for the extra guests his bride-to-be wants to invite, and she's not happy about it. In fact, she's so upset that she wants to cancel the wedding altogether! 😱 With emotions running high, it's unclear how this wedding drama will unfold. Let's see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation... 🍿👀
NTA. It's their wedding, her parents should pay for extra guests 👍
Relevant-Position-43 | Relevant-Position-43
Being too strict with money can harm relationships in the long run 😬
OutlandishnessOk2552 | OutlandishnessOk2552
Engaged couple struggles with wedding budget and guest list 💔
Kind-Philosopher1 | Kind-Philosopher1
User suggests YTA for drawing a financial line and proposes a love party as a backup plan. Replies agree and find compromise reasonable.
SunnyRose57 | SunnyRose57
Bridezilla wants to split wedding costs, but is it really about family and friends?
FunOnAita | FunOnAita
Financially divided marriages are never a good sign 😔
Wooden_Area_3393 | Wooden_Area_3393
Bride wants extra guests, groom refuses. Commenter says YTA for being transactional.
amazonstar | amazonstar
Bride-to-be wants to cancel wedding over groom's refusal to pay for extra guests 😬. Commenters debate who's the a**hole (YTA vs NTA)
Bluefrenchy | Bluefrenchy
Bride wants extra guests, but is YTA? Commenter offers insight 😊
big_bob_c | big_bob_c
Wedding expenses causing a rift? 💔 NTA, but compromising is key.
Free_Ad_7708 | Free_Ad_7708
Bride's parents want extra guests, groom refuses. NTA stands firm.
Scarlettohara1605 | Scarlettohara1605
Bridezilla wants extra guests, groom refuses. Commenter advises equality.
Mysterious_Bridge_61 | Mysterious_Bridge_61
Couple needs to address real issue instead of fighting over money 💰
rosered936 | rosered936
Compromise is key in wedding planning 👰🏻👰🏻👰🏻
fromhelley | fromhelley
Bride wants to invite distant relatives, parents want coworkers. Awkward. YTA for relatives, NTA for parents' guests. 💍
pinkpuffballs | pinkpuffballs
Bride stands up for herself, demands fairness from in-laws 💪
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Math and money don't always mix, even in relationships 💰
myraleemyrtlewood | myraleemyrtlewood
Don't be like OP, weddings are not transactions 🚫
Mental-Ocelot5466 | Mental-Ocelot5466
Commenter hilariously calls out groom's control issues. YTA. 😂
3username20charactrz | 3username20charactrz
Commenter calls out OP's unhealthy obsession with money and advises to prioritize relationship over finances. 👍
Justpassingthru63 | Justpassingthru63
Bride's pride is getting in the way of a solution 🙅
ElectroStaticSpeaker | ElectroStaticSpeaker
Bride-to-be wants strangers at wedding, groom disagrees over money 💰
Andie787 | Andie787
Weddings are about love, not showing off. NTA for reasonable approach 👍
danniDaAce | danniDaAce
Groom lays down the law, commenters call him YTA 😱
Bae_Mes | Bae_Mes
Suggests a compromise for bride-to-be's wedding dilemma 👯🏻🎉
mak-ina-myn | mak-ina-myn
Bridezilla wants to exclude groom's family, gets called out. 🤯
amphibbian | amphibbian
Money matters in a marriage. 💰 But it's a team effort. 👪
thisisstupid98765 | thisisstupid98765
Commenter warns groom-to-be of financial ruin and advises therapy.
KittiesLove1 | KittiesLove1
Wedding planning or contract negotiation? Split guest list evenly. 💍
stroppo | stroppo
Commenter calls out OP for being petty and transactional. 🤷🏻♀️
AdEmpty4390 | AdEmpty4390
Compromise is key for wedding planning. Don't nickel and dime. 💔
Impressive_Cat_530 | Impressive_Cat_530
Don't let a guest list ruin your wedding day 💔
HappySleepy2121 | HappySleepy2121
Commenter calls out OP's inconsistency in wedding planning finances 👏
lestrangerface | lestrangerface
Wedding guest list drama: bridezilla or reasonable request? 😱
RetroKida | RetroKida
Is the groom being stingy or practical? 🤔
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Starting a marriage by nickel and diming? 💍💰 Practice generosity instead.
RumoredOf | RumoredOf
Balancing practicality and sympathy in wedding planning, NTA but reconsider.
hanbnanAU | hanbnanAU
Wedding guests can make or break your special day 💔
FirstSpace4560 | FirstSpace4560
Bride-to-be wants bigger wedding, but is OP the a**hole for refusing?
llama_problems | llama_problems
Don't let money dictate your wedding, compromise and show love 💕
Confident_Storm_4884 | Confident_Storm_4884
Bridezilla sets guest limit based on her own selfishness. YTA.
lifetooshort4bs | lifetooshort4bs
Groom's financial concerns and contradictions about wedding expenses 🤔
Europeangirl101 | Europeangirl101
Bride's request for extra guests: cultural tradition or showing off? 🤔
AliMcGraw | AliMcGraw
Compromise is key! 🤝 Don't let money ruin your love 💕
750more | 750more
Bride threatens to cancel wedding over extra guests. NTA offers advice.
ReluctantVegetarian | ReluctantVegetarian
Save the money, skip the extras, and don't invite acquaintances. NTA 👍
Tasty-Work | Tasty-Work
Commenter questions frugality in light of wedding drama 😕
Velvis | Velvis
Bridezilla? Commenter calls out bride-to-be for canceling wedding over extra guests
bbcanadalover | bbcanadalover
Communication is key in marriage 💋👨👩👦👄
bmidontcare | bmidontcare
Commenter suggests prenup to protect groom's assets. 👍
cal_nevari | cal_nevari
Communicate and negotiate until you find a middle ground 👍
Cherry_clafoutis | Cherry_clafoutis
Commenter calls out groom's behavior, doubts wedding will happen. 🤔
Guess_What_I_Think | Guess_What_I_Think
Understand the reason behind her guest list and find alternatives. 🙏🏻
BiofilmWarrior | BiofilmWarrior
Compromise is key 👍. Split costs for mutual guests, pay separately for others.
MaddogOfLesbos | MaddogOfLesbos
Is it just about the cost or being a supportive partner? 🙂
Right-Row6744 | Right-Row6744
Suggests a compromise for bride and groom's wedding guest list 👍
Hinnanymous | Hinnanymous
