Sister Respects Late Brother's Wishes, Ex-Wife Left in the Dark 😲

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Imagine being responsible for carrying out your late brother's final wishes, only to have it blow up in your face. That's exactly what happened to one woman who chose to honor her brother's request to keep his illness and passing a secret from his ex-wife. The situation escalated when the ex-wife showed up at her doorstep, wanting to spend Christmas with him, completely unaware of his death. 😢

Brother's Role as a Father Figure

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A Happy Family Shattered

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Tragic Loss of Daughters

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Divorce Bombshell

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Brother's Cancer Diagnosis

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Depression and Isolation

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Terminal Condition and Final Wishes

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Honoring His Wishes

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Ex-Wife's Unexpected Visit

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Accusations and Panic

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Asking Olivia to Leave

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Social Media Harassment

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Caught in the Crossfire of Grief and Anger 😔

This heart-wrenching story of a sister trying to honor her late brother's wishes has spiraled into a chaotic mess. With the ex-wife's unexpected visit and her subsequent emotional outburst, our protagonist is now facing harassment and backlash from friends and strangers alike. It's a painful reminder that grief can manifest in many forms and that sometimes, even the best intentions can lead to unintended consequences. Let's see what the internet thinks of this delicate situation... 💬

Respecting late brother's wishes, ex-wife lashes out. NTA. 🙏

mlb64 | mlb64

Respect for brother's wishes, ex-wife overstepped boundaries 😍

arizonakarenina | arizonakarenina

Respecting late brother's wishes, ex-wife not owed anything. NTA 😊

askallthequestions86 | askallthequestions86

Friends MIA during brother's illness and divorce, NTA prevails 😊

mandirahman | mandirahman

Respecting late brother's wishes, sister not to blame. 🙏

Maximum_System_7819 | Maximum_System_7819

Respectful commenters offer sympathy and virtual hugs for all parties involved.

Ohcrumbcakes | Ohcrumbcakes

Respecting late brother's wishes caused unexpected pain and confusion 😢

astrocanyounaut | astrocanyounaut

Respecting the dead: Sister honors brother's wishes despite backlash 🙏

laxyliz | laxyliz

Respecting the dead's wishes: NTA for sister, but lessons learned 🙏

Rabid-GNN | Rabid-GNN

Compassionate response to a difficult situation with no clear solution 🙏

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Respecting the wishes of the deceased brother over ex-wife's feelings 🙌

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Respecting the dead: a promise is a promise 🙏

Caeflin | Caeflin

Honoring late brother's wishes causes shock, but no wrongdoing.

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Understanding the link between pancreatic cancer and depression 🤔

NightSail | NightSail

Respecting the dead's wishes can still hurt the living 😢

GayGoth98 | GayGoth98

Condolences and support for the poster's situation.

IrateAuntie | IrateAuntie

Loss can lead to unexpected changes and self-discovery 😢

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Respecting the deceased's wishes 🙏


Respecting late brother's wishes causes pain for ex-wife 😢

breakthebnry | breakthebnry

Respecting the deceased's wishes 🙏, not Olivia's 🤯

jemmls4 | jemmls4

Respecting wishes after death. NTA, don't let harassment win. 🙌

ComprehensiveBand586 | ComprehensiveBand586

Respecting late brother's wishes: NTA takes care of family.

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Respecting late brother's wishes, ex-wife feels guilty. NTA 👍

DinosaurBabyDoll | DinosaurBabyDoll

Respecting wishes over ex's feelings is never easy 😢

XxQueenOfSwordsXx | XxQueenOfSwordsXx

Don't prohibit your survivors from mourning. Let them mourn how they please 🙏

sucrose_97 | sucrose_97

Respecting late brother's wishes over ex-wife's demands 🙏

Vaspiria | Vaspiria

Respecting late brother's wishes, NTA receives support and comfort 🙏

Deviouscartography | Deviouscartography

Respecting late loved ones' wishes can be tough on the living 😢

teardropmaker | teardropmaker

Condolences and support for the poster's situation.

One_Discipline_3868 | One_Discipline_3868

Compassionate comment acknowledges complex emotions and offers condolences 😢

Responsible_Cloud_92 | Responsible_Cloud_92

Respecting late brother's wishes causes understandable grief and shock 😢

WandersongWright | WandersongWright

Respecting the wishes of the deceased can be complicated 🤔

MistressLyda | MistressLyda

Honoring late brother's wishes over ex-wife's entitlement. NTA 👏

Limerase | Limerase

Widower supports sister's decision to respect late brother's wishes 🙏

eclectic-up-north | eclectic-up-north

Respecting the dead over the living 🙏

iamyourfriend | iamyourfriend

Heartbreaking situation for all 😢

Esosorum | Esosorum

Respecting late brother's wishes causes ex-wife's grief 😢

SaltSuspect | SaltSuspect

Heartbreaking story of a sister honoring her late brother's wishes 😢

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Heartbreaking situation. Respecting wishes can still hurt loved ones.

KettleLogic | KettleLogic

Respecting a dying loved one's wishes can be tough 😢

flyfarther | flyfarther

Respecting late brother's wishes, OP struggles with grief and guilt.

babettevonbaguette | babettevonbaguette

Grieving sister lashes out, ex-wife left in the dark 😢

ilyriaa | ilyriaa

Respecting brother's wishes: NTA. Unwritten will. Stay strong 🙌

invisible_me_516 | invisible_me_516

Compassionate comment section offers condolences and understanding 😢

kairi79 | kairi79

Heartfelt comment expresses sympathy for deceased and his ex-wife.

JannaSnakehole | JannaSnakehole

Commenter struggles with decision, ultimately decides NTA. 🤔

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Respecting the deceased's wishes: NTA and 'it was his wish' 🙌

lyraeros | lyraeros

Heartbreaking story, NTA for respecting brother's wishes. Olivia's behavior ESH 😢

KatJen76 | KatJen76

Sister respects late brother's wishes, ex-wife left in the dark 😲. Commenter defends sister and calls out ex-wife's entitlement 😠

Adalaide78 | Adalaide78

Respecting late partner's wishes can still cause major grief 😢

sarcazm | sarcazm

Respecting the dead brother's wishes, NTA for not telling ex-wife 🙏

MissDoneWithThisShit | MissDoneWithThisShit

Respecting late brother's wishes, ex-wife left in the dark 😢

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Respecting the wishes of the deceased, even when it's uncomfortable 🙏

theTeach78 | theTeach78

Respecting the dead: Sister follows brother's wishes. NTA 🙌

Fit-Magician1909 | Fit-Magician1909

Dealing with a difficult situation after respecting late brother's wishes 😢

religiouslydecaf | religiouslydecaf

Respecting the wishes of a loved one who has passed away 😢

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Compassionate support for OP's difficult decision and backlash received.

Alwayshappy_ | Alwayshappy_

Respecting the dead's wishes isn't stealing. NTA 🙌

Garden_gnome1609 | Garden_gnome1609

NTA and a clear message to Olivia 👊🏻

Select_Error_44 | Select_Error_44

Respecting a late loved one's wishes is difficult but admirable 😍

ellofthewisp | ellofthewisp

Respecting the dead can be complicated 😕

Participant8119 | Participant8119

Respecting wishes vs grieving ex-wife 😔

SpinsterSunfish | SpinsterSunfish

Respect for the deceased brother wins over ex-wife drama 🙌

thicklover | thicklover

Respecting late brother's wishes over ex-wife's feelings 🙏

ArchieMedoggie | ArchieMedoggie

Commenter supports sister's decision, ex-wife criticized for entitlement 😠

secretdancer26 | secretdancer26

Compassionate reply acknowledges loss and condemns ex-sister-in-law's behavior 🙌

brerosie33 | brerosie33

Respecting the deceased's wishes is not up for debate 👍

acadia171223 | acadia171223

Heartfelt condolences and holiday wishes in a sensitive discussion ❤️

plan2succeed | plan2succeed

Heartfelt support for respecting late brother's wishes. ❤️

uxsociallite | uxsociallite

Honoring late brother's wishes, ex-wife left in the dark 😢❤️

jbmmwest | jbmmwest

Respecting the dead: Sister's actions spark family feud 😲

FoShizzy67_64 | FoShizzy67_64

Respecting late brother's wishes causes bombshell reaction 🤯

CK1277 | CK1277

Respecting late brother's wishes, OP is unequivocally NTA 🙌

GuidoLessa | GuidoLessa

Respecting wishes and ignoring ex's guilt, NTA for cremation choice 🙌

ThankYouOlive | ThankYouOlive

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