Fiancé's Mom Doesn't Want Biracial Grandkids 😱 How She Responded Will Shock You!

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A woman (F25, Asian) has been with her fiancé (M27, White) for over a year, and his mom has been overbearing since day one. From inappropriate questions about their intimate life to calling her son sexy, the mom has always been a handful. However, things took a turn for the worse when the mom made a shocking comment about their future children. The woman's response left her fiancé angry and put their relationship to the test.

Inappropriate Questions from Day One 🤦‍♀️

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Mom's Weird Behavior 😳

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Hostility Increases 📈

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Fiancé's Response 💬

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Shocking Comment at Dinner 🍽️

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Her Response 🗣️

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Awkward Silence 😶

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Confronting Fiancé 🚗

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Fiancé's Excuse 🤷‍♂️

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Her Decision 🚫

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Fiancé's Anger 😠

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Standing Her Ground 💪

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A Shocking Comment, A Firm Decision 🚫

After the mom made a hurtful comment about not wanting biracial grandkids, the woman decided that if they have children, the mom will never be allowed to see them. Her fiancé is now mad at her for this decision, but she remains firm in her stance. What do you think about this situation? Share your thoughts and reactions!

Run like your tampon string is on fire. And NTA 😂

mucklechelle | mucklechelle

Father stands up to racist mother, chooses wife and daughter 👏🏻

codefyre | codefyre

NTA, but every other person in this scenario is, most of all the mother AND fiancé. Don't marry him and definitely don't have kids with him. 🚫

firefly232 | firefly232

OP is torn between her love for her fiancé and protecting her future children from racism. Commenters are split between calling her TA and ESH, but all agree that having kids with this man is not a good idea. 😱

IsThatMarcy | IsThatMarcy

NTA! Consider leaving. Fiancé won't stand up for you or future kids 😢

MyRockySpine | MyRockySpine

Commenters express concern over potential emotional and physical incest. 🤢

Lmao_cats | Lmao_cats

Run for the hills! 🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏽 This red flag won't improve. ⛳

Live_Contribution451 | Live_Contribution451

🚩 Don't ignore the red flags! ESH for blatantly ignoring them.

stuckonCallowagain | stuckonCallowagain

Biracial children are the cutest! But should OP rethink relationship?

CakeisaDie | CakeisaDie

Establish clear boundaries with fiancé's racist mom or run 🏃‍♀️

angel2hi | angel2hi

Commenter advises to run away from racist fiancé's family 😱

CarolineSloopJohnB | CarolineSloopJohnB

Red flag alert! Partner's failure to defend against racism 🚩

Master-Manipulation | Master-Manipulation

NTA commenter shares dealbreaker, receives strange reply 🤮

Ok_Kaleidoscope1799 | Ok_Kaleidoscope1799

Mama's boy prioritizes racist mom over fiancée and future kids 😒

Careful-Listen2277 | Careful-Listen2277

Fiancé won't stand up to racist mother, NTA for leaving.

bamf1701 | bamf1701

Commenter calls out racism and incestuous comments. 💯

Mackymcmcmac | Mackymcmcmac

Boyfriend's mom is racist, and he didn't defend. RUN! 😱 NTA

Aeriyka | Aeriyka

Get out now! 🏃‍♀️ This is not a healthy situation.

Prettylittlejedi | Prettylittlejedi

Fiancé's mom is racist, but the real problem is your fiancé.

Trippygirl13 | Trippygirl13

Partner's failure to stand up to racist mother is alarming 😱

kc1387 | kc1387

Commenter expresses concern over fiancé's abnormal relationship with mother 🤔

Lystrade | Lystrade

Stand up to racism together 💪🏽

aujcy | aujcy

Confronting racism in a relationship. 🤔

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Don't have biracial kids with a racist fiancé. You deserve better 👏

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Confronting racism and family dynamics. NTA stands up strong! 💪

ScorchieSong | ScorchieSong

🤔 Is staying with him worth a lifetime of racism? #SelfLove

Ok-Mode-2038 | Ok-Mode-2038

Leave him. 👋 You deserve someone who loves and respects you. NTA.

Andie787 | Andie787

Run for the hills! 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️ This relationship is a disaster.

TheShapeOfColor | TheShapeOfColor

Fiancé prioritizes mom's feelings over racism towards future kids? 🤔

Neenknits | Neenknits

Questioning the decision to marry a racist momma's boy.

prana-llama | prana-llama

Fiancé's unhealthy relationship with his mother, OP should reconsider marriage. YTA.

Gimmecheesenow | Gimmecheesenow

Fiancé's mom's racism addressed, but what about fiancé's enabling behavior? NTA.

altonaerjunge | altonaerjunge

Red flags alert! Check out r/justnomil for more cringe-worthy stories.

damoflances | damoflances

Leave him. You're at the bottom of the totem pole 👍

Status-Pattern7539 | Status-Pattern7539

Commenter advises OP to run from toxic family. Good luck!

stupidsexyscorpio | stupidsexyscorpio

Commenter supports the OP's actions against racist mother-in-law 👏

anarmyofpeas | anarmyofpeas

POC advises to leave racist partner's family, calls out enabling behavior 🔥

Positive_Mango_2783 | Positive_Mango_2783

Commenter warns against marrying racist, incestuous fiancé. 😱

Bergenia1 | Bergenia1

🚩 Think twice before tying the knot with a red flag factory 🤔

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Move on. No one is worth the disrespect. 👍

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Commenter suggests moving on from racist fiancé's family 🤮

Every_Spread_5086 | Every_Spread_5086

Red flags in a relationship. 🚩🚩🚩 Put the wedding on hold.

TexFiend | TexFiend

Fiancé's mom is racist, fiancé is a momma's boy. NTA.

BlackberryMaterial33 | BlackberryMaterial33

Fiance's lack of support against racist MIL is a red flag 🚨

PlushieTushie | PlushieTushie

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