Wedding planning can be a nightmare, but imagine having to fight for your sister’s right to be the flower girl! A 23-year-old groom-to-be is in the midst of a heated argument with his fiancée and her mother over who should be the flower girl at their upcoming wedding. The groom’s 9-year-old sister, who has mild cerebral palsy, was already chosen for the role, but his fiancée’s mom is insisting on her niece instead.
Wedding Planning Nightmare

Momzilla on the Loose

An Annoying Nickname

Choosing the Flower Girl

Sister’s Excitement

Momzilla Strikes Again ⚡

“Wrong” Flower Girl?

Fiancée’s Mom’s Cruel Suggestion

Groom-to-Be Stands His Ground ✊

Fiancée’s Unreasonable Compromise

Endless Arguments

Groom’s Unwavering Support

EDIT: More than One Flower Girl?

Unfair Treatment

Sister’s True Nature ❤️

Groom Fights for Sister’s Right to Shine
This groom-to-be is standing up for his sister, refusing to let her be replaced as the flower girl by his fiancée’s niece. He’s been unwavering in his support, despite the endless arguments and pressure from his future mother-in-law. His sister, who has mild cerebral palsy, is excited and thrilled to be part of the wedding, and he’s determined not to let her down. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA, but OP needs to have a serious conversation with his fiancee about her behavior and her mother’s control before the wedding. It’s not just about the flower girl, it’s about setting a standard for their relationship and future family.

Commenters advise groom-to-be to reconsider marriage due to family issues

Fiancée wants a ‘decent wedding’ but groom-to-be fights for sister ❤️

Groom-to-be prioritizes sister over mother-in-law’s control.
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Wedding warning signs: MIL steamrolls, names kids, ableism, and more

Commenters agree this is a fight worth having

Fiancee wants to take away sister’s role in wedding. Stand up for her and reconsider if necessary.

Bride-to-be shows ableist behavior towards groom’s sister. NTA.

Defending sister with cerebral palsy from future mother-in-law

NTA. Don’t marry her. Her mother runs her life.

Supportive comment receives positive feedback

Fiance’s behavior towards sister raises red flags.

Mother-in-law’s ignorance about disability sparks debate
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Reconsider the marriage if red flags and disrespect persist
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Setting boundaries with future MIL crucial for happy marriage

Stand your ground, reconsider the family

Supportive comment with humorous emojis

Fiancee disrespects sister with cerebral palsy, groom-to-be fights back

Fiancé prioritizes mom’s wishes over sister with cerebral palsy

Fiancé refuses disabled sibling in wedding, NTA for calling it off

Fiancée’s mother tries to change wedding plans, NTA stands up

Stand up for your sister and your future, NTA

Choosing a partner who accepts your family is crucial

Inclusive flower girl alternatives for a heartwarming wedding

Fighting for family: Groom-to-be stands up for sister’s happiness
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Supportive comment defends against potential future family conflicts

Commenter advises to run from red flag groom-to-be
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Heartwarming support for groom-to-be’s selfless act ❤️

Stand up for your sister, NTA. Don’t let her go.

Marriage warning: NTA. OP, RUN RUN RUN

Stand your ground and prioritize family. Red flag alert

Sarcastic comment receives no response ♂️
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Bride’s family disapproves of sister with cerebral palsy as flower girl

Choose family over love? A tough decision for OP ♂️

Fiancee wants to kick sister with cerebral palsy out of being flower girl. NTA.

Support for young bride-to-be and agreement with NTA judgement

Stand your ground! Don’t let them take control

Think twice before marrying into this controlling family

Groom-to-be stands up to controlling MIL. NTA.

NTA: Groom-to-be stands up for his sister with cerebral palsy

Red flag alert! Break off the engagement and prioritize family

Consider leaving your fiancée who doesn’t love your sister

Fighting for a loved one’s rights at a wedding

Stand up for what’s right, even if it means risking everything.

Supportive commenters suggest seeking advice on justnoso and justnomil subreddits.

Wedding called off due to ableist in-laws. NTA wins.

Supportive comment calls out problematic behavior in a family.

Stand up for your sister with CP, don’t let them discriminate

Wedding postponed? Time for premarital counseling

Defending family: NTA groom-to-be faces tough decision

Sensitive topic: Comment raises concerns about future children’s treatment

Commenter advises groom-to-be to leave due to controlling mother-in-law. NTA

NTA. Valuable insight into your lives going forward. Take wake-up call

Stand your ground and have the wedding you want! NTA

Hope for a positive update on the groom-to-be’s sister ❤️

Multiple flower girls can make a wedding super cute

Defending a special needs child against family bullying
