Groom-to-Be Fights for Sister with Cerebral Palsy 💔🌸

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Wedding planning can be a nightmare, but imagine having to fight for your sister's right to be the flower girl! A 23-year-old groom-to-be is in the midst of a heated argument with his fiancée and her mother over who should be the flower girl at their upcoming wedding. The groom's 9-year-old sister, who has mild cerebral palsy, was already chosen for the role, but his fiancée's mom is insisting on her niece instead. 😡💔

Wedding Planning Nightmare 😖

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Momzilla on the Loose 🦖

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An Annoying Nickname 😒

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Choosing the Flower Girl 🌸

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Sister's Excitement 😊

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Momzilla Strikes Again 🦖⚡

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"Wrong" Flower Girl? 🤔

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Fiancée's Mom's Cruel Suggestion 😠

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Groom-to-Be Stands His Ground ✊

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Fiancée's Unreasonable Compromise 😤

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Endless Arguments 😩

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Groom's Unwavering Support 🥰

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EDIT: More than One Flower Girl? 🌸🌸

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Unfair Treatment 😔

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Sister's True Nature ❤️

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Groom Fights for Sister's Right to Shine 🌟

This groom-to-be is standing up for his sister, refusing to let her be replaced as the flower girl by his fiancée's niece. He's been unwavering in his support, despite the endless arguments and pressure from his future mother-in-law. His sister, who has mild cerebral palsy, is excited and thrilled to be part of the wedding, and he's determined not to let her down. 💪🌺 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

NTA, but OP needs to have a serious conversation with his fiancee about her behavior and her mother's control before the wedding. It's not just about the flower girl, it's about setting a standard for their relationship and future family. 🚨

Sgtmeg | Sgtmeg

Commenters advise groom-to-be to reconsider marriage due to family issues 💔

Banana615 | Banana615

Fiancée wants a 'decent wedding' but groom-to-be fights for sister ❤️

Mister_fish800 | Mister_fish800

Groom-to-be prioritizes sister over mother-in-law's control. 👏

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Wedding warning signs: MIL steamrolls, names kids, ableism, and more 👊

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Commenters agree this is a fight worth having 👊

sirharryflashman | sirharryflashman

Fiancee wants to take away sister's role in wedding. Stand up for her and reconsider if necessary. 💔

Jaded_Cryptographer | Jaded_Cryptographer

Bride-to-be shows ableist behavior towards groom's sister. NTA.

JenninMiami | JenninMiami

Defending sister with cerebral palsy from future mother-in-law 💔

Spotzie27 | Spotzie27

NTA. Don't marry her. Her mother runs her life. 🤔

lizzyborden666 | lizzyborden666

Supportive comment receives positive feedback

Jstrat92 | Jstrat92

Fiance's behavior towards sister raises red flags. 🚨

anchovie_macncheese | anchovie_macncheese

Mother-in-law's ignorance about disability sparks debate 🤔

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Reconsider the marriage if red flags and disrespect persist 👍

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Setting boundaries with future MIL crucial for happy marriage 👯

C0pper-an0de | C0pper-an0de

Stand your ground, reconsider the family 👊🏼

KyonaAidoneus | KyonaAidoneus

Supportive comment with humorous emojis

ILoatheCailou | ILoatheCailou

Fiancee disrespects sister with cerebral palsy, groom-to-be fights back 💔

Decent_Ad6389 | Decent_Ad6389

Fiancé prioritizes mom's wishes over sister with cerebral palsy 💔🌸

Pistalrose | Pistalrose

Fiancé refuses disabled sibling in wedding, NTA for calling it off 👏

venus_4938 | venus_4938

Fiancée's mother tries to change wedding plans, NTA stands up

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Stand up for your sister and your future, NTA 🙌

TypicalManagement680 | TypicalManagement680

Choosing a partner who accepts your family is crucial 💔

Gave2Cents_NowBroke | Gave2Cents_NowBroke

Inclusive flower girl alternatives for a heartwarming wedding 💐

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Fighting for family: Groom-to-be stands up for sister's happiness 💔

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Supportive comment defends against potential future family conflicts 👏

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Commenter advises to run from red flag groom-to-be 👋

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Heartwarming support for groom-to-be's selfless act ❤️

Dendad1218 | Dendad1218

Stand up for your sister, NTA. Don't let her go.

Ponkermagoo | Ponkermagoo

Marriage warning: NTA. OP, RUN RUN RUN 😱

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Stand your ground and prioritize family. Red flag alert 🚨

Jchap25 | Jchap25

Sarcastic comment receives no response 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Bride's family disapproves of sister with cerebral palsy as flower girl 😠

NottheNSA94 | NottheNSA94

Choose family over love? A tough decision for OP 🤷‍♂️

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Fiancee wants to kick sister with cerebral palsy out of being flower girl. NTA.

WaDaEp | WaDaEp

Support for young bride-to-be and agreement with NTA judgement 👍

jessicacaine | jessicacaine

Stand your ground! Don't let them take control 💪

Critical_Aspect | Critical_Aspect

Think twice before marrying into this controlling family 😑

Calliope5586 | Calliope5586

Groom-to-be stands up to controlling MIL. NTA. 🎉

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NTA: Groom-to-be stands up for his sister with cerebral palsy 💔🌸

invasionfromkat | invasionfromkat

Red flag alert! Break off the engagement and prioritize family 💔

CaffeineChristine | CaffeineChristine

Consider leaving your fiancée who doesn't love your sister 💔

woahysenia | woahysenia

Fighting for a loved one's rights at a wedding 💔🌸

HunterRoze | HunterRoze

Stand up for what's right, even if it means risking everything. 💪

5pinktoes | 5pinktoes

Supportive commenters suggest seeking advice on justnoso and justnomil subreddits.

kwedding022814 | kwedding022814

Wedding called off due to ableist in-laws. NTA wins.

PostalGlitter | PostalGlitter

Supportive comment calls out problematic behavior in a family.

chippedtooth19 | chippedtooth19

Stand up for your sister with CP, don't let them discriminate 👊

L1zisC00L | L1zisC00L

Wedding postponed? 😮 Time for premarital counseling 💔

BabserellaWT | BabserellaWT

Defending family: NTA groom-to-be faces tough decision 💔

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Sensitive topic: Comment raises concerns about future children's treatment

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Commenter advises groom-to-be to leave due to controlling mother-in-law. NTA

odirilemoses | odirilemoses

NTA. Valuable insight into your lives going forward. Take wake-up call 👏

dart1126 | dart1126

Stand your ground and have the wedding you want! NTA 👏

Ravenclaw79 | Ravenclaw79

Hope for a positive update on the groom-to-be's sister ❤️

dreadfulNinja | dreadfulNinja

Multiple flower girls can make a wedding super cute 💕

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Defending a special needs child against family bullying 💔

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