Woman Refuses Sister-in-Law's Presence in Delivery Room and Childcare 🤰🚫

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A woman and her husband are planning to have children and are discussing important decisions before trying to conceive. Two major topics of conversation are who will be in the delivery room and who will help with childcare after the baby is born. The woman is adamant about her preferences, but her husband disagrees, leading to an emotionally charged debate.

Delivery Room Decisions 🏥

awildpotatointhewild | awildpotatointhewild

The Husband's Request 🙏

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The Woman's Response 🗣️

awildpotatointhewild | awildpotatointhewild

Sister-in-Law Concerns 😟

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The Mother's Help 🤱

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Husband's Reaction 😠

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Sister-in-Law's Background 📜

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Living with Sister-in-Law 🏠

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Feeling Indebted 💰

awildpotatointhewild | awildpotatointhewild

Sister-in-Law's Daughter's Opinion 🤐

awildpotatointhewild | awildpotatointhewild

Revisiting the Conversation 🗨️

awildpotatointhewild | awildpotatointhewild

Agreement on Childcare 🤝

awildpotatointhewild | awildpotatointhewild

Cravings and Humor 😂

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A Compromise Reached? 🤔

After an extensive conversation, the husband apologizes for his insensitivity and agrees to the wife's preferences regarding the delivery room and childcare. However, they continue to navigate the complexities of their relationship and future parenthood with humor and understanding.

Compromise on contact with future children, not delivery room. NTA 👍

redcore4 | redcore4

Set boundaries for your delivery room. Nurses and security help.

Miserable-Address617 | Miserable-Address617

Set boundaries with partner about delivery room support 🙌

madmaxextra | madmaxextra

Choosing who is in the delivery room is a personal decision 🚫

Geeklover1030 | Geeklover1030

Stand your ground! You deserve support, not a spectator 👏

Emthatwitch | Emthatwitch

Setting boundaries with toxic in-laws 👍

Playful-Zombie-8202 | Playful-Zombie-8202

Not the a**hole for setting boundaries 🙌

Alarming_Vacation_37 | Alarming_Vacation_37

Stand your ground! It's your body and your decision 💪

Lenaballerina | Lenaballerina

Pandemic may make convo moot, but NTA for setting boundaries 👍

AggravatingTear2879 | AggravatingTear2879

Setting boundaries for childbirth is valid and important. 👍

StirlingS | StirlingS

NTA - Short and sweet, but gets the point across 👍

leilanni | leilanni

🤦‍♀️ Husband wants sister in delivery room and for childcare. NTA.

changerofbits | changerofbits

Delivery room is an intimate space, NTA for wanting privacy 🚫

At-A-Glance2021 | At-A-Glance2021

Not the a**hole, but why? No context provided 🤔

Aggressive-Sample612 | Aggressive-Sample612

Partner's support during childbirth is crucial. NTA for setting boundaries 👏

lanex328159 | lanex328159

Setting the record straight and standing up for yourself. 🙌

Pristine-Revolution5 | Pristine-Revolution5

Standing up for yourself 💪, don't back down 👊

reclusivegiraffe | reclusivegiraffe

Stranger danger! NTA for not wanting her in delivery room.

ForgotMyNameAh | ForgotMyNameAh

Set boundaries for your delivery room, NTA 👏

pickled-Lime | pickled-Lime

Choose who you want in the delivery room. NTA 👍

Sadthrowaway85 | Sadthrowaway85

COVID restrictions make it unlikely for more than 1 person. NTA.

verucka-salt | verucka-salt

Sibling support during childbirth? Athletic cup should suffice. 😂

ScreamyPeanut | ScreamyPeanut

Stay tuned for updates on this dramatic delivery room dispute! 😎

Sessanessa | Sessanessa

It's your medical event, you decide who's in the room 🙌

phoenixdragon2020 | phoenixdragon2020

Support person in delivery room: necessary or overrated? 🤔

kelly08howell | kelly08howell

Labor and delivery nurses can help clear the room for you 🙌

trstrongman74 | trstrongman74

Setting boundaries during childbirth 🚫

AngelSucked | AngelSucked

Setting boundaries: NTA for refusing sister-in-law's presence and guardianship

LollipopThrowAway- | LollipopThrowAway-

Woman rightfully refuses sister-in-law's presence in delivery room 🚫

Emotional-Ebb8321 | Emotional-Ebb8321

Giving birth is hard, complicated, and extra messy. NTA at all 🚫

Mmdrgntobldrgn | Mmdrgntobldrgn

Commenter warns against having a baby with selfish partner 🚫

oldladywww | oldladywww

Husband is support in delivery room, NTA for not wanting SIL as babysitter 👍

Mountainman1959 | Mountainman1959

NTA. Giving birth is super intimate. Remind him of this 🚫

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Childbirth isn't a team sport, NTA for wanting privacy 🙏

Diligent_Brick_5023 | Diligent_Brick_5023

Curious to know if the husband saw this post 🤔

jackjackj8ck | jackjackj8ck

One person's uncomfortable experience with unwanted birth room guests 😑

SunEater-PlusUltra | SunEater-PlusUltra

Men need to understand their role in the delivery room 🚫

APlantNamedEarl | APlantNamedEarl

In some countries, only the partner is allowed in delivery rooms 🌏

jwrx | jwrx

Stand your ground! Your body, your rules 💪

SkylarNotFound0o | SkylarNotFound0o

Support shoes needed for self-centered birthing room dude 😂

infinitedomain | infinitedomain

Savage response to sister-in-law's presence in delivery room 🤬

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Support person debate in delivery room. NTA. Set boundaries.

BoobsBrainsBrawn | BoobsBrainsBrawn

Support people in delivery room are for the birthing mom only 🚫

ionmoon | ionmoon

It's your choice who's in the delivery room 🚫

Unusual_Swordfish_89 | Unusual_Swordfish_89

Agree on childcare, sister-in-law can wait in the waiting room. NTA 👍

BadwolfRoseTyler | BadwolfRoseTyler

Support for woman's decision to refuse sister-in-law's presence during delivery.

TopShoulder7 | TopShoulder7

Set boundaries before having kids 🙌

reptilesni | reptilesni

Empowering response to sister-in-law's unwanted opinion 💪

2squirrelpeople | 2squirrelpeople

Dad needs to step up and support during childbirth. 👍

Idk102585 | Idk102585

Delivery room decisions should be made by the mother. NTA

imdoctorwho | imdoctorwho

Take control of your birth experience, NTA. 💪

nigerianprinceas | nigerianprinceas

Partner's presence in delivery room should be supportive, not demanding 🚫

cutiebranch | cutiebranch

Redundant post, search for similar stories before posting. 🙄

joedude1635 | joedude1635

Is he worth raising your kids with such controlling behavior? 🤔

Kdiman | Kdiman

Support in delivery room? NTA says it's not necessary 🙏

FollowingLumpy187 | FollowingLumpy187

Not the a**hole, but why the refusal? 🤔

CarelessSky5867 | CarelessSky5867

Choose wisely who you want in the delivery room 🚫. Discuss childcare concerns with partner.

kimdeal0 | kimdeal0

Supportive sister-in-law belongs in waiting room 🙌

CheshiresWhereItsAt | CheshiresWhereItsAt

Supportive comment defends woman's decision to exclude sister-in-law during childbirth 👏

Senator_Bink | Senator_Bink

Protecting your kids from abusive relatives is important 👍, but be cautious with your partner 🤔

unicorn92243 | unicorn92243

Money can't buy gratitude 👛💰

crispyfriedwater | crispyfriedwater

Empowering response to sister-in-law's delivery room request 💪

BreadstickBitch9868 | BreadstickBitch9868

Savage response shuts down entitled brother's request 😂

diiidiidi | diiidiidi

Coachception: NTA comment needs no coaching 😎

lucraft | lucraft

No explanation needed. NTA 👍

mividatriste | mividatriste

Sister-in-law banned from delivery room and childcare 🚫

mizfit0416 | mizfit0416

You have full control over who enters the delivery room 💯

WildFlower6553 | WildFlower6553

Father is the support person. SIL can't be a caretaker. NTA 👍

Opposite-Database605 | Opposite-Database605

Father supports OP's decision to exclude sister-in-law from delivery room 👍

pcnauta | pcnauta

Stand your ground, it's your choice. Don't let her interfere 💪

billiegoat888 | billiegoat888

It's your choice who's in the delivery room 🚫

bpthomps44 | bpthomps44

Supportive comment defends woman's right to choose who's in delivery room.

WA_State_Buckeye | WA_State_Buckeye

Not the a**hole for setting boundaries 👍

likeilovethatforyou | likeilovethatforyou

Breaking gender stereotypes in childbirth 🤰🚫

jluvdc26 | jluvdc26

🤔 Is needing support during childbirth a red flag for fatherhood?

SekritSawce | SekritSawce

Choose who makes you feel safe during labour 🙌

abichilli | abichilli

Giving birth is private, only parents should be present 🚫

Empty-Spell-6980 | Empty-Spell-6980

Husbands, you are the support person 👍

East_Bananya_849 | East_Bananya_849

Commenter considers not having a baby due to husband's selfishness 😞

Forest_of_Cheem | Forest_of_Cheem

Sister-in-law banned from delivery room, suggested alternative support.

Wonderful-Mission908 | Wonderful-Mission908

Stand up for your boundaries 💪🏻

Bridazzles | Bridazzles

Childbirth is not a spectator sport 🚫. Have the people there who can support YOU, the actual patient.

Responsible_Candle86 | Responsible_Candle86

Stand your ground, you're not the a**hole. Your husband is.

Expert_Confusion6827 | Expert_Confusion6827

Breaking gender stereotypes in the delivery room ✌️

gxxzzthesecond | gxxzzthesecond

Having a parent in the delivery room is not comforting 😕

tsoismycat | tsoismycat

Sister-in-law wants to be in delivery room? Ask him how he'd feel with her in his vasectomy.

Sad_Gold7305 | Sad_Gold7305

Childbirth is a private, intimate and scary medical procedure 🚫. Only the person giving birth, the person being born, and the medical team are entitled to be in the delivery room. NTA.

DiligentPenguin16 | DiligentPenguin16

Commenter advises counseling before having kids with SIL-involved husband 🙏

Aetherfox13 | Aetherfox13

SIL not welcome in delivery room? Offer spicy challenge 🌶

butt_butt_butt_butt_ | butt_butt_butt_butt_

Protecting your personal space and children from negativity 🙌

ckfil | ckfil

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