Daughter's Secret Wedding: Parents Left in the Dark 😱💔

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Diply | Diply

Imagine being a parent and finding out your only daughter got married without you knowing. Heartbreaking, right? But what if there's more to the story? Meet our protagonist, a bi woman who's had her fair share of relationship drama, especially with her parents. Let's dive into her story and see if she's really the one to blame for this family conflict. 😮💔

First Girlfriend's Tears 😢

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Parents' Apology 🤔

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Mid-Life Crisis Man 😒

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Parents' Love for the Wrong Guy 🙄

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Homophobic Revelation 😡

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Parents' Preference 🚹

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Meeting the One ❤️

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Attempts to Share 🗣️

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The Proposal 💍

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Wedding Planning Encounter 📅

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No Wedding Invitation 💌

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One Year Later... ⏰

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The Big Reveal 💣

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Parents' Shock and Anger 😲😠

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Family Fallout 🌪️

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Guilt and Doubt 😔

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So, Who's the Real Culprit Here? 🕵️‍♀️

Our protagonist tried time and time again to tell her parents about her relationship, but they simply refused to listen. She even attempted to inform them about her wedding, but they just wouldn't hear it. Now that the truth is out, her parents are devastated, and she's left feeling guilty. But should she really be the one to blame? 🤷‍♀️ Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

NTA tried to tell parents about her girlfriend but they ignored her. Don't let them ruin your happiness. 🌈

Kiyoko17 | Kiyoko17

Parents consistently made their bed, NTA for daughter's secret wedding 🙌

2020maxxinrelaxxin | 2020maxxinrelaxxin

NTA OP! Family's homophobic behavior backfires at daughter's wedding 💔

DismalArachnid9 | DismalArachnid9

Defying parents' assumptions, a wedding without their bigotry. 🙌

mybluepanda99 | mybluepanda99

Daughter's secret wedding causes family drama. NTA comment and replies.

RollingKatamari | RollingKatamari

Commenter and reply call out bigotry in secret wedding situation 👏

Titzman45 | Titzman45

Daughter's mother didn't want to hear about wedding, gets excluded 😱

EverWatcher | EverWatcher

NTA. Suggests writing email to reconcile with parents, but proceed cautiously.

Extreme_Resident | Extreme_Resident

Daughter's secret wedding sparks NTA comment section 💔

cricket73646 | cricket73646

Heartbreaking disappointment from neglectful parents. NTA wins.

lexisplays | lexisplays

Cutting off toxic parents: NTA earns 'homophobe tax' 👍

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Live your life and be happy! 😊 Congrats on your marriage! 💖

avesthasnosleeves | avesthasnosleeves

Struggling with toxic parents, but can't cut them off 😢

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Parents interrupt and miss daughter's wedding, commenter says NTA 😊

SarahL1990 | SarahL1990

Parents excluded from daughter's wedding, commenter supports decision. 😊

Spiderofvolg | Spiderofvolg

OP is NTA but needs to own their choice to exclude parents.

mbbaer | mbbaer

Breaking tradition and coming out to parents, NTA wins.

kostis12345 | kostis12345

Parents miss daughter's wedding, commenter supports decision to exclude them.

Current-Read | Current-Read

NTA for secret wedding. Tried to tell parents multiple times.

xanif | xanif

Communication breakdown leads to secret wedding 💔

dessertandcheese | dessertandcheese

Daughter's secret wedding sparks NTA debate among commenters 💔

DeerTrivia | DeerTrivia

NTA. Despite efforts to tell them, parents didn't want to hear. Don't let guilt get you down. Be proud of who you are ❤️👩‍❤️‍👩

kberson | kberson

Parents excluded from daughter's wedding, commenter suggests petty revenge.

scratchoffqueen | scratchoffqueen

NTA. The parents were being unreasonable and deserved to be left out 😒

tastystarbits | tastystarbits

Parents excluded from daughter's wedding - commenter says NTA 😮

unloveableone | unloveableone

Setting boundaries with parents, even as an adult 👍


Breaking free from toxic expectations and finding true happiness 💛

Streak3 | Streak3

You deserve privacy and happiness on your big day! 😊

overadventurefalls12 | overadventurefalls12

Married a woman, parents didn't want to hear about it 👭👩‍👧, NTA

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Congrats on avoiding drama! NTA made the right choice 👏

WonderDeb | WonderDeb

Wedding without parents - NTA, they refused to acknowledge wife. 😇

WorstEscortQuestEver | WorstEscortQuestEver

Commenter supports OP's decision to exclude homophobic parents from wedding.

I_Thot_So | I_Thot_So

Parents not supportive of daughter's wedding. NTA for keeping secret 😞

Fawkes-y | Fawkes-y

A 21-year-old dating a 45-year-old married man? NTA, but yikes 🤯

LunarLightningX | LunarLightningX

Daughter's secret wedding reveals parents' lack of love. NTA.

WineAndDogs2020 | WineAndDogs2020

Parents' biphobia led to daughter's secret wedding. NTA.

whita309 | whita309

Congrats on the wedding! NTA even if parents suck 🙌🏻🎉

half-sleep | half-sleep

Parents demand devotion litmus test, OP stands up for self. 👏

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You do you! NTA 👍

themunchkym | themunchkym

Congratulations on your wedding! NTA for setting boundaries 👏

Xoxo_Lee | Xoxo_Lee

OP not the a**hole for having a secret wedding, but could have tried non-verbal communication 💌

ninja_talli | ninja_talli

Stand your ground! Your life, your wife, your decision. 💪

lilprince96 | lilprince96

Homophobic parents left in the dark, but wife is a keeper 😍

IrishClover29 | IrishClover29

A thoughtful suggestion for telling parents about secret wedding 👍

brittwithouttheney | brittwithouttheney

Advice for coming out to homophobic parents, and why lying is sometimes necessary 👍

thecrazy_itbreeds | thecrazy_itbreeds

Wedding surprise leaves parents feeling NTA and done 😱

samseksemulino | samseksemulino

Cutting toxic parents out? NTA, you do you 👍

River_Song47 | River_Song47

Not the a**hole, but what happened after the reveal?

tcsweetgurl | tcsweetgurl

Not the a**hole and satisfyingly malicious compliance 😎

dbDarrgen | dbDarrgen

Navigating difficult family dynamics while keeping your own happiness first 👏

queenothedamnit | queenothedamnit

No sympathy for parents who were left in the dark 😒

BlairIsTired | BlairIsTired

Keeping secrets from parents: justified or unfair? 🤔

Eened | Eened

Supportive comment receives no backlash. 👏

bgucci21 | bgucci21

Supportive comment shows love wins despite homophobic parents 👏

NoCherryFilling | NoCherryFilling

Respect over obligation: Daughter's secret wedding wins hearts ❤️

bluecanaryflood | bluecanaryflood

Sassy NTA comment shuts down judgmental parents 👏

arseholierthanthou | arseholierthanthou

Not the a**hole? Tell us more! 🤔

JeLiZaX | JeLiZaX

Parents' homophobia leads to daughter's secret wedding 💔👰

FroggoDoggo | FroggoDoggo

Not the a**hole, but why the secret wedding? 😕

inoukbashi | inoukbashi

No a-hole here. Short and sweet judgement.

hjwood1986 | hjwood1986

Supportive comment section congratulating OP on secret wedding 😘

SunnySundiall | SunnySundiall

Don't be a homophobic parent and miss your child's wedding 💔

turningmyluckaround | turningmyluckaround

Homophobic parents left out of daughter's wedding 😱💔

Agirlisarya01 | Agirlisarya01

Parents ignored warnings, NTA for secret wedding with older partner 👬🏻👰🏻💋

krabbypattyrealness | krabbypattyrealness

Daughter's secret wedding causes family drama. NTA prevails.

Churchofbabyyoda | Churchofbabyyoda

They didn't want to hear about the relationship, NTA wins! 💯🎉

whatev6187 | whatev6187

Supportive comment with no context 🤷🏻‍♀️

Krobus7 | Krobus7

Live your life with your wife 💔. NTA 👏

luvingme | luvingme

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