We all have our ways of dealing with family gatherings, but one man’s unique approach to avoiding babysitting duty has the internet buzzing! As the only sibling without kids, he found himself constantly being dumped with the responsibility of watching his nieces and nephews during family events. Tired of missing out on precious family time, he came up with a clever plan: drinking just enough to be considered unfit for babysitting duty! But does this tactic make him the bad guy? Let’s dive into the story…
The Child-Free Sibling

The Rare Family Gatherings

Brother’s Unchecked Kids

The Babysitting Trap

Family Event Setup

Excited and Hard to Manage

Not Qualified for the Job ♂️

The Cool Uncle’s Dilemma

Blatant Babysitting Dump

Family Time Matters

The Drinking Solution

Brother’s Reaction

Is He the Bad Guy for Drinking?
So, our ‘cool uncle’ devised a plan to drink just enough to be considered unfit for babysitting duty, allowing him to enjoy family events without being saddled with the responsibility of watching his nieces and nephews. But now his brother thinks he’s a drunk and is spreading rumors about him. Was he wrong for resorting to this tactic, or is he justified in wanting to spend time with his whole family without being an isolated babysitter? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Avoiding babysitting duty at family events with a little liquid courage

Drink away, NTA! Aunt’s hypocritical advice is laughable

Avoiding babysitting by drinking at family events is not ideal

Commenter suggests confronting the parent and refusing to babysit.

Brother agrees with NTA comment, calls kids ‘f**k trophies’

Avoiding babysitting duty: NTA, not your circus, not your monkeys

Drink away and skip with glee, NTA for avoiding babysitting duty

Dumping a backpack and a list to avoid babysitting

Drinking to avoid pregnancy pressure? Relatable

Navigating family events with special needs and babysitting duties

NTA for drinking at family events to avoid babysitting. A suggestion: substitute alcohol bottles with look-alikes.

Avoid being a babysitter and report child abandonment if necessary

Avoiding babysitting duty at family events: NTA, but communicate boundaries

Drinking to avoid babysitting, but feeling guilty about it ♂️

Avoiding babysitting duty at family events

Humorous exchange about drinking to avoid babysitting duty

Commenter refuses to babysit unruly kids of inconsiderate brother. NTA

Commenter finds humor in OP’s derogatory term for children

Avoiding babysitting duty with alcohol

When seeking advice, even the obvious solutions need validation

Parenting on a farm can be isolating, but is drinking the solution?
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Commenter advises brother to seek support for their kids. NTA.

Commenter calls out neglectful parenting, deems OP NTA

Cheers to avoiding babysitting duty with a drink!

Avoiding babysitting duty with booze , but NTA according to peers.

Establish boundaries instead of resorting to drinking

Commenter suggests communication over alcohol to avoid babysitting duty

No kids, no responsibility. They can hire a babysitter

Commenter suggests neglected social growth, but not OP’s problem. SIL realizing she can’t provide everything for kids.

Simple solution to avoid babysitting duty

Don’t let your brother take advantage of you. Stand up!

Agreeing with the commenter’s NTA sentiment

Don’t let babysitting duty ruin your family events

Avoiding babysitting duty with alcohol is not the solution

30-year-old man refuses babysitting duty at family events.

Cheers to avoiding babysitting duty and standing up for yourself!

Bud Light commercial idea: Real Men of Genius – Drunk Uncle

Family events shouldn’t be a babysitting gig. NTA

Cheers to avoiding babysitting duty!

Don’t let them guilt trip you into babysitting. Enjoy yourself

Family events turned into babysitting duty? NTA has a solution

Assertive response to lazy babysitting request with a condom.

Take a sip and turn the tables

Mom appreciates help but they’re still her kids. NTA

Assertive communication can solve family babysitting issues

Suggests hiring a babysitter for family events instead of drinking

Sassy response shuts down entitled behavior

Avoiding family responsibilities like a pro NTA

New vocabulary alert! NTA comment adds ‘f*** trophies’ to lexicon.

Commenter suggests standing ground against babysitting, but OP’s family won’t listen

Drinking to dodge babysitting duty? NTA says comment and replies.

Cheers to avoiding unpaid babysitting duties!

Concerned commenter suggests CPS intervention for neglected special needs children.

Cheers to avoiding babysitting duty! NTA confirmed

Cheers to being NTA and standing up for yourself

Avoiding babysitting duties with alcohol , but why not just walk away?

Avoiding babysitting duty with alcohol is not the solution. NTA.

Stand your ground with a firm ‘NO’

Set boundaries and call out family’s behavior to avoid babysitting.

Cheers to avoiding babysitting duty at family events!

Suggests hiring childcare or asking everyone to chip in.

Avoiding babysitting duty with a drink? Not the a**hole move.

Commenter suggests extreme measures to avoid babysitting duty.

Cheers to not being the designated babysitter at family events

Drink to avoid babysitting? NTA but sad it’s come to this.

NTA uncle resorts to a hilarious shirt to avoid babysitting duty

Cheers to avoiding babysitting duty!
