We've all had those moments when we're pushed to our limits and say something we might regret. But what happens when it involves your partner and their insecurities? Meet our guy (M26) and his girlfriend Lissa (F24), who have been dating for 10 months. Their relationship started casually but has grown more serious over time. However, a strange dynamic has developed between them, which recently escalated into a heated argument. 😬
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The Strange Dynamic
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Ex-Photo Drama
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Lissa's Insecurity
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Breast Size Doesn't Matter
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Lissa's Constant Comments
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Losing Patience
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The Boob Job Suggestion
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Radio Silence
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Boob Job Blowout: Who's in the Wrong? 🤷
After a month of Lissa constantly wishing for bigger boobs to make her boyfriend happy, he finally snapped and suggested she get a boob job. Lissa left without arguing and has since gone radio silent, leaving our guy questioning if he was justified or if he crossed a line. It's a delicate situation, and we've gathered the internet's top responses to help you decide who's in the wrong here. 🍿
Insecure girlfriend seeks validation, drains partner's energy. NTA.
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NTA for suggesting boob job. Relationship dynamic seems manipulative. 😕
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NTA for calling out GF's manipulative behavior about boob job.
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ESH. Toxic communication and enabling self-esteem issues. Therapy recommended. 🙏
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NTA advises getting help, relationship may be over 😞
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Communication is key in relationships 💍
Old-Advice-5685 | Old-Advice-5685
Encouraging empathy and growth in a rocky relationship 💚
Jazmadoodle | Jazmadoodle
GF obsessed with boob job, commenter thinks NTA for snapping.
yuunki | yuunki
Partner's insecurity over ex's breasts: NTA's solution justified?
djternan | djternan
Empathetic response to insecure girlfriend. NTA and good luck 🙏
calaakla | calaakla
Supporting NTA's stance on toxic behavior and insecurity 👏
Boombamtao | Boombamtao
Supportive comment acknowledges mistake, advises to move on and find love 💖
tothegarbage2 | tothegarbage2
Both parties acted immaturely, communication is key for resolution. 👍
RaysUnderwater | RaysUnderwater
Both acting immature for your age. Communication is key 📲
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Partner's insecurity causing issues, therapy may be helpful 🙏
kaj2113 | kaj2113
Insecurity can harm a relationship. NTA suggests self-care first.
Tralfamadorians_go | Tralfamadorians_go
Is his girlfriend's behavior a red flag? 🚩
MD7001 | MD7001
NTA for snapping at GF over boob job insecurities 🤷♂️
WalthamRoast27 | WalthamRoast27
Don't feed insecurities, it's like building a bomb 🚨
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Commenter defends man's outburst towards insecure girlfriend. 😏
AmazingSieve | AmazingSieve
Woman shares her experience with big boobs and back pain. NTA.
CrazyReckly | CrazyReckly
Jealousy over exes in new relationships: NTA or Jerk move? 🤔
Pumpkinkra | Pumpkinkra
Finally, a justified NTA post! 🙌
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Dealing with an insecure partner can be tough. 🤷♂️ NTA.
LilacLover1983 | LilacLover1983
Insensitive comment about GF's body leads to justified criticism. 🤷♂️
Rainybeachgoer | Rainybeachgoer
ESH. Communication is key in any relationship 💬
hibernativenaptosis | hibernativenaptosis
Commenter calls out inappropriate behavior in relationship. ESH.
Gabby_Craft | Gabby_Craft
Communication is key! ESH for not addressing issues calmly.
muffiewrites | muffiewrites
Insecurities projected onto partner: NTA or ESH? 🤷♂️
burner7651 | burner7651
Supportive comment on partner's insecurities. 👍
LoiGrimm | LoiGrimm
Supporting NTA's decision to prioritize mental health over physical appearance. 🙏
Pohkopf | Pohkopf
Boost her confidence with compliments, not justifying your actions. 👍
angel2hi | angel2hi
Supporting mental health awareness in relationships. 🙏
RamenLoveEggs | RamenLoveEggs
Move on, dude. Lisa isn't worth your time or energy. 🙄
Lily_Roza | Lily_Roza
Fair enough to suggest procedure to overly insecure girlfriend 💁
baby_darko | baby_darko
Partner's insecurity wears down patience, but snapping justified? NTA 😏
worryaboutYOUhoe | worryaboutYOUhoe
Supportive comment suggests leaving toxic relationship due to self-consciousness.
whateverisnttaken22 | whateverisnttaken22
Dealing with insecurity is exhausting. NTA for setting boundaries. 😌
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Partner's insecurities led to justified snapping. 🤷♂️
HateFilledSquirrel | HateFilledSquirrel
Dating someone with insecurity issues? 🙄
Particular-Toe-7849 | Particular-Toe-7849
Find someone with more confidence to avoid exhausting relationships 🙌
Littleballoffur22 | Littleballoffur22
GF traps partner into suggesting boob job, then gets mad 😒
Few_Story3588 | Few_Story3588
Avoiding emotional manipulation is always the right move 🙌
No-Application1965 | No-Application1965
Empathetic response to insecurity in relationships. NTA.
dezeiram | dezeiram
Supporting partner's insecurities can be exhausting. NTA.
thinkbilbo | thinkbilbo
NTA snaps at GF over boob job, needs to address issues. 🤔
butwhoisjasmine | butwhoisjasmine
Ending it may be justified, but therapy could help her 👨🎓
No-Victory8473 | No-Victory8473
Partner seeking constant validation and attention, NTA for ending it. 🤷♀️
scarletfemme1968 | scarletfemme1968
Commenter sympathizes with OP's exhaustion in a clingy relationship.
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GF snoops, insecure about breasts. NTA for leaving. 😍
EliMeema | EliMeema
Agreeing with NTA comment, others are exhausting 😒
DemonKhal | DemonKhal
NTA comment shuts down boob job argument with savage response. 🤬
Sunny-Bones | Sunny-Bones
Supporting a negative partner can be draining. NTA 👏
Plus-Kaleidoscope900 | Plus-Kaleidoscope900
Self-love is key! 🙌 NTA for prioritizing mental health.
TrixIx | TrixIx
Breaking the cycle of toxic compliment fishing. 👏
big_ugly_builder | big_ugly_builder
Communication is key in relationships 💍
charitymw7 | charitymw7
Partner's insecurity and jealousy issues: NTA for keeping photos.
holisarcasm | holisarcasm
NTA. GF was manipulative and punishing, break it off 👋
Quirky_Squirrel_Girl | Quirky_Squirrel_Girl
Partner's insecurities require therapy. NTA for setting boundaries. 🚨
Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964
Supporting NTA's decision while acknowledging GF's insecurities 👍
MrTitius | MrTitius
Setting boundaries with a degrading partner. 🙌
MessyDragon75 | MessyDragon75
Partner gets a boob job, but is it okay to snap? 🤔
EtherealNightSky | EtherealNightSky
Relationship doomed? Commenter predicts girlfriend's insecurities will end it. 😞
writtenwordyum | writtenwordyum
Commenter not the a**hole for supporting GF's body autonomy 👏
sarahlenk | sarahlenk
NTA tells whiny GF to get boob job, she leaves. 👋
InsaneMisha77 | InsaneMisha77
NTA for standing up to insensitive comments about body image 👏
but3rf1y | but3rf1y
Mature advice on dealing with an insecure partner 👍
Crunchy_Biscuit | Crunchy_Biscuit
Valid suggestion or a**hole move? NTA gets praised 👏
ComfortableAd6877 | ComfortableAd6877
Short and sweet: commenter is not the a**hole. 👍
Wonderful-Middle-601 | Wonderful-Middle-601
Partner's insecurities are toxic, you deserve better. 👍
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