Daughter Skips Dad's Funeral, Shows Up for the Will 💔📜

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Diply | Diply

Imagine being abandoned by your father only to have him reappear in your life when he's on his deathbed. That's the story of one woman who was left heartbroken by her dad's actions. After he left her and her mother for another woman, she rarely saw him, and when she did, it was an emotionally painful experience. When her father passed away, she chose not to attend his funeral, but still went to the notary to see if he left her anything in his will. Now, her family is accusing her of being ungrateful and uncaring. Let's dive into her side of the story. 😔💔

Father's Betrayal 🚪

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Broken Promises 💔

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Rare Visits 😢

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New Wife, Cold Treatment ❄️

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Cutting Contact ✂️

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Cancer Diagnosis 😷

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Facing Death 💀

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Skipping the Funeral ⚰️

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The Will 📜

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A Generous Inheritance 💰

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Family's Accusations 🗣️

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Edit: Gratitude 🙏

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Half-Sister's Age 📅

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Forgiving Father? 🤔

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Will Reading Clarification 🧐

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Family Ties Cut ✂️

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Ungrateful or Justified? 🤷‍♀️

This woman's story of her father's betrayal and abandonment has left her with a difficult decision: attend his funeral or not. After years of emotional pain, she chose to skip the funeral but went to the notary to see if he left her anything in his will. Now, her family is accusing her of being ungrateful and uncaring. But is she really in the wrong, or is her decision justified? Let's see what people have to say about this heartbreaking situation. 💔🗣️

NTA. Commenter suggests therapy for OP to let go of resentment.

GoAskZombieland | GoAskZombieland

Find a support system to help you cope with pain 💔

Abblz | Abblz

Skipping the funeral doesn't make OP a bad person 👍

Berlinerpfannkuchen | Berlinerpfannkuchen

Encouraging words for OP to seek therapy and move forward 💪

Divocade | Divocade

Skipping the funeral of an absent father: NTA 👏

neobeguine | neobeguine

Commenters find humor in NTA verdict 😂

Beefcliffe | Beefcliffe

Skipping the funeral of a neglectful dad, understandable or not? 🤷‍♀️

refusestopoop | refusestopoop

NTA skips dad's funeral, shows up for the will. Money heals wounds 💰

CheerilyTerrified | CheerilyTerrified

Inheriting more than just money - NTA copes with loss

cridhebriste | cridhebriste

Skipping dad's funeral for being treated like garbage, NTA. Seek therapy.

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Different experiences with a father can lead to different feelings 👍

songbird563 | songbird563

Taking what you're legally entitled to after a neglectful father's death 💔

YouGetABan | YouGetABan

Validated for skipping funeral for will? 🤔

LxSky90 | LxSky90

Daughter justifies skipping dad's funeral with a valid point 👍

ollyator | ollyator

Dealing with loss differently. NTA for skipping funeral.

eaca02124 | eaca02124

Grieving is personal. NTA for missing funeral for will 😢

tiger7lily | tiger7lily

Daughter rightfully skips funeral after being replaced like a refund 💔

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Skipping dad's funeral, but showing up for the will? NTA.

vultureseverywhere | vultureseverywhere

No regrets, no apologies. You owe him nothing. 👏

Enirehtac92 | Enirehtac92

Abandoned by her father, OP receives inheritance and advice 👍

dldppl | dldppl

Commenter defends someone and insults poorly written comment.

rriro | rriro

Inheritance won, but family relationships lost? Therapy might help. 🤔

FunOnAita | FunOnAita

Take time for yourself and decide if they're worth it. 👍

Llyndreth | Llyndreth

Navigating family drama and inheritance after skipping a funeral 💔

JaeKizza | JaeKizza

Supportive commenter offers therapy and a listening ear 💛

deliriousgoomba | deliriousgoomba

Supportive commenter receives empathy award 🎉

tototeto | tototeto

Forgiveness denied, but inheritance accepted 💰

Mashy6012 | Mashy6012

Heartbreaking comment about a difficult relationship with their father.

rhllordemort | rhllordemort

Commenter not at fault for skipping dad's funeral 🙏

goofberries | goofberries

Surviving emotional trauma: NTA for skipping dad's funeral 👏

SheShouldGo | SheShouldGo

Not the a**hole. But why skip the funeral?

Backsliderdee | Backsliderdee

Skipping dad's funeral for the will? NTA according to comment.

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Skipping dad's funeral doesn't make you an a**hole. Get therapy 👍

TheMocking-Bird | TheMocking-Bird

Commenter sympathizes with daughter who skipped dad's funeral

ChoiceConfidence | ChoiceConfidence

Inheriting hurt: NTA for taking the money and healing.

scorpio6519 | scorpio6519

Skipping dad's funeral for inheritance? NTA, but seek support 💔👏

Wanderers-Way | Wanderers-Way

Grieving in public sucks. It's complicated. You're NTA. {{{hugs}}}

mjw217 | mjw217

Supportive comment offers condolences for difficult situation. 🙏

DatLou | DatLou

Father's guilt-trip call doesn't excuse past behavior towards daughter. 👍

Bagglebaggle | Bagglebaggle

Validating the commenter's feelings of neglect and supporting their decision.

Fastest_simp_alive | Fastest_simp_alive

Inheritance drama: Daughter skips dad's funeral, shows up for will 🤔

jhonotan1 | jhonotan1

Inheriting money from a father who was absent in life 💔

Apostrophe_T | Apostrophe_T

NTA. Emotional closure is important. Write a letter and burn it 📝🔥

blackday44 | blackday44

Inheriting drama? NTA for skipping dad's funeral.

Lucibean | Lucibean

Commenter supports decision, calls situation a mess 🤯

ladykk86 | ladykk86

Live your best life 👌, forget the snooty family 👏

pringle1978 | pringle1978

Skipping dad's funeral was justified, inheritance eases the pain. 👍

9inkski3s | 9inkski3s

Skipping dad's funeral: NTA. Funerals are for the living. Take care 💔

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Commenter is not the a**hole, but why? 🤔

Superspanger | Superspanger

Skipping a parent's funeral: justified or heartless? 🤷🏼‍♀️

Mediocre_Omens | Mediocre_Omens

Commenter sympathizes with OP's difficult relationship with father.

ProbablyNotAJ | ProbablyNotAJ

Skipping funeral for will reading, family drama and legalities 💔

bookandworm | bookandworm

Skipping the funeral for the will? NTA, according to commenter.

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Encouraging seeking therapy for coping with loss and loneliness.

emtgo | emtgo

Daughter rightfully skips dad's funeral, comment supports her decision.

dydrmwvr | dydrmwvr

NTA. Funerals are for support, not the departed. Take care.

awill237 | awill237

Making peace privately doesn't make her an a**hole 👍

kingfwoofurs27 | kingfwoofurs27

Advice for coping with emotional pain and family rejection 💔

dogmom61 | dogmom61

Don't let anyone guilt you for not playing happy family.

FrauPopo | FrauPopo

Empathetic comment receives no replies. 😢

bobbie-m | bobbie-m

Forgiveness denied: Daughter skips dad's funeral for a reason 🚫

HotheadDemon | HotheadDemon

Half-sibling called out for selfishness in funeral dispute 👏

whatshouldIdo28 | whatshouldIdo28

Cheers to the NTA who got the last laugh 🍻

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Validated! OP is NTA for skipping dad's funeral.

MedievalMissFit | MedievalMissFit

Skipping dad's funeral for inheritance? Not the a**hole.

somegarbagedoesfloat | somegarbagedoesfloat

Heartfelt condolences for a difficult loss and situation ❤️

kimmi2ue | kimmi2ue

Abandoned by her dad, but left with a prize 🥇

BabserellaWT | BabserellaWT

Skipping dad's funeral for the will? NTA explains why.

shrineless | shrineless

Skipping dad's funeral for mental health reasons - NTA 👍

bugscuz | bugscuz

Skipping dad's funeral for inheritance? Therapy may help. 👍

ireadgoofystuff | ireadgoofystuff

Daughter skips dad's funeral, receives inheritance, and is judged. NTA.

HellcatPaz | HellcatPaz

Navigating complex family dynamics with grace and self-respect 👏

edzo1998 | edzo1998

Skipping dad's funeral for the will? NTA but insensitive. 💔

UnsightlyFuzz | UnsightlyFuzz

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