Bridesmaid Dilemma: Hijab or No Hijab? 🧕💍

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Weddings are supposed to be a time of joy and celebration, but sometimes they can be a breeding ground for conflict and drama. 😬 In this story, a bride and her bridesmaid find themselves at odds over the bridesmaid's hijab. The bride wanted her bridesmaids to match, but the bridesmaid's religious beliefs require her to wear a hijab. What happens when the bride's vision clashes with her bridesmaid's faith? Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster! 🎢

A Five-Year Friendship 🤝

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

Trying on Dresses 👗

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

Matching Dresses, Matching Hijabs? 🧕

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

The Bride's Expectations 😳

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

A Misunderstanding Unfolds 🤯

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

An Ultimatum: Hijab or Bridesmaid? 🤔

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

Frustration and Alterations 😤

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

Uneven Numbers and Annoyance 😒

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

Compromise or Miscommunication? 🤷‍♀️

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

Who's in the Wrong? 🥺

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

Reaching Out to Other Bridesmaids 📲

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

Hoping for a Change of Heart ❤️

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

Stress and Focus 🤯

aita-hijabi | aita-hijabi

A Hijab Showdown: Who's Right? 🤷‍♀️

In this emotionally charged story, a bride and her bridesmaid are at odds over the bridesmaid's hijab. While the bridesmaid believes she should be allowed to wear her hijab, the bride insists she should go without it to match the other bridesmaids. As the conflict unfolds, the bridesmaid reaches out to the others for support, and the responses are overwhelmingly anti-bride. Will the bride change her mind, or will the bridesmaid be forced to step down? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 👀

NTA for wearing hijab. Friend needs to educate herself. 👍

throwaway73838308 | throwaway73838308

Respect cultural differences, NTA for wearing hijab at wedding 💍

ahhhtoomuchpressure | ahhhtoomuchpressure

Bridesmaid denied hijab request, conflict ensues. NTA suggests solution.

ShadyBookDealer | ShadyBookDealer

Uninviting male guests for hijab compromise? Best wedding solution ever! 😂

l3rambi | l3rambi

Respectful communication is key. NTA for standing your ground 👏

veloxaraptor | veloxaraptor

Bridesmaid stands firm on religious beliefs, but bride disagrees. 🙅🏻

AuroraSkyee | AuroraSkyee

Wedding drama is unnecessary. NTA for honoring your faith 🙏

StereoOnCookingBacon | StereoOnCookingBacon

Miscommunication over hijab wearing leads to bridesmaid dilemma. NTA.

MrsQute | MrsQute

Respectful bridesmaid stands up for her religious choices. 🙌

thegemiinii | thegemiinii

Friendship and basic awareness should have avoided this hijab dilemma 💞

[deleted] | [deleted]

Compromise suggested but refused, bridezilla or cultural insensitivity?

Halluc | Halluc

Friend demands bridesmaid remove hijab, commenter says NTA.

Jaded_Cryptographer | Jaded_Cryptographer

Defending the right to wear hijab as a bridesmaid. 👏

Kay_Elle | Kay_Elle

Wearing a wig instead of hijab? NTA but not recommended. 🧕💍

nynderi | nynderi

Stand your ground! You're not the a**hole in this situation 👍

ProbablyMyJugs | ProbablyMyJugs

Standing up for your beliefs is not unreasonable. 👏

LadyLightTravel | LadyLightTravel

Everyone agrees, no a**holes here! 👍

PeachxScone | PeachxScone

Modest dresses = inclusion, weddings not worth changing for 💍

l3rambi | l3rambi

Stand your ground and don't compromise on your beliefs 👊

veesacard | veesacard

Respectful NTA bridesmaid chooses hijab, bride disapproves. Red flag?

[deleted] | [deleted]

Rejecting one's faith for one day is not a compromise. 👏

SiameseCats3 | SiameseCats3

Bridesmaid defends hijab, calls out bridezilla. Solidarity prevails. 👏

classyraven | classyraven

Bridezilla wants matchy photos, but NTA for wanting hijab.

LMGooglyTFY | LMGooglyTFY

Wear your hijab and be proud. NTA for standing up.

LizardManelli | LizardManelli

NTA, but wig compromise not suitable according to Islamic beliefs. 👍

Lurkerftw10 | Lurkerftw10

Supportive commenter receives backup against cowardly DMs. 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Stand your ground! Bridezilla demands are unacceptable. 💪

awkward-velociraptor | awkward-velociraptor

Choose faith over aesthetics. NTA wins the bridesmaid dilemma. 👏

knittedjedi | knittedjedi

21 years of practice at being a classy queen 👑

anahee | anahee

Stay true to yourself and your beliefs 🙌🏻. Don't compromise for others.

depressotime | depressotime

Stand your ground and don't compromise on your beliefs. 👊

FluffyDinoButt | FluffyDinoButt

Supportive comment shuts down Islamophobia in bridesmaid dilemma. 👏

Aggleclack | Aggleclack

Hijab color coordination is a great solution. Too bad it's refused.

Over_Bother_4329 | Over_Bother_4329

Stand your ground! You're not insane for setting boundaries. 👏

crittab | crittab

Respect for religious beliefs should be a given 🙏

mfruitfly | mfruitfly

Be a better friend and learn about other religions. 🙌

marie91115 | marie91115

Stand your ground! Your beliefs are not negotiable. 💪

NiceButton7 | NiceButton7

Suggestion of wig for hijab dilemma sparks cultural discussion. 🤔

Dusa- | Dusa-

Bridezilla alert! Bridesmaid's hijab choice sparks controversy. 😱

[deleted] | [deleted]

Choosing faith over conformity: NTA bridesmaid wears hijab, respectfully declines

Crystal007635 | Crystal007635

Modesty matters: Commenter defends hijab-wearing bridesmaid. NTA

ichbinschizophren | ichbinschizophren

Stand your ground! No one should ask you to compromise.

redvelvet418 | redvelvet418

Bridesmaid chooses to wear hijab, comment approves. 🙌

gunnyhunty | gunnyhunty

Supportive comments for hijab-wearing bridesmaid. 🙏

Familiar-Fig-4786 | Familiar-Fig-4786

Friend assumes hijab off at wedding? NTA stands up.

Professional_Text_11 | Professional_Text_11

Respectful friend doesn't want hijab at wedding. NTA.

spaceseas | spaceseas

Bridesmaid suggests hijab in dress material. Bride declines.

samloubolton | samloubolton

Stand your ground! Wear the hijab and be proud! 👏

Annalirra | Annalirra

Supportive comment defends hijab-wearing bridesmaid. Spread love, not hate 🙏

Underwater_20897477 | Underwater_20897477

Clear judgement, no a-hole here 👍

needtoknowbasis92 | needtoknowbasis92

Stand firm in your beliefs, NTA. Communication is key.

AttemptedAdult | AttemptedAdult

Commenter expresses support for bridesmaid's hijab choice. 👍

Robina8 | Robina8

Be your authentic self! Your friend should have been honored. 👏

MarbyMeowser | MarbyMeowser

Respectful coworker offers support for bridesmaid wearing hijab 👏

Alienne8r | Alienne8r

Bridesmaid chooses to wear hijab, comment approves. 👍

cdb651 | cdb651

Friend disrespects hijab, commenter calls out ignorance. 🙌

buttertits4lyfe | buttertits4lyfe

Suggestion to wear a wig instead of hijab, but not ideal 🧕💍

IdontknowhowIfeel13 | IdontknowhowIfeel13

Clear judgement, no drama here. 👍

xeevx | xeevx

Friend's ignorance on hijab shows lack of cultural understanding. NTA.

tinabelcher182 | tinabelcher182

Bridesmaid stands up for herself, not the a**hole. 👏

Bipolar_Bear_84 | Bipolar_Bear_84

Bridesmaids stand up to bride's hijab discrimination. 👯

CakeYums | CakeYums

Friend misunderstands hijab, NTA for backing out. 👍

salukiqueen | salukiqueen

Friendship over hijab? NTA comment gets real.

XxQueenOfSwordsXx | XxQueenOfSwordsXx

Hijab or no hijab? Friend should understand. NTA.

michelecw | michelecw

Respectful NTA comment defends hijab-wearing bridesmaid with solution suggestion.

CinnamonPumpkin13 | CinnamonPumpkin13

Modest bridesmaid dresses can be worn again. Secret hero. NTA.

Jay_Edgar | Jay_Edgar

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