Woman Considers Cutting Boyfriend Off Financially After He Ignores Her Request 😱💸

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A 26-year-old woman is contemplating cutting her boyfriend off financially after he ignored her basic requests. She received a $19,000 check after a car accident and specifically asked her boyfriend not to tell anyone about it. However, he couldn't keep the secret, and now their financially struggling family members are bombarding her with requests for money. The woman is torn between standing her ground and cutting off her boyfriend's access to the funds.

The Accident and the Money 💥💰

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The Request to Keep Quiet 🤫

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The Secret Gets Out 🗣️

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Family Members Start Calling 📞

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Standing Her Ground 🚫

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The Final Straw 🤬

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The Father's Request 💸

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Confronting the Boyfriend 😡

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Boyfriend Thinks She's Overreacting 🤷‍♂️

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Considering Cutting Him Off 💔

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EDIT: Overwhelmed by Responses 📢

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Addressing Assumptions 📝

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To Cut Him Off or Not? 🤔

This woman is torn between cutting her boyfriend off financially after he ignored her request not to tell anyone about her $19,000 accident money. Now, their family members are constantly asking for handouts, and she feels disrespected. Her boyfriend thinks she's overreacting, but she just wants to avoid the stress of turning people away. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments! 💬

NTA. Cut him off. It's your money not his. 💸

Natto_Assano | Natto_Assano

NTA. Commenters suggest separate accounts and caution against joint finances.

toorkey | toorkey

NTA. Boyfriend's pushy family, better to be safe with finances 💸

Twolegging | Twolegging

Supportive comment with a heartwarming nickname, but others are skeptical 😔

Tuxmando | Tuxmando

NTA. Commenter advises OP to consider leaving boyfriend and his family.

milee30 | milee30

Protect yourself and your money. Boyfriend's family is tacky and gross 😱

zeezle | zeezle

Boyfriend ignores simple request, woman considers cutting him off financially 💰

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

Protect your money and yourself from a disrespectful boyfriend 💰🙅‍♀️

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NTA wants to cut off bf financially after he ignored her request. She's concerned about his inability to keep a secret, but cutting him off may set a bad precedent. INFO needed: Do they plan to combine finances in the future?

HyperionEsq | HyperionEsq

NAH, but cutting him off financially may not solve the issue.

illegalrooftopbar | illegalrooftopbar

Lock away money in a CD for safekeeping 💸💰

lonnielee3 | lonnielee3

Take control of your finances 💸 and your life 😎. NTA.

wpkn | wpkn

Take control! 💪 Cut him off financially and move on.

C0pper-an0de | C0pper-an0de

Protect your finances, NTA. 💸🙅

GACollegeGirl93 | GACollegeGirl93

Boyfriend ignores request, woman considers cutting him off financially 😱💸

e-elegia | e-elegia

Did the boyfriend share the information or his sister? NAH?

redrovahann | redrovahann

NTA. It's your money. Tell everyone else to back off 💵

DBear423 | DBear423

User seeks clarification on unemployment denial, receives helpful response.

bigpolar70 | bigpolar70

Boyfriend's family causing problems? NTA considers cutting him off financially

WebbieVanderquack | WebbieVanderquack

Protect your finances and have a serious talk 💸🙏

Maeve4159 | Maeve4159

Boyfriend's family drama and lack of respect for boundaries.

ChumChumZel | ChumChumZel

Protect your money! Consider removing him from your account 💸

LeReineNoir | LeReineNoir

Protect your money, not your boyfriend's family. NTA 💸

_LadyRainicorn | _LadyRainicorn

Both parties at fault for lack of communication and pettiness 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

P4ndybear | P4ndybear

Consider letting him be the point of contact to understand.

pntlesdevilsadvocate | pntlesdevilsadvocate

Don't go too far, talk it out like adults 🤝

saltywhenbad | saltywhenbad

Difficult family situation causes slip-up, not intentional betrayal. NAH.

thechikinguy | thechikinguy

Take control of your finances and cut him off 💰🙅‍♀️

MsGinErso | MsGinErso

Commenter faces backlash for suggesting cutting off boyfriend financially 💰

ladyaren | ladyaren

Don't let love blind you to financial red flags 💸

reverendcatdaddy | reverendcatdaddy

Protect your money and cut him off. NTA 💸

Laquila | Laquila

Protect your finances and stand up to grasping family members 💸

5720Katherine | 5720Katherine

Ignoring partner's request leads to financial consequences. NTA.

Lexi_Banner | Lexi_Banner

Surviving a semi-truck accident with $19k payout. NTA.

no_rxn | no_rxn

Commenter questions boyfriend's actions and lending policies. 🤔

bctTamu | bctTamu

Money changes everything, including relationships. Cut him off.

bistek19 | bistek19

Taking control of finances: Woman considers cutting off boyfriend. NTA

Deferon-VS | Deferon-VS

Protect your finances, cut off his access now. 💸

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Take control of your finances! 💰💪 NTA

Tr3bl3F0rt3 | Tr3bl3F0rt3

Don't let anyone guilt you into giving away your hard-earned money 💰

lychigo | lychigo

Protect your settlement money and cut him off financially 💸

Pretend-Panda | Pretend-Panda

BF's post adds new perspective to financial dispute 🤔

OccludedOracle | OccludedOracle

Take control of your finances and don't let him mooch 💰

dadreflexes | dadreflexes

Take control of your finances and protect yourself from leeches 💸

cara180455 | cara180455

Protect your money and trust, he's vulnerable to manipulation 💸

Cherrybomb162 | Cherrybomb162

Dump him and keep the money! 💸😱

TwirlingSquirrel | TwirlingSquirrel

Privacy matters, NTA. Similar experience with partner sharing settlement.

boringgirl2 | boringgirl2

Take control of your finances and set boundaries. 💸

101Geese | 101Geese

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