Man Loses Temper at Massage: Was He Justified or Out of Line? 😤💆‍♂️

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Imagine treating yourself to a relaxing massage after a long, stressful week at work, only to have the experience ruined by constant chatter. That's exactly what happened to one man who booked a 2-hour full body massage for himself and his girlfriend. Despite his attempts to signal his annoyance and desire for peace and quiet, the conversation between his girlfriend and her masseuse continued, ultimately leading him to snap. Was his reaction justified, or did he go too far?

A Well-Deserved Treat 🎁

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The Chatty Masseuse 🗣️

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First Attempt to Signal Annoyance 😒

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Second Attempt: Passive Aggressive Comment 🙄

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Third Attempt: Loud Sigh 😤

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Fourth Attempt: A Simple Plea 🙏

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Fifth Attempt: Losing Patience 😠

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The Snap: A Harsh Comment 🤬

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The Aftermath: Girlfriend's Reaction 😡

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His Argument 📣

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The Ongoing Disagreement 🥺

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Previous Couples Massages 🧖‍♀️🧖‍♂️

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Clarifying the 'Zoo' Comment 🦁

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Acknowledging Overreaction 🤦‍♂️

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A Battle of Silence and Words: Who's in the Wrong? 🤷‍♂️

In a situation where a man's relaxing massage was disrupted by constant chatter between his girlfriend and her masseuse, he attempted multiple times to signal his annoyance and desire for quiet. Eventually, he snapped and made a harsh comment, leading to a disagreement with his girlfriend. Was his reaction justified, or did he cross the line? Share your thoughts and reactions.

Learn how to communicate like an adult. YTA 🙄

oxPsychoticHottie | oxPsychoticHottie

Man loses temper at massage, but was he justified? Commenters say no.

napoleon_1066 | napoleon_1066

Don't be passive aggressive, use clear language for a silent massage 👍

poweller65 | poweller65

ESH. Masseuse and girlfriend were inconsiderate, OP could have communicated better.

jwjnthrowawaykfeiofj | jwjnthrowawaykfeiofj

Commenter calls out OP for expecting everyone to bend to them 😬

SpongeboobSquarebals | SpongeboobSquarebals

Man loses temper and tries to control girlfriend's conversation during massage.

dwotw | dwotw

Man loses temper at massage for girlfriend talking too much 😠

MbMinx | MbMinx

OP acted like an a**hole instead of politely asking for quiet 🤭

MeanestGoose | MeanestGoose

Man gets agitated during massage as girlfriend ignores his requests. ESH.

Apprehensive-Sir358 | Apprehensive-Sir358

Couple's massage turns into a communication breakdown. ESH.

n2oc10h12c8h10n402 | n2oc10h12c8h10n402

Man receives judgement for rude behavior during massage. YTA.

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Man loses temper at massage and is called out for being rude 😳

Smitty_80013 | Smitty_80013

Man's rude comment to masseuse deemed unjustified by commenters 😑

Classic-Savings7811 | Classic-Savings7811

Massage etiquette: Is it fair to expect silence?

Relevant-Economy-927 | Relevant-Economy-927

Communication is key! YTA for not using your words 💬

Sea_Midnight1411 | Sea_Midnight1411

Couples massage gone wrong: YTA for ruining everyone's experience 😕

Redditwitter83 | Redditwitter83

Massage therapist says NTA, therapist should have stayed quiet.

Ok-Understanding9186 | Ok-Understanding9186

Massage interrupted by talkative people, resulting in outburst. ESH.

clairy115 | clairy115

Man loses temper at massage and is called out for being grumpy. Girlfriend deserves apology and maybe individual massages for both.

GayWitchcraft | GayWitchcraft

Silent massages are golden. NTA was justified.

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Self-care tip: Take some alone time for a relaxing massage 😊

Strongear971 | Strongear971

Man loses temper at massage and is called out for it 🤬

ToxicLogics | ToxicLogics

NTA stands up to entitled spa staff 👏

DrMominator | DrMominator

Man loses temper at massage and gets called out for being the a**hole 😠

Alarming_Reply_6286 | Alarming_Reply_6286

Asserting boundaries: paying for a service doesn't mean misplaced excitement 🙌

nn_tlka | nn_tlka

Silence is golden during massages! NTA was justified.

mackeyca87 | mackeyca87

Couple's massage turns sour as girlfriend ignores partner's request 😠

OldManSpeed | OldManSpeed

Commenter believes person was not the a**hole. 👍

chlorofile | chlorofile

Man's comment deemed racist, he defends himself with poor analogy 😑

No_Web_8587 | No_Web_8587

Not the a**hole, but why? Tell us your reasoning! 🤔

Frosty-Mall4727 | Frosty-Mall4727

Booking separate rooms could avoid chatty masseuse conflicts. YTA.

mathproferic | mathproferic

Silent or not, ignored boundaries are not okay. NTA 👍

Tom-Nook-98 | Tom-Nook-98

Commenter calls out OP for being rude to masseuse. 🙅🏼

Critical-Fault-1617 | Critical-Fault-1617

Passive aggressiveness is never clear messaging. Learn assertive communication skills. 💪

TheDarkKnight1035 | TheDarkKnight1035

Everyone sucked in this massage altercation 🤷‍♂️

bathroomstallghost | bathroomstallghost

Communicate your needs clearly instead of expecting mind-reading abilities 🤔

Realistic-Animator-3 | Realistic-Animator-3

Massage mishap: Commenter and OP both at fault 🤷‍♂️

LobsterLovingLlama | LobsterLovingLlama

Man throws tantrum at massage, expects girlfriend to read his mind 😤

nosferatusslut | nosferatusslut

Politely ask for quiet during a relaxation massage 🙏

levie17 | levie17

Man's passive-aggressive behavior at massage leads to blow-up. YTA 😠

Diligent_Hedgehog999 | Diligent_Hedgehog999

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