Imagine growing up in a highly religious household, knowing that your family would disown you if they found out your secret. That's exactly what happened to this 22-year-old man, who was outed as gay by his younger sister when he was just 16. The fallout was devastating: he was forced into conversion therapy, eventually kicked out of the house, and spent almost a year homeless. Now, six years later, his sister wants to reconnect and make amends, but he's not so sure he can forgive her. Let's dive into this heart-wrenching story. 😢💔
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Can He Find it in His Heart to Forgive? 💔
This young man's life was turned upside down when his sister outed him as gay to their highly religious parents. He was forced into conversion therapy, eventually kicked out of the house, and spent nearly a year homeless. Now, six years later, his sister wants to reconnect and apologize, but he's struggling to forgive her. He can't help but feel it's unfair that she's living a great life while he had to suffer so much. His friends think he's being petty and should give her a chance to make amends, but he believes he has the right to set the boundaries he needs. Let's see what the internet thinks of this emotional situation... 💔😢
NTA for not forgiving sister who outed him. Sister was brainwashed at 13 and is seeking to make amends now. Religion is a mind fuck.
lucrece25 | lucrece25
NAH (apart from parents). No obligation to reconnect, but forgiveness can be beautiful.
AnorhiDemarche | AnorhiDemarche
NTA for protecting yourself from sister's past actions 👏
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Commenter defends sister's actions, others suggest forgiveness is possible. 👍
INFOTRODE_ | INFOTRODE_
NTA comment suggests sister needs to understand the severity of her actions and relationship with abusers. Others agree and offer suggestions for confronting her.
fzooey78 | fzooey78
Forgiveness is important for healing, but it's okay to take time 👍
Vallhalla_Rising | Vallhalla_Rising
Forgiveness takes time, and she needs to stand up for you 👏
alalal982 | alalal982
Sibling outing leading to trauma, counseling suggested for forgiveness 😱
justinwaas | justinwaas
Take care of yourself first 👍. You're not obligated to forgive.
ronhaaar | ronhaaar
Forgiving a family member who outed you at 13 💔
dmbase | dmbase
No obligation to maintain unwanted relationships. 👍
Idk-123 | Idk-123
Don't forgive just because they're sorry. NTA, stay strong 💪
antinatalistFtM | antinatalistFtM
Forgive but don't forget. It's your life and your choice 👍
Jay_Nor8 | Jay_Nor8
Sibling forgiveness and family relationships after outing someone. 💔
Bairbearbarebear | Bairbearbarebear
Sibling's apology seems more for her conscience 🤷♂️
addisunshine | addisunshine
Forgiveness is not a one-step process 🙏. NTA
BenWonderin | BenWonderin
Sibling betrayal and bigotry. NTA for not forgiving.
crop-it-like-its-hot | crop-it-like-its-hot
Sibling betrayal is not petty, do what's best for you 👍
Mallory36 | Mallory36
Stand your ground and don't forgive her. You deserve better 💪
cloudcrescent | cloudcrescent
Sibling fallout: NAH for wanting relationship, not forgiving sister
Morgan___Avery | Morgan___Avery
Understanding both sides of a complex family dynamic 👍
UhmNotMe | UhmNotMe
Being outed was traumatic. Forgiveness is hard. NTA.
irkierans | irkierans
Sister only realizing consequences now, NTA for not forgiving 👏
Pets4life06 | Pets4life06
Sister's apology was anemic and paints you as the bad guy 🤯
loudent2 | loudent2
Fellow gay commenter supports NTA and condemns others 💯
Level99Legend | Level99Legend
Forgiveness is for you, not her. But how do parents feel? 🤔
Morrya | Morrya
Sibling bond can be strong. NTA for not forgiving.
miksyub | miksyub
NTA comment calls out emotional abuse by parents. 🔥
GullibleIdiots | GullibleIdiots
Sister outed him 6 years ago, NTA for not forgiving 💔
Iridium_Pumpkin | Iridium_Pumpkin
Forgiving may be hard, but leaving the door open helps 👍
winterstover | winterstover
A compassionate perspective on forgiving a brainwashed sister 💜
Destiny89becomesme | Destiny89becomesme
Setting boundaries with friends and learning from consequences. 👍
M-Ivan | M-Ivan
Sister's apology falls short, lacks acknowledgment of her role 😔
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Sibling bond shattered by outing, NTA for not forgiving.
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Sister's selfish actions caused OP unnecessary hardship. NTA.
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NTA. Commenter supports OP and questions sister's sincerity on LGBT rights 👏
alignedFeline | alignedFeline
Sister outed brother at 12, but is she NTA? 🤔
poolswithoutladders | poolswithoutladders
Betrayed by his sister, he's NTA for not forgiving her 😡
Mishtayan | Mishtayan
13-year-old is NTA for outing brother 6 years ago 👏
TheRealCousinPig | TheRealCousinPig
Sister outed him, but now reaching out. Is forgiveness possible? 🤔
BKStephens | BKStephens
Sister outed him 6 years ago. She's changed but can he forgive? 🤔
damnitandy | damnitandy
NTA is celebrated for petty revenge but not for empathy?
particledamage | particledamage
A heartwarming story of a sister who supported her trans brother ❤️
JorjCardas | JorjCardas
NTA. Sister needs to make amends before relationship can heal 👍
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Sibling outing and bigotry. NTA stands their ground. 👍
Ngamoko | Ngamoko
NTA- Parents brainwashed sister, put you through conversion therapy. Forgiveness optional.
flooperdooper4 | flooperdooper4
Sibling betrayal and forgiveness - NTA comment and its nuances 😱
Baralay | Baralay
Sibling betrayal hurts, but forgiveness is a personal choice 💔
ConflictedKiwi | ConflictedKiwi
Religious upbringing caused sister to out brother, NAH situation 🙏
polus1987 | polus1987
Forgiveness is a personal choice. Don't let anyone pressure you. 👍
snowcake-fairy | snowcake-fairy