💥 Daughter Accuses Mom of 'Forcing' Abortion Years Ago, Mom's Response Leaves Her Speechless 😲

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Imagine having a heart-to-heart with your teenage daughter about an unplanned pregnancy, only for her to accuse you of 'forcing' her to have an abortion years later. This is the story of a mother who found herself in this exact situation. Her daughter, Lily, got pregnant at 18 and had a fairytale view of life. The mom tried to give her a realistic perspective, but now, 12 years later, Lily is blaming her mom for taking away her only chance at motherhood. 😢 Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story.

The Unplanned Pregnancy 🤰

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Reality Check 💔

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Laying Out the Options 🤔

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Grandma, Not Mom 💁‍♀️

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A Crash Course in Motherhood 🍼

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Reality Hits Hard 😵

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Win-Win Situation 🎯

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The Decision 🌩️

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Fast Forward to 30 🕰️

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The Accusation 😡

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Mom's Response 🗣️

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The Reality Check, Again 🌪️

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Clarification on Fertility Issues 🚨

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A Final Note 📝

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A Mother's Struggle: Caught Between Support and Reality 🌪️

This mother tried her best to give her daughter a realistic view of motherhood when she became pregnant at 18. She even arranged for her to shadow her sister with a newborn, hoping it would help her make an informed decision. Years later, her daughter is facing fertility issues and lashes out at her mom, accusing her of 'forcing' her to have an abortion. The mom stands her ground, reminding her daughter that she was the one who ultimately made the decision. As we delve into the internet's reactions to this emotional story, let's remember that life is never black and white, and sometimes, there's no easy answer. 💔

NTA, but OP should show compassion and comfort her daughter.


Mom receives support for not forcing daughter's abortion at 18 👏

spoonfullofrage | spoonfullofrage

Infertility is a difficult and emotional journey. Lack of empathy hurts. 😢

kbc87 | kbc87

cloud_nin9 | cloud_nin9

Captain_Tiny | Captain_Tiny

progressivelens | progressivelens

anonymommy15 | anonymommy15

Mom's clever response shuts down daughter's accusation. 😎

SlippingAbout | SlippingAbout


jaypee41 | jaypee41

Being realistic about parenthood, but also acknowledging hurt and fault.

srslyeffedmind | srslyeffedmind

Fair handling of daughter's pregnancy, emotional response to abortion accusation.

FrnchsLwyr | FrnchsLwyr

Daughter regrets abortion, blames mom, but commenters offer support.

Pretend-Preparation | Pretend-Preparation

Empathize with your daughter's pain instead of invalidating her experience 😔

meepgorp | meepgorp

Daughter accuses mom of 'forcing' abortion, but is she entitled?

poodle_kitten | poodle_kitten

Engaging in respectful communication can help resolve conflicts. 👍

Maximum_System_7819 | Maximum_System_7819

Mother's dismissive behavior towards daughter's feelings is problematic 😒

thursmalls | thursmalls

Mom's tough love approach backfires, leaves daughter hurting emotionally 😔

OutrageouslyStitious | OutrageouslyStitious

👎 YTA for being callous towards your daughter's pain and emotions.

Roseate_Mirage | Roseate_Mirage

NTA comment highlights the importance of taking responsibility 👍

checkinsm | checkinsm

Fertility issues at 30 not age-related, comment sparks discussion 👩‍👧‍👦

infertilemyrtlemay | infertilemyrtlemay

Parenting is tough, but you made the right choice. 🙌

NowIFeelLikeANoob | NowIFeelLikeANoob

Debate over NTA and not voting, with a touch of gaslighting 😕

girl_supersonicboy | girl_supersonicboy

Is age the only factor affecting fertility? 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supportive comment on parenting and not taking parental role. 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Insensitive response to daughter's infertility, YTA according to comment.

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Being dismissive of daughter's pain makes YTA mildly. 😔

Trilobyte141 | Trilobyte141

NTA! Supportive mom accused of 'forcing' abortion, but daughter emotional.

sexymawma | sexymawma

Mother sympathizes with daughter's pain and suggests adoption. 😊

CrazyFanGeek | CrazyFanGeek

Commenter defends mother's actions in abortion, supports responsibility.

Cduke13 | Cduke13

No A-hole here. Dad provides support and options to daughter.

winterbunny13 | winterbunny13

Daughter accuses mom of 'forcing' abortion, both share blame. 😔

kaitou1011 | kaitou1011

Don't dismiss someone with eye-rolling, it's belittling. 🙅

solo954 | solo954

Mother not obligated to raise daughter's child. Commenter suggests kindness.

yourlittlebirdie | yourlittlebirdie

Defend yourself without being rude. Don't shock others.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Showing compassion can go a long way 🙏

aquatic-cheeto | aquatic-cheeto

Show empathy and support, not contempt and dismissal. 😊

A_Glass_DarklyXX | A_Glass_DarklyXX

Offering support to a hurting daughter is always important ❤️

Oohdahloli | Oohdahloli

Mom receives support after daughter accuses her of 'forcing' abortion

karenhater12345 | karenhater12345

Age and infertility, a touchy subject 🤬

Alarmed-Wind | Alarmed-Wind

NAH verdict with a heavy NTA leaning, daughter emotional

BrewtalDoom | BrewtalDoom

Thoughtful parenting praised, eye-rolling during emotional ordeal criticized 🙅

Away_Breakfast_1652 | Away_Breakfast_1652

Setting boundaries is reasonable 👍, don't blame yourself 😜

LakesideCitrus | LakesideCitrus

Lack of parental guidance during a difficult time. 😔

Major-Distance4270 | Major-Distance4270

Supportive mom helps daughter understand the reality of having a baby 💕

painkilleraddict6373 | painkilleraddict6373

Adoption is a win-win. Fertility issues aren't a barrier ❤️

arseholierthanthou | arseholierthanthou

Defending against false accusations of abuse, eye roll justified? 😕

FreakinDisgrAce | FreakinDisgrAce

👍 NTA. Mother's tough love approach to daughter's pregnancy.

jamesstansel | jamesstansel

Relax, 30 isn't too old to have a baby 👶

GetHautnah | GetHautnah

Parenting done right 👍, teaching reality and consequences 👏

FruityNeanderthal | FruityNeanderthal

Commenter defends OP's decision, predicts she would make same choice.

Lesland | Lesland

Woman shares personal experience and supports OP's decision. 💪

I_am_the_skycaptain | I_am_the_skycaptain

Eye-rolling response to serious accusation earns YTA judgement 😒

ChouChou6300 | ChouChou6300

🤰🏻💔 Daughter struggling with fertility issues, needs support not eye-rolls.

callagem | callagem

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