Picture this: you're an 18-year-old guy living in a dorm room with your roommate. His mom and 14-year-old sister visit frequently, and you've noticed the sister seems to have a little crush on you. You try to maintain boundaries, but one day, she takes it a step further and squeezes your bicep at a restaurant. How would you react? 🤔 One young man found himself in this exact situation and decided to speak up, but not everyone agreed with his response. Let's dive into the story! ✨
💪 Teen's Innocent Crush Takes an Unexpected Turn: The Bicep Squeeze Dilemma 🤯
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A Heated Debate 🔥
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The Consent Argument 📚
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Roommate's Counterargument 🔄
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The Final Word 🛑
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Seeking Validation 🙏
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Standing His Ground 🌳
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The Great Bicep Squeeze Debate: Who's Right? 🤷
So, our protagonist found himself in quite the predicament after his roommate's little sister squeezed his bicep and he told her off. His roommate and others accused him of overreacting and being a 'wuss,' while he maintained that consent and boundaries are important, regardless of the situation. The debate rages on, but what do you think? Was he right to stand up for himself, or did he take it too far? Let's check out some top responses from the internet! 💬
Consent is for everyone. Roommate's comment was inappropriate and sexist. NTA.
Sandmint | Sandmint
Respect boundaries. NTA for denying unwanted physical contact. 🙅
kcx092x | kcx092x
Setting boundaries with a younger crush, navigating responsibility and risk. 👍
yurtyburty | yurtyburty
NTA. Teenage flirting can be aggressive, but boundaries must be set.
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Stand up for yourself! 💪 You have the right to say no. 👍
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Consent is key, even with innocent crushes. #NotToxic #NTA 👍
CrazyCalYa | CrazyCalYa
Respect boundaries and consent, no matter the age. 👍
PugRexia | PugRexia
👍 You did the right thing setting boundaries with a teenage crush.
Grimauldbird | Grimauldbird
Explaining boundaries kindly: a lesson in emotional intelligence 👨🏫
MayAsWellStopLurking | MayAsWellStopLurking
Compliment or sarcasm? The verdict is unclear 🤔
BroadElderberry | BroadElderberry
Avoiding a crush gone wrong: NTA's strategy and advice 👍
GFlair | GFlair
Take control of your body, you're NTA. Roommate's a jerk 😡
Allaboutbird | Allaboutbird
Respectful rejection of a crush at 14, with valid reasons 👍
edmeirelles | edmeirelles
Roommate's lame excuse, 18-year-old's freak out, and sister's crush.
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Roommate thinks arm touch isn't a big deal, but address concerns.
Escalator2Nowhere | Escalator2Nowhere
Setting boundaries with a crush gone wrong. NTA 🙅♂️
ThowinItAllAwayAgain | ThowinItAllAwayAgain
Teaching consent goes both ways. NTA but could be nicer.
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Roommate called out for bad behavior. Drama alert! 😱
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Establish boundaries early on and ask for gender reversal empathy.
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Body-shaming at the gym? Not cool 💪🏼
bijoudarling | bijoudarling
Teaching consent to teens - NTA comment sets a great example ✌
griseldabean | griseldabean
Roommate and commenter both have room for improvement. ESH.
Asmodean129 | Asmodean129
Navigating an underage crush can be uncomfortable. NTA handled it well.
IntoTheWest | IntoTheWest
Body positivity wins in this NTA comment.
DiscountJoJo | DiscountJoJo
Respect and autonomy win in this empowering comment. 👏
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Defending against inappropriate behavior with a clear NTA response.
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Respect boundaries 👍, NTA stands up for their rights 👏
The_White_Crane | The_White_Crane
Roommate's muscles become the new crush, awkwardness ensues 😳
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Stand your ground! You have the right to control your body 💪
Allaboutbird | Allaboutbird
Protecting oneself from underage advances is always NTA 👍
kvs90 | kvs90
Being a gentleman and avoiding creepy vibes when dealing with minors.
jackalope78 | jackalope78
Set boundaries and avoid legal trouble. Consent is key. 👍
ses-qui-pedalian | ses-qui-pedalian
College sophomore defends NTA but suggests better approach to roommates 🤔
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How did OP react to the bicep squeeze? NTA, but manners matter 🤔
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Commenter reassures OP, but suggests they calm down 🙌
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15-year-old girl supports OP's actions and warns from experience.
Ex_avoidance_account | Ex_avoidance_account
Standing up for boundaries is not being a wuss 💪
TheFlyingSheeps | TheFlyingSheeps
Setting boundaries with a 14-year-old admirer can be tricky 🤔
MattyDarce | MattyDarce
Standing up against toxic masculinity. 👊
dosiejo | dosiejo
Teen faces bicep squeeze dilemma, comment suggests ESH.
weez2 | weez2
Setting boundaries with a crush, NTA wins the day! 👏
fugeww40 | fugeww40
Setting healthy boundaries is important 👍
KtotheAtotheS | KtotheAtotheS
Teenage crushes can be aggressive, just ask Sister 😂
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Respectful boundaries: NTA asserts their right to say no 👍
Shephrah | Shephrah
NTA! Boundaries are important 👍
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Setting boundaries with a teenage crush 😍
Bangbangsmashsmash | Bangbangsmashsmash
Crush drama ends with a NTA verdict 👏
DecayingFruit | DecayingFruit
NTA, OP. Your friends' views are archaic. You were justified.
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Setting boundaries is always okay. Your body, your rules. 👍
The_Axiom_Of_Choice | The_Axiom_Of_Choice
Respecting personal boundaries is important for mental well-being 👍
RockabillyRabbit | RockabillyRabbit
Consent is key! NTA for setting boundaries 👍
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Big brother protects little sister from unwanted advances 👮
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Roommate's sister is growing up and he's clueless. NTA.
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Stand up for yourself! 🙌 NTA for setting boundaries.
PingtheAPB | PingtheAPB
Roommate's obliviousness to crush causing tension. Awkwardness ensues. 🤯
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Age matters: Commenter defends against 14-year-old's actions 👨💻
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Keeping a crush at arm's length, NTA. Roommate needs education.
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Enforcing boundaries is important. NTA for setting limits 👍
Gremlin16 | Gremlin16
Friend defends sister's inappropriate behavior, calls OP an a**hole.
HighPriest2012 | HighPriest2012
Protecting oneself from mixed signals at 14, NTA 🙅♀️
Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1
Standing up for bodily autonomy at a young age. 👏
Dontfeedthebears | Dontfeedthebears
Breaking toxic masculinity: Consent knows no gender ✌️
CutieBoBootie | CutieBoBootie
Standing up for body autonomy: a survivor's perspective on age gaps.
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Setting boundaries is important, NTA. Educate her on consent 👍
black_padfoot_21 | black_padfoot_21
Gentle reminder to ask before touching 💪. Roommate overreacted.
Space_cadet1956 | Space_cadet1956
Fighting toxic masculinity with a bicep squeeze - NTA OP 💪
MaybeIwasanasshole | MaybeIwasanasshole
Protect yourself and your roommate from a hungry teenage wolf 🤯
darquevixen | darquevixen
Stand up for your personal space and say no 👍
coffee_sleep_repeat | coffee_sleep_repeat
Respectful NTA stands up for boundaries, sets a good example 💪
GameDayBucketGo_Boom | GameDayBucketGo_Boom
Setting boundaries with minors is important. NTA.
soullessginger93 | soullessginger93
Addressing toxic masculinity and age difference in innocent crush.
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NTA stands up for personal space and boundaries with minor.
TechDude30 | TechDude30
Respect personal space. NTA for setting boundaries. 👍
helliott187 | helliott187
Dump toxic friends and find better ones. NTA 👍
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Roommate's sexist behavior called out by commenter and supported by others
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Roommate's little sister has a crush on you, what to do?
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