A woman is facing backlash from her family after deciding not to invite her parents to her upcoming wedding. The bride-to-be’s decision stems from her parents’ treatment of her two younger sisters, which led her to adopt them and become their legal guardian. As the wedding day approaches, the woman is now questioning if she’s in the wrong for excluding her parents.
The Family Background

Taking Care of Charlotte

Parents Move into a Condo

A Dangerous Situation

Taking in Juliet and Charlotte

College Fund Used for Condo

Charlotte’s Happiness

Parents’ Relationship with Sisters

The Bride’s Fiancé

Parents Expect an Invitation

Protecting Juliet and Charlotte

Parents’ Relationship Argument ️

The Bride’s Response

Family Members’ Opinions

The Dilemma: Protect Sisters or Keep Peace?
The bride-to-be is now facing backlash from her family for her decision to exclude her parents from her wedding. She believes that her parents’ treatment of her sisters, which led her to adopt them, is reason enough to keep them away from her big day. However, some family members are urging her to invite her parents to maintain peace within the family. As the conflict continues, the woman is left questioning if she’s in the wrong for her decision. Share your thoughts and reactions below.
Supportive comment section applauds bride-to-be for prioritizing sisters’ feelings

Choosing who to invite to your wedding is important

NTA. Charlotte’s safety is more important than her trash parents.

Bride-to-be stands up to selfish parents, sparks family drama

Bride-to-be receives support for not inviting parents to wedding.

Bride-to-be stands up to toxic family and chooses happiness

NTA! Bless your heart for taking in your sisters

Protecting sisters from nightmare parents, NTA for wedding exclusion

Supportive comment defends bride-to-be’s decision to exclude parents from wedding.

Commenter supports bride-to-be and asks for more information.

Bride-to-be stands up for herself against family drama

Congratulations on your wedding! NTA for not inviting toxic parents

Standing up for family and doing what’s right

Don’t let toxic family members ruin your special day

Cutting toxic family ties for a fresh start

Adopted kids take priority over horrible parents. NTA

Commenter supports bride’s decision and throws shade at parents.

Supportive comment applauds bride-to-be for standing up to toxic parents.

Supportive comment applauds bride-to-be for standing up for sisters

Setting a standard for family drama-free weddings. NTA.

Bride-to-be finds support in sister amidst family drama
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NTA OP, but punishing Charlotte for your dad’s affair?

Stand your ground and keep your wedding about the people you love ❤️

Avoiding family drama at weddings

Commenter supports bride’s decision to exclude parents from wedding.

Bride-to-be receives NTA judgment for excluding parents from wedding

NTA. You’re amazing for stepping up. Parents throwing tantrums

Bride-to-be stands up to toxic parents and finds support.

Commenter defends bride-to-be’s decision to exclude parents from wedding.

Commenter supports OP and questions financial support for adopted sister.

Harsh but fair – commenter calls out toxic family dynamics.

Family drama and secrets come to light in wedding planning

Unapologetic bride-to-be receives support for standing up for herself.

Supportive comment, calling out parents’ behavior.

Bride-to-be stands up to family’s pressure and chooses sisters over neglectful parents. NTA

Setting healthy boundaries with toxic parents. NTA.

Bride-to-be stands up to family drama with a bold move

“Build a bridge and hurry up over it” NTA

Commenter believes bride is not the a**hole for excluding parents.

Supportive commenters agree: NTA, cut off toxic parents.

Avoiding drama at weddings is always a good idea

Family drama ensues as blame game continues

Setting boundaries can be tough, but necessary

Commenter supports bride-to-be’s decision to exclude toxic parents.

Wedding drama: Bride-to-be refuses to invite parents, commenters side with her

Cutting toxic family members from your life is self-care

Commenter defends bride’s decision to exclude parents from wedding
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Celebrate with those who love you and forget toxic family

Cutting toxic parents from wedding guest list. NTA

Supportive comment with humorous voodoo witch doctor suggestion.

Bride-to-be defends sisters, excludes abusive parents from wedding
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Putting family first, bride-to-be stands up for her own family ❤️

Protecting sisters, not punishing parents – NTA

Cutting toxic parents out of your life? NTA, go for it!

Supportive comment congratulates bride-to-be for excluding toxic parents from wedding

Avoiding family drama at weddings

User defends bride-to-be’s decision to not invite parents to wedding

Commenter supports bride-to-be, slams parents with fire emoji.

Cutting toxic family ties for a happy wedding day

Siding with sisters, commenter says NTA and forget parents’ peace

Bride stands up to toxic parents, brother to walk her down.

Commenter sympathizes with bride-to-be, condemns parents’ behavior with anger.

Commenter praises couple for taking in sisters, condemns parents’ behavior.
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Don’t let toxic family members ruin your special day! NTA

Protecting yourself and your children comes first

Commenter sympathizes with bride-to-be’s family issues.

Supportive comment applauds OP for standing up to toxic parents

Breaking the cycle of abuse and trauma.

Defending herself against accusations of being a child abuser

Bride-to-be stands up to abusive parents, no invite.

Prioritizing kids over toxic parents. NTA, stand your ground

Commenter applauds OP’s decision and criticizes sisters’ behavior.

Commenter supports OP’s decision to exclude toxic parents from wedding.

Cutting off toxic family members? NTA takes extreme measures

Stand your ground and celebrate with your real family

NTA. Bride-to-be’s parents sound trashy, she’s better off without them.

Family drama? NTA bride stands up for herself
