Girlfriend Refuses to Clean Up Boyfriend's Vomit 🤮: Was She Right or Wrong? 😲

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We've all had those moments where we question if we're being taken for granted in our relationships. This 20-year-old woman found herself in a similar predicament when her boyfriend's dietary choices led to a messy situation. With his cyclic vomiting syndrome, she's always been there to help him out, but after overhearing a conversation, she decided to take a stand. 💪🙅‍♀️

The Boyfriend's Condition 🤢

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Being Prepared 🛌🗑️

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The Cleanup Crew 🧹

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Triggers and Temptations 🍕🍟

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The Overheard Conversation 📞

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"I Make My Girl Clean It Up" 😡

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The Lie and the Consequences 🍣🍕

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Taking a Stand 🙅‍♀️

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Facing the Consequences 😖

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The Aftermath 💥

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Locking the Door 🔒

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The Next Morning ☀️

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The Argument 🗣️

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EDIT: Clarification 📝

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Realization 💡

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Maid or Girlfriend? The Ultimate Showdown 😤

After overhearing her boyfriend bragging to his friend about making her clean up his vomit, this girlfriend decided enough was enough. 🚫 She refused to help him when he returned home sick from eating pizza, one of his known triggers. The next morning, he was furious, accusing her of eavesdropping and abandoning him in a vulnerable state. 💔 But she stood her ground, realizing she's been babying him for too long. Let's see what the internet thinks of this messy situation... 🍿

NTA. Boyfriend expects girlfriend to clean up his vomit. Red flag 🚨

ArumtheLily | ArumtheLily

Boyfriend intentionally vomits and expects girlfriend to clean up. NTA.

Alert-Potato | Alert-Potato

Partner disrespected and accused OP of eavesdropping. NTA 👏

stellablue925 | stellablue925

Girlfriend refuses to clean up boyfriend's vomit - NTA takes a stand 💪

apparentwhore | apparentwhore

Don't coddle him! You deserve better. 😊

Decent_Ad6389 | Decent_Ad6389

NTA. Partner lacks respect. Leave him and find someone better. 👏

Brilliant_Guava_9646 | Brilliant_Guava_9646

NTA. Girlfriend suggests making him clean up vomit to teach him.

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NTA with CVS shares self-care tips, calls out boyfriend's behavior.

auditail | auditail

Girlfriend refuses to clean up vomit: NTA takes a stand 💪

nanimal77 | nanimal77

Commenter questions boyfriend's vomit bucket and shares pregnancy experience.

ceylon_butterfly | ceylon_butterfly

Partner's vomit: NTA for refusing to clean up mess 🤮

kneesocksbabe | kneesocksbabe

Partner not nurse: NTA with IBS cleans own vomit, wife helps.

Surfer_wave_dolphin | Surfer_wave_dolphin

Girlfriend stands up for herself after being taken for granted 💪

SammyLoops1 | SammyLoops1

Girlfriend refuses to clean up boyfriend's vomit: NTA wins!

mckinnos | mckinnos

CVS sufferers unite! Supportive comment and reply 🙌

littlesheba | littlesheba

NTA. Boyfriend's frequent vomiting poses serious health risks. Not sexy.

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Girlfriend refuses to clean up lying boyfriend's vomit 🤮

hannahiguess | hannahiguess

Boyfriend's vomit causes fight: Is girlfriend wrong for refusing cleanup?

MysteriousTree3345 | MysteriousTree3345

Partner's entitlement leads to vomit and disrespect. NTA stands firm.

MulberryResponsibly | MulberryResponsibly

Girlfriend refuses to clean up boyfriend's vomit. NTA wins!

FuntimeChris79 | FuntimeChris79

Dump him, you deserve better than a disrespectful man-child 👋

AStuffedMushrooms | AStuffedMushrooms

NTA. Providing a bucket is enough. No need for plastic sheets.

Jev_Ole | Jev_Ole

Empathetic commenter supports OP's decision not to clean up vomit.

ChipsNCola | ChipsNCola

Set boundaries early on, he's not your responsibility 👍

Gadgetownsme | Gadgetownsme

Standing up to disrespect: NTA comment gains support 👍

annarkea | annarkea

Boyfriend's vomit aversion leads to girlfriend's bucket duty 🤮

phobicgirly | phobicgirly

Boyfriend's vomit aversion leads to girlfriend's clean up duty. 🤮

bornandbred186th | bornandbred186th

Girlfriend refuses to clean up boyfriend's vomit, and commenters agree.

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Girlfriend refuses to clean up boyfriend's vomit. NTA. Talk needed.

DeadGodJess | DeadGodJess

Boyfriend's disrespectful behavior towards girlfriend sparks concern 😱

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Commenter defends the girlfriend, calls boyfriend an ingrate 🤨

littleyellowfish1999 | littleyellowfish1999

Don't be a jerk and expect your partner to clean up your vomit 🤮

infinityqueen308 | infinityqueen308

Supportive reply to NTA comment about boyfriend's vomit episode.

TheLuy | TheLuy

Boyfriend expects girlfriend to clean up his vomit? NTA wins.

JohnChapter11Verse35 | JohnChapter11Verse35

Dump the toxic boyfriend and run 👋🤮

dunemi | dunemi

Love and kindness shouldn't be taken for granted 🙏

madiigator | madiigator

Boyfriend expects girlfriend to clean up vomit. Commenters agree NTA 👍

ur_mom_cant_get_enuf | ur_mom_cant_get_enuf

NTA for not cleaning up after boyfriend's vomit 🤮

eetsokay | eetsokay

Girlfriend refuses to clean up boyfriend's vomit. NTA wins.

SquirrelSharp | SquirrelSharp

Don't let him shift the blame. Have a serious talk 👍

Blobbyf1sh | Blobbyf1sh

Don't be his maid! 🙅‍♀️ Let him deal with his puke 💩

pineboxwaiting | pineboxwaiting

Savage reply to a commenter calling out immaturity 💪

iammeinnh | iammeinnh

Boyfriend has a vomiting condition, but NTA for refusing to clean it up. 🤮

AstridMcGee | AstridMcGee

Boyfriend makes himself sick and expects girlfriend to clean up. NTA.

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Removing gallbladder solved vomit issue, boyfriend unappreciative. NTA.

somanydimensions | somanydimensions

Short and to the point. No arguments here. 🤷‍♀️

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Girlfriend refuses to clean boyfriend's vomit. NTA suggests trashing him.

LakesideCitrus | LakesideCitrus

Girlfriend stands up for herself against immature boyfriend 🙌

RememberKoomValley | RememberKoomValley

NTA for not cleaning up boyfriend's vomit 😷

Critical_Aspect | Critical_Aspect

Dump him! 🚮 You're not his caretaker, he's a grown man. 💪

tomatojalapeno | tomatojalapeno

Girlfriend refuses to clean up boyfriend's vomit: Commenter supports her

MarsNirgal | MarsNirgal

Communication is key in relationships, even when feeling petty. 👍

OutrageouslyStitious | OutrageouslyStitious

Boyfriend expects girlfriend to clean up vomit, NTA stands up

BastionBoyde | BastionBoyde

Don't be his mommy! 🙅‍♀️ Reconsider the relationship 💔

monalayysa | monalayysa

Boyfriend lied and NTA for not cleaning his vomit 🤮

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Don't clean up after him, let him learn from his mess 👍

hippiekidthomas | hippiekidthomas

Why stay with someone who makes you clean up vomit? 🤮

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Girlfriend refuses to clean up boyfriend's vomit: NTA wins!

Melancholywaters | Melancholywaters

Boyfriend vomits, girlfriend refuses to clean: NTA comment agrees

quiet1687 | quiet1687

Empathetic commenter shares experience and supports NTA verdict.

fishmom5 | fishmom5

Girlfriend refuses to clean up vomit, commenter says boyfriend is TA

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