A 26-year-old woman has found herself in the middle of an unexpected conflict after taking on the role of a cook and cleaner for her three male roommates. While she’s been paid for her services and enjoys a respectful relationship with the guys, one of their girlfriends has taken issue with the arrangement. The girlfriend accuses her of acting like a wife and interfering in their relationship, but the woman insists she’s just trying to make money. Is she really in the wrong?
A New Role Emerges

Cleaning Duties

Girlfriend’s Complaint

Confrontation Time ⚔️

Standing Her Ground

Friend’s Opinion

Defending Her Actions ️

Payment Details

More on Payments

Meal Planning

Cleaning Schedule

Total Earnings

The Guys’ Perspective ️

Respectful Arrangement

Potential Business Opportunity

Harry’s Response ️

A Dramatic Dilemma: Who’s Right?
A woman finds herself in a tricky situation when her roommate’s girlfriend accuses her of acting like a wife and interfering in their relationship. Despite earning a significant income and having a respectful relationship with her roommates, the woman’s friend agrees that she’s being inconsiderate. As the drama unfolds, the woman defends her actions, while her roommate promises to handle the situation. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions!
NTA and making bank as a live-in housekeeper

Roommate gets paid to clean, girlfriend needs to chill

Roommate’s girlfriend jealous of cooking and cleaning arrangement

Cooking and cleaning for roommates, but girlfriend’s upset. NTA.

Commenter praises OP for getting paid and living in clean quarters.

Gender roles questioned as girlfriend devalues roommate’s contributions

Cooking and cleaning for roommates turned into a paid gig

Cooking and cleaning for roommates is a job, NTA. GF’s problem.

Roommate’s GF butts in, but OP is still getting paid. NTA

Roommate expects free labor, commenter calls it out.

Girlfriend’s reaction shocks woman who cooks and cleans for roommates
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Supportive comment defends against roommate’s unfair criticism

Roommate’s resistance to girlfriend’s ploy to move in with him

Commenter defends unpaid domestic labor with a clever analogy.

Breaking gender stereotypes and setting expectations for household chores.

Debate over roommates paying for maid/cook services sparks discussion.

Being a housekeeper for roommates is okay, NTA

Roommate deserves payment for cooking and cleaning. NTA

Roommate’s girlfriend wants free maid service, commenter calls her out

Defending a helpful roommate, but drama ensues with girlfriend ♀️

Don’t let insecurity affect your work relationships

This comment defends the woman and asks for her services

NTA. Supportive comment defends OP’s actions and criticizes girlfriend’s insecurity.

Roommate’s girlfriend is insecure about paying for cooking and cleaning. NTA.

Roommate’s girlfriend complains about chores, suggests petty solution.

Roommate’s girlfriend criticized for not helping with chores. NTA wins.

Dreaming of a personal chef and maid? Same

Capitalizing on lazy roommates? This NTA has the right idea

Roommate accused of jealousy, but is OP really NTA?

Roommate defends being paid for cooking and cleaning duties.

Roommate’s girlfriend insecure ( ) over helpful woman’s job

Roommate’s girlfriend expects too much, commenter suggests NTA and poor match

Roommate acts as housekeeper and chef, GF’s insecurity causes drama

Roommate’s girlfriend ungrateful for clean house. NTA.

Commenter is not the a**hole, but why?

Respect the hustle! Roommate’s hard work goes unappreciated.

Roommate’s girlfriend overreacts to paid help. NTA.

Saving money and time with a live-in cook and cleaner

Roommate defends herself against girlfriend’s accusations with hilarious comment

Gender roles questioned, housekeeper ≠ wife. NTA wins.

Woman gets paid for cooking and cleaning, roommate complains. NTA.

Girlfriend’s reaction to woman’s helpfulness is shocking

Roommate praised for not being the a**hole in situation

Roommate’s girlfriend overreacts to fair criticism about household chores.

Get that money! NTA for sure.

Cooking and cleaning or acting like a housekeeper? NTA.

Roommate defends herself for expecting payment for work done.


Woman is NTA, but why? Find out in the replies!

Woman defends herself against insecure roommate’s accusations.

Making money from cooking and cleaning for roommates, NTA.

Don’t let someone else’s relationship drama affect your work ethic

Insecurity leads to shocking reaction. You’re not the a**hole.

Roommate’s job security threatened by jealous girlfriend

Wishing to live with such an amazing roommate

Breaking gender roles and stereotypes with a touch of humor

Roommate arrangement works well, but Sue can go eff herself
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Roommate accused of not doing their share of chores. NTA.

Roommate praised for cooking and cleaning, girlfriend not happy

Envious commenter wants to join the helpful roommate squad

Being a live-in maid and cook pays off financially

Cleaning in lingerie? NTA! But girlfriend’s reaction is shocking

User praises OP and calls out girlfriend’s behavior.

Making money as a housekeeper? NTA, but Sue is insecure

Dream roommate? Commenter praised for cooking and cleaning skills

Girlfriend approves of roommate’s girlfriend’s domestic skills

Budding personal assistant gains experience, potential for six-figure salary

NTA for not catering to girlfriend’s insecurities

Roommate’s helpfulness seen as transactional, GF insecure.

Dream roommate situation, NTA gets the best deal

Roommate pays for chores, girlfriend upset. NTA suggests communication.

Envious commenter praises OP’s job and calls out girlfriend’s insecurity.
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Breaking gender roles and stereotypes, one roommate at a time

Keep making that money and ignore the haters! ♀️

Living the dream of being paid to mom adult men
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Avoid relationship drama and focus on making money
