💸 HR Manager's Honeymoon Drama: It's Not a Gender Thing! 😲

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Imagine working at a company where an Executive HR Manager, who makes triple your salary, requests donations for his honeymoon. 😒 Then, a coworker in need of help for her unexpected twins receives a different level of support. 🍼 When the manager complains about the disparity, one employee decides to speak up and call him out on his sense of entitlement. 😮 Let's dive into this wild office drama and see how it unfolds. 🍿

Honeymoon Fund Request 💍

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The Manager's Salary 🤑

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Others Follow Suit 🚫

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Coworker's Unexpected Twins 👶👶

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Donations for the Twins 🎁

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Generous Support 💕

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Giving Back 💸

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Manager's Outrage 😠

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Speaking Up 🗣️

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Calling Out Entitlement 🚫

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Manager's Threat 😡

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Divided Opinions 🤔

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Company Structure 💼

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Additional Context 📝

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More Background Info 📚

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The Aftermath: Office Divided 🤷

So, after calling out the manager's entitlement and the unfairness of the situation, the office is now divided. 😬 Half of the team supports the employee for speaking up, while the other half thinks they should have kept quiet. 😶 One thing's for sure: this office drama has everyone talking! 💬 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🌐

Coworkers shouldn't be asked to pay for boss's honeymoon. NTA.

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Fearless HR manager praised for treating all employees equally 💪

shezrandom | shezrandom

NTA. Commenter calls out groom's poor financial planning and attitude.

rottingpear | rottingpear

Gender has nothing to do with being a good person 👍

LucyStonerRulz | LucyStonerRulz

Gender has nothing to do with it! Coworker vs. Honeymoon.

NeverNotNervous100 | NeverNotNervous100

Manager criticizes cash donations from employees for honeymoon gift.

FieldPug | FieldPug

Acceptable-Message59 | Acceptable-Message59

Standing up to entitled bosses 💪

faith12996 | faith12996

Commenter calls out HR manager for not giving money to underpaid employee's honeymoon, sarcastic reply follows 😂

MrCanoe | MrCanoe

Setting boundaries at work is important. NTA handled it well 💪

RatMaster999 | RatMaster999

NTA, and colleagues admire OP for standing up to warped HR. 🏅

GingerBagpuss | GingerBagpuss

neilabz | neilabz

Generous donation for honeymoon, but HR guy is ungrateful. NTA.

Lionsloyal | Lionsloyal

Psychopathic HR manager praised for lack of emotional involvement 😬

SassyBSN | SassyBSN

NTA and poor financial management. Coworkers shouldn't pay for honeymoon. 💯

Qwenwhyfar | Qwenwhyfar

Generous coworkers gave 10x suggested minimum, but $6k gift disappoints.

shenaniganrogue | shenaniganrogue

NTA for not reporting the authority's wedding donation request 🙅‍♀️

LisaW481 | LisaW481

Inappropriate office donation requests lead to ostracism and disbelief 😳

whiskeytab | whiskeytab

Sharing personal details about a coworker, ESH. 😑

lisa_lionheart84 | lisa_lionheart84

A shining example of good coworker behavior 👏

CoastalCerulean | CoastalCerulean

Cheers to speaking out! Let's be colleagues 🥂

miwaonthewall | miwaonthewall

Speaking up at work can be tough, but it's important 👊

Explanation_Lopsided | Explanation_Lopsided

Professionalism goes out the window in this workplace ESH situation 🤦


Comment section gets heated over private matters at work. ESH 😠

Whenapplethenafter | Whenapplethenafter

Executives panhandling for donations? Management avoiding pay cuts during CoVid? No wonder the commenter says 'F that noise'! 🤯

Mary-U | Mary-U

Commenter questions relevance of drama to business operations 🤔

cakesfatter | cakesfatter

Office drama unfolds over honeymoon and unplanned pregnancy expenses. ESH.

Mnmsaregood | Mnmsaregood

Wedding overspending solidarity 🤝🏼👰🏻‍♀️

Wollydog | Wollydog

NTA stands up against harassment for donations, plans to document everything 👏

WetDog86 | WetDog86

Gender isn't the issue here. Being a helpful person is.

lil_puddles | lil_puddles

NTA but let's be real, unprotected drunken sex is irresponsible 🙅‍♀️🍻

FloraFit | FloraFit

Calling out BS: The satisfying feeling of standing up for yourself 💪

Desert_Rat1294 | Desert_Rat1294

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drishtimodi | drishtimodi

Commenter criticizes couple's lack of family planning, sympathizes with manager.

shezabel | shezabel

Engage with management through questions, not criticism 👉🏻👨‍💼

gozba | gozba

Don't let anyone guilt-trip you into donating your hard-earned money! 💰

DevilRenegade | DevilRenegade

Donating drama: ESH and awkward positions 🤨

sequinedbow | sequinedbow

Maintaining professionalism at work can prevent personal conflicts. 💪

MiniVansyse | MiniVansyse

ESH for expecting co-workers to fund personal life events.

Maylian81 | Maylian81

HR manager faces backlash for unprofessional behavior and unreasonable expectations 💼

lincra | lincra

Don't expect gifts from colleagues, it's greedy and rude 😒

Last_Butterscotch_63 | Last_Butterscotch_63

Unprotected sex costs 11k but a honeymoon only 6k? Entitled boss, NTA 😲

mcorra59 | mcorra59

HR's gift-giving trend is bizarre, and they're not allies.

CescaPercie07 | CescaPercie07

HR manager's honeymoon drama raises eyebrows at work 🤔

BeedletheWeedle | BeedletheWeedle

Manager's entitled behavior divides team, but some support cause. 🤔

BeatusII | BeatusII

Confronting a manager in a meeting: justified or unprofessional? 🤔

barleyqueen | barleyqueen

NTA! Setting a precedent for thoughtful gift-giving. Good job!

TheOriginalTash | TheOriginalTash

Stand up for your financial rights 💰💪 and don't let entitled managers bring you down! 😤

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👍 Good job for making a fair decision and shutting down entitlement.

Ihave0friendzer0 | Ihave0friendzer0

NTA for prioritizing coworker's need over entitled boss's wedding 💪

The_unknown_df | The_unknown_df

Wedding donations for a manager's honeymoon? NTA for declining.

noshoesshirtprobs | noshoesshirtprobs

Standing up for yourself at work can have consequences 😬

blorpdedorpworp | blorpdedorpworp

Workplace toxicity acknowledged by new CEO, change is coming! 💪

DepartmentMain | DepartmentMain

Ethical violation by HR manager sparks discussion on gift policies.

snazzymcgoo | snazzymcgoo

Wedding donation demand from HR manager violates company culture 🤔

theperknert | theperknert

Commenter calls out entitled person for using social justice language insincerely.

RuanaRulane | RuanaRulane

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