Living with roommates can be a challenge, especially when they don't pull their weight. But what happens when the situation escalates and your roommate becomes pregnant and financially dependent on you? One person found themselves in this predicament and decided to take drastic measures by moving out without warning. Was this the right decision or a heartless move? Let's dive into the story. 😏
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The Roommate Situation
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Holly's Pregnancy
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Time to Move Out
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The Big Move
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Talking to the Landlord
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Holly's Situation
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Rent and Security Deposit
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Ignoring Holly's Calls
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Holly's Struggles
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Accusations of Abandonment
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Refusing to Reconnect
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Conflicting Opinions
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The Great Roommate Debate: Who's in the Wrong? 🤷
So, our protagonist found themselves in a tough spot, with a pregnant and financially dependent roommate. After failed attempts to talk it out, they decided to move out without warning, leaving Holly to fend for herself. Friends have mixed opinions on the situation, with some suggesting a conversation could have resolved the issue, while others believe our protagonist was justified in their actions. What do you think? Let's see what the internet has to say... 🍿
NTA for not warning roommate, but ESH for lack of communication.
pretent_its_witty | pretent_its_witty
ESH. OP had the chance to be the bigger person, but chose to screw over the roommate. Roommate was also taking advantage of OP.
saltygreenmermaid | saltygreenmermaid
Roommate conflict escalates due to lack of communication. ESH.
Helpful_Shock_8358 | Helpful_Shock_8358
ESH. Roommate was a mooch, but OP should have communicated better.
gxr1000 | gxr1000
ESH. OP was unkind in not giving more notice, but Holly also needs to grow up.
iwillsitonyou123 | iwillsitonyou123
OP is deemed YTA for ghosting her pregnant roommate without any prior notice or conversation.
VivaVeronica | VivaVeronica
Expecting too much & lack of communication led to issues 😕
Annaranha | Annaranha
OP is the a**hole for not communicating and leaving roommate stranded. 😒
stats_padford | stats_padford
Moving out without telling pregnant roommate: Asshole move? ESH
lh123456789 | lh123456789
Pregnant roommate left high and dry, but who's responsible? 🤔
emilyjlewis | emilyjlewis
Roommate used OP, but OP left her in a bad spot. ESH 😐
WolfgangAddams | WolfgangAddams
Roommate's delusion caused chaos, but communication could have helped. 🤔
Filomianor | Filomianor
SaurPuss | SaurPuss
Pregnant roommate treated OP like parent and partner, NTA for moving out. 🤰
dftaylor | dftaylor
Roommate takes advantage, OP not at fault. NTA 😊
Demo_Bec | Demo_Bec
Commenter calls out OP for cowardly behavior towards pregnant roommate.
SeleNyx | SeleNyx
Roommate bailed on pregnant roommate without notice. YTA. 🙄
emersj | emersj
OP accused of being a coward for terminating lease on pregnant roommate. ESH 😔
buggingstrawberry | buggingstrawberry
Pregnant roommate left high and dry: Fair or not? 🤔
books2246 | books2246
NTA. Roommate took advantage, you're not responsible for her pregnancy.
imalwaysscrolling | imalwaysscrolling
Roommate was a mooch and expecting you to help. NTA 👏
byebyelovie | byebyelovie
Roommate's manipulative behavior calls for setting boundaries. ESH.
BroadElderberry | BroadElderberry
Is the pregnant roommate taking advantage of her? 🤔
cnietz00 | cnietz00
Stone cold move: YTA for not having a conversation first. 😱
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Don't let guilt-tripping roommates control your life. 🙌 NTA
ki11obok | ki11obok
Roommate drama: Lazy freeloader or wimpy pushover? 🤔
MoFun06 | MoFun06
Roommate situation is ESH. Lack of communication and abrupt departure.
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Roommate's decision to leave pregnant roommate was not justified 😔
marchhares | marchhares
Communication is key! Both parties could have handled better 👍
shesbeenswinging | shesbeenswinging
OP left pregnant roommate homeless without warning. YTA. 😱
IamtheHarpy | IamtheHarpy
Avoiding drama: Standing up to social manipulators 🙌
museisnotyours | museisnotyours
Both wrong: pregnant roommate relied too much, but sudden leaving unfair.
PettyCrocker_ | PettyCrocker_
Both parties need to learn to communicate and not take advantage. 🚧
JBaskervillain | JBaskervillain
Don't monkey around, it's NTA - not her problem 🐒
TXblindman | TXblindman
Friend takes advantage of pregnant roommate, commenter says NTA 👍
thejesustrolley | thejesustrolley
Roommate taking advantage, but ghosting not the best solution. 🤔
Korrin | Korrin
ESH for Holly's behavior, but also for not setting boundaries. 💬
orbitalchild | orbitalchild
Roommate shirks responsibilities, pregnant or not, OP not obligated. NTA.
wpkn | wpkn
Roommate moves out while pregnant, but was it justified? 😕
ConfusedFanGirl0502 | ConfusedFanGirl0502
Confrontation with a slippery roommate leads to escalating demands. ESH 😕
BugsRatty | BugsRatty
Roommate conflict leaves pregnant woman homeless. ESH, but boundaries needed.
Niccy26 | Niccy26
Blindsided pregnant roommate: ESH, but communication could've helped 😐
minty_103 | minty_103
Roommate not responsible for pregnant roommate's situation. 👍
PerfectChemical | PerfectChemical
Leaving a pregnant roommate jobless during pandemic - ESH 😒
Womensplain | Womensplain
Both parties are at fault, but communication is key 📢
devilwitharumbottle | devilwitharumbottle
Roommate's pregnancy drama: NTA not the baby's daddy 😊
Kaeyko | Kaeyko
FitzWriting | FitzWriting
Communication is key! ESH should have given notice.
bright_copperkettles | bright_copperkettles
Setting boundaries is important, even with pregnant roommates. NTA 👍
ZippeDtheGreat | ZippeDtheGreat
Conflicted commenter calls out pregnant roommate and defends OP. 😐
NervousAstronaut6837 | NervousAstronaut6837
Roommate situation gone wrong, both parties need to communicate better 😔
Oh_Wiseone | Oh_Wiseone
Single pregnant roommate criticized for depending on roommate's support.
Disneyfreak77 | Disneyfreak77
Pregnant roommate drama: Both sides at fault 🤷♀️
Justbecauseitcameup | Justbecauseitcameup
Roommate left high and dry: commenter thinks OP should have handled it better. YTA 😕
RebelScientist | RebelScientist
Roommate used manipulation, but leaving without notice wasn't ideal. 🤷🏼♀️
ADragonuFear | ADragonuFear
Enabling a pregnant roommate's bad decisions - ESH. 🤷♀️
JDK002 | JDK002
Op ghosted pregnant roommate, ESH but op is bigger a**hole 😲
Seathing | Seathing
Both parties share the blame for the messy situation 😐
AliceInWeirdoland | AliceInWeirdoland
Enabling vs. Boundaries - Both roommates share the blame 😒
Wolfy-Corpse | Wolfy-Corpse
