Stepmom Told to Move Out After Dad's Passing: Heartless or Justified? 😲

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Diply | Diply

Picture this: your dad is nearing the end of his life, and his wife (your stepmom) is living in the house you inherited from your grandparents. You've never had a close relationship with either of them, and you've made it clear that you plan to move back into the house after finishing school. But when your stepmom asks about your plans, you remind her that she'll need to find a new place to live. Is this a heartless move, or just a man standing up for his rights? Read on to find out! 😬🏠

A Military Dad and a Stepmom

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

Raised by Grandparents

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

Inheriting the Home

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

Plans to Move Back

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

Stepmom's Email

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

The Uncomfortable Conversation

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

Standing His Ground

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

Dad's Guilt Trip

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

Changing the Deal

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

Bringing Up the Past

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

Stepbrother's Education

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

Friends' Opinions

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

Setting Yourself on Fire

nbajamsand | nbajamsand

A Tough Decision: Fair or Cruel? 🤷

So, our protagonist has laid down the law: his stepmom and stepbrother will need to find a new place to live after his dad passes away. His friends seem to think he's justified in his decision, considering his strained relationship with his dad and the fact that he's already allowed them to live in his home. But is it really fair to put them out on the street, especially when his stepbrother's education is at stake? Let's see what the internet has to say about this complicated situation... 🌐💬

NTA for asking stepmom to move out, but be cautious 🚨

AdrijusSr | AdrijusSr

NTA. You deserve your own space and support during hard times 🙏

underumbrellas1 | underumbrellas1

Legal eviction recommended for stepmom's justified decision. 👍

gwacemom | gwacemom

Stepmom accused of trying to get rid of stepson after dad's death 😒

dart1126 | dart1126

NTA comment suggests evicting stepmom ASAP, legal reply given.

SpreadingKindnesss | SpreadingKindnesss

Stepmom demands more from selfless stepchild after father's passing 😡

lainmelle | lainmelle

Start eviction process early to avoid property damage. 🛠

Sarahh236 | Sarahh236

Commenter defends stepmom's eviction, replies suggest financial stability.

imjustlurkinghere244 | imjustlurkinghere244

Stepmom guilt-trips, but eviction justified. Dad has no say. 😒

cultqueennn | cultqueennn

Protecting the house after their departure: NTA's next move 👍

Avebury1 | Avebury1

Generous OP not the a**hole for asking stepmom to move out.

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Supportive comment receives no replies. Let's send virtual hugs! 🤗💜

MSchmidt8080 | MSchmidt8080

Generous homeowner asks stepmom to leave after dad's passing. NTA.

Smitty80015 | Smitty80015

Stepmom told to move out after dad's passing - commenter justifies it

danistheman43 | danistheman43

Stand your ground: NTA comment receives support 👍

weeeewooooooo | weeeewooooooo

Stepmom asked to move out of house left to OP by grandparents. NTA 👍

True_Rain_3285 | True_Rain_3285

Friends give sensible advice, NTA homie. Do what you need 👍

VeeNessAhh | VeeNessAhh

Generous stepmom evicts entitled strangers. NTA 👍

miraculous_milk | miraculous_milk

OP's dilemma: legal vs moral. Compromise suggested for empathy and closure 🙏

Final-Call | Final-Call

A heartbreaking situation with family dynamics at play. 😢

BuboTitan | BuboTitan

Protect your rights! Get everything in writing and be prepared.

Tesabella | Tesabella

Clear boundaries set from the start. NTA for enforcing them. 👍

Superjuulzz | Superjuulzz

Generous host faces legal battle after asking stepmom to move out 🤔

KTB1962 | KTB1962

Asking about insurance and rent payment, why the downvotes? 🤔

cassowary32 | cassowary32

NTA suggests practical solutions for stepmom's financial security 👍

MissMurderpants | MissMurderpants

Taking legal action for eviction - justified or extreme? 🤔

Unhappysong-6653 | Unhappysong-6653

Protecting inheritance or paranoia? NTA but be cautious. 🙈

Saberise | Saberise

Stepmom suggests OP move out, gets surprised Pikachu face. NTA.

Lanky-Temperature412 | Lanky-Temperature412

Take back what's yours! NTA for kicking them out. 💪

Ambidextrous_Fapper | Ambidextrous_Fapper

Protect yourself legally and love the new phrase! 😊

overthiscrap3729 | overthiscrap3729

Empathizing with those who need support and reassurance. 🙏

quietfangirl | quietfangirl

Stepmom not at fault according to commenter. 🙏

Most_Disaster_79 | Most_Disaster_79

Choose your own future. Stand by your gut feeling. 👍

MSchmidt8080 | MSchmidt8080

Take legal action to evict her, but don't let her win 👊

B-Girl-Ca | B-Girl-Ca

Selfless act turns sour as stepmom refuses to leave. NTA.

themightymcb | themightymcb

Commenter praised for articulately justifying their NTA judgement. 👏

Scribb74 | Scribb74

Concerned commenter offers safety advice for grieving stepmom. 🙏

QuirklessStoner | QuirklessStoner

You have the right to live in your own house 👏

MysteriousMention9 | MysteriousMention9

Generous stepmom evicted after dad's death, commenters side with her. 👍

perhapsnew | perhapsnew

Setting boundaries after loss: NTA comment sparks agreement.

Aggressive_Complex | Aggressive_Complex

Commenter advises OP to document property state before eviction. 👍

darklinghate | darklinghate

Practical advice on evicting a stepmom after dad's passing.

ScarletDarkstar | ScarletDarkstar

Grandparents favored OP over their own children, NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Protecting the home after a tenant's departure 🛡

BDThrills | BDThrills

Son gives stepmom 60 days to move out after dad's passing?

NoDimension2877 | NoDimension2877

Stepmom asked for it: YTA or NTA? Commenters weigh in. 🤔

WritPositWrit | WritPositWrit

Stepmom not at fault according to commenter. 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Be careful of potential home damage from spiteful ex-stepfamily. 🚨

seanprefect | seanprefect

Stepparent overstepping boundaries leads to justified eviction. 😡

Legitimate_Being13 | Legitimate_Being13

Generous stepmom not at fault for asking them to move out 😊

R_Mack | R_Mack

Legal action against stepmom for eviction after dad's death. 💪

d1scworld | d1scworld

Setting boundaries after a parent's death - refreshing and justified! 👏

saradil25 | saradil25

Stepmom refuses to move out after dad's passing. NTA's advice.

No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628

Curious about their financial contribution to the household? 🤔

GracieW7 | GracieW7

Setting boundaries is important. NTA comment sparks agreement.

Izzy4162305 | Izzy4162305

Clear and concise NTA comment, take control of your home 💪

Nielleluvzu628 | Nielleluvzu628

Support for the stepmom standing up to entitled family members. 👏

DragonQueen777666 | DragonQueen777666

Prioritizing yourself is not selfish, it's self-care. 🙌

thehumblebaboon | thehumblebaboon

Commenter urges empathy towards stepmom during difficult time. 💚

Special-Parsnip9057 | Special-Parsnip9057

Stepmom facing tough times, NAH for asking to stay longer. OP has right to ask them to leave, but could show compassion.

TheTrueHorseChoker | TheTrueHorseChoker

Protect your property! Trust your instincts, not their intentions. 🙌

Dumpster_fff | Dumpster_fff

Not the a**hole, but why? Share your thoughts 🤔

optimistichappyface | optimistichappyface

Homeowner asserts independence, receives support. 👍

Bangbangsmashsmash | Bangbangsmashsmash

Moving on after giving too much 👍

SweetPea-1919 | SweetPea-1919

Stepmom's not your problem. You've done enough. 👍

lilliamos60 | lilliamos60

Generous stepmom forced to move out after dad's passing. NTA wins.

OohWitchyWoman | OohWitchyWoman

You're not the a**hole for wanting to keep your home.

seba_make | seba_make

Unpaid rent or medical bills? 🤔

trilliumsummer | trilliumsummer

Generous stepmom gives 60-day notice after dad's passing. NTA.

cranking90sboi | cranking90sboi

Generosity taken for granted. SM should have contributed. NTA 👍

FlatAd7746 | FlatAd7746

Firm and consistent boundaries or heartless stepchild? 🤔

outerheaven77 | outerheaven77

Stepmom not at fault according to commenter. 👍

Aggressive-Sample612 | Aggressive-Sample612

Stepmom forced to move out after dad's death. NTA explains why.

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Supportive friends! 🤗

Tannim44 | Tannim44

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