A woman (F25, Asian) has been with her fiancé (M27, White) for over a year, and his mom has been overbearing since day one. From inappropriate questions about their intimate life to calling her son sexy, the mom has always been a handful. However, things took a turn for the worse when the mom made a shocking comment about their future children. The woman’s response left her fiancé angry and put their relationship to the test.
Inappropriate Questions from Day One ♀️

Mom’s Weird Behavior

Hostility Increases

Fiancé’s Response

Shocking Comment at Dinner ️

Her Response ️

Awkward Silence

Confronting Fiancé

Fiancé’s Excuse ♂️

Her Decision

Fiancé’s Anger

Standing Her Ground

A Shocking Comment, A Firm Decision
After the mom made a hurtful comment about not wanting biracial grandkids, the woman decided that if they have children, the mom will never be allowed to see them. Her fiancé is now mad at her for this decision, but she remains firm in her stance. What do you think about this situation? Share your thoughts and reactions!
Run like your tampon string is on fire. And NTA

Father stands up to racist mother, chooses wife and daughter

NTA, but every other person in this scenario is, most of all the mother AND fiancé. Don’t marry him and definitely don’t have kids with him.

OP is torn between her love for her fiancé and protecting her future children from racism. Commenters are split between calling her TA and ESH, but all agree that having kids with this man is not a good idea.

NTA! Consider leaving. Fiancé won’t stand up for you or future kids

Commenters express concern over potential emotional and physical incest.

Run for the hills! ♀️ This red flag won’t improve. ⛳

Don’t ignore the red flags! ESH for blatantly ignoring them.

Biracial children are the cutest! But should OP rethink relationship?

Establish clear boundaries with fiancé’s racist mom or run ♀️

Commenter advises to run away from racist fiancé’s family

Red flag alert! Partner’s failure to defend against racism

NTA commenter shares dealbreaker, receives strange reply

Mama’s boy prioritizes racist mom over fiancée and future kids

Fiancé won’t stand up to racist mother, NTA for leaving.

Commenter calls out racism and incestuous comments.

Boyfriend’s mom is racist, and he didn’t defend. RUN! NTA

Get out now! ♀️ This is not a healthy situation.

Fiancé’s mom is racist, but the real problem is your fiancé.

Partner’s failure to stand up to racist mother is alarming

Commenter expresses concern over fiancé’s abnormal relationship with mother

Stand up to racism together

Confronting racism in a relationship.

Don’t have biracial kids with a racist fiancé. You deserve better

Confronting racism and family dynamics. NTA stands up strong!

Is staying with him worth a lifetime of racism? #SelfLove

Leave him. You deserve someone who loves and respects you. NTA.

Run for the hills! ♀️ ♂️ This relationship is a disaster.

Fiancé prioritizes mom’s feelings over racism towards future kids?

Questioning the decision to marry a racist momma’s boy.

Fiancé’s unhealthy relationship with his mother, OP should reconsider marriage. YTA.

Fiancé’s mom’s racism addressed, but what about fiancé’s enabling behavior? NTA.

Red flags alert! Check out r/justnomil for more cringe-worthy stories.

Leave him. You’re at the bottom of the totem pole

Commenter advises OP to run from toxic family. Good luck!

Commenter supports the OP’s actions against racist mother-in-law

POC advises to leave racist partner’s family, calls out enabling behavior

Commenter warns against marrying racist, incestuous fiancé.

Think twice before tying the knot with a red flag factory
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Move on. No one is worth the disrespect.
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Commenter suggests moving on from racist fiancé’s family

Red flags in a relationship. Put the wedding on hold.

Fiancé’s mom is racist, fiancé is a momma’s boy. NTA.

Fiance’s lack of support against racist MIL is a red flag
