Woman Tells Boyfriend His Daughter Can't Have Her Own Room 😲

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A woman and her boyfriend recently purchased their first home together, but they're already facing a dilemma. The boyfriend's four-year-old daughter, Kate, from a previous relationship, visits them often. In their new home, there's only one spare bedroom, and the woman wants it to be a guest bedroom rather than Kate's personal space. The couple's disagreement has led to a heated debate, with the woman questioning the fairness of reserving a room for someone who isn't there most of the time.

New Home, New Challenges 🏠

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Meet Kate, the Daughter 💕

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The House Layout 🏡

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Kate's Concerns 😟

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The Spare Bedroom Debate 🛏️

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Making Kate Feel Welcome 🤗

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Fairness and Future Plans 🤔

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Setting Expectations 📝

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Boyfriend's Perspective 🗣️

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Still Unfair? 💭

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A Heated Debate Over Spare Bedroom

The woman and her boyfriend are at odds over whether their new home's spare bedroom should be reserved exclusively for his daughter, Kate. The woman believes it should be a guest bedroom, while the boyfriend insists Kate needs her own space for stability. With future plans for their own child, the woman is concerned about the potential complications that could arise. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions!

YTA for not making your stepdaughter feel welcome in her own home 🤦‍♀️

Secure_Patience2437 | Secure_Patience2437

OP is deemed the a**hole for not giving her boyfriend's daughter her own room 😲

SageAndRage | SageAndRage

YTA for not wanting your SO's 4-year-old daughter to feel at home in her dad's house. 🙅‍♀️

BowieJamesss | BowieJamesss

Stepdaughter deserves her own space, YTA. Don't be like OP.

SwordofDuquesne | SwordofDuquesne

Stepmom refuses to give 4-year-old stepdaughter her own room. Commenters call her out for being heartless and not considering the child's needs. YTA 😲

android_queen | android_queen

Stepmother's comment receives backlash for excluding future stepdaughter from family 🤭

normanbeets | normanbeets

OP prioritizes future child over boyfriend's daughter, commenters call out YTA 😠

dingthewitchisdeaf | dingthewitchisdeaf

Daughter deserves her own space. YTA for prioritizing guests.

Agreeable-Asparagus | Agreeable-Asparagus

Commenter calls out boyfriend's selfishness in housing dispute 😑

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Commenter calls out OP and BF for prioritizing girlfriend over daughter 😠

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Step-parent called out for selfish behavior towards boyfriend's child 😡

Confident-Addition76 | Confident-Addition76

Boyfriend refuses daughter a room, called out for being AH

Hotbitch2019 | Hotbitch2019

Commenter calls out OP for resenting her boyfriend's child 😱

HowardProject | HowardProject

OP is prioritizing a hypothetical child over her boyfriend's daughter. YTA 😠

DazzlingDingos | DazzlingDingos

Commenter calls out OP for treating boyfriend's daughter poorly. 😱

picklepiee9991 | picklepiee9991

Treating step-daughter like a guest? YTA according to comments. 😓

jdessy | jdessy

Commenter calls out OP for being selfish. Harry Potter reference.

Pistalrose | Pistalrose

Stepmom admits fault, promises daughter her own room 🙌

RoommateMovingOut | RoommateMovingOut

Commenter calls out cold behavior with angry face emoji.

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Commenter calls out boyfriend for prioritizing girlfriend over daughter 😲

TypicalNefariousness | TypicalNefariousness

Don't prioritize guests over your partner's daughter. YTA.


Buying a house with someone you don't want to house their child? ESH 😬

Master-Opportunity25 | Master-Opportunity25

Stepmom-to-be refuses stepdaughter's room, called out for selfishness 😠

takemehomeliltoaaad | takemehomeliltoaaad

Commenter calls out OP for being selfish and unfair. 😡

Claspers69 | Claspers69

Stepmom refuses to give stepdaughter her own room 😱

Nuclear_Sister | Nuclear_Sister

Boyfriend's daughter deserves her own room. YTA. 😡

rapt2right | rapt2right

Don't treat his daughter like a guest in her own home 😔

fan_of_fromage | fan_of_fromage

Putting a hypothetical baby over his actual daughter? YTA 😠

bunnywasabi | bunnywasabi

Commenter calls out OP for being selfish and prioritizing her wants over a 4-year-old's needs. 😠

gloompicnic | gloompicnic

Commenter calls out OP for prioritizing guests over family members 😲

Eleniandthepups | Eleniandthepups

Make her feel at home! YTA for not giving space 😔

Chasman1965 | Chasman1965

Commenter calls out the boyfriend for not being ready for a relationship with a parent 😔

MiskiMoon | MiskiMoon

Commenter thinks boyfriend is in the wrong 🤷

Greywind11989 | Greywind11989

Partner's comfort over child's comfort? YTA priorities are messed up 🤯

ImpossibleHand5086 | ImpossibleHand5086

Don't be an a**hole, let Kate have her own room 🙏

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