Bride-to-Be Finally Stands Up to Her Unloving Mom and Brother 😱💔

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A 24-year-old woman, born into a family that worships their sons, has always felt unloved and neglected by her mother. Despite achieving financial stability and a dream job, she would trade it all for her mother's love. After a disastrous wedding dress shopping experience, she finally confronts her mom and brother, banning them from her wedding. Now, she's left wondering if she's ruined her chances of ever having a relationship with her family.

Born into a 'Boy Mom' Family 🚹

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Mom's Unconditional Support for Brother 👩‍👦

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Trading Success for Love 💔

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Fiancé's Advice: Let Mom Go 💔

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Dress Shopping Disaster 👗

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Mom's Belittling Behavior 😠

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Confrontation at Home 🏠

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Years of Neglect and Gaslighting 💔

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Banning Mom and Brother from Wedding 🚫💍

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Fiancé's Supportive Reaction 🤗

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Fear of Ruining Relationship with Mom 😢

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Mom's Offer for a 'Good Relationship' 🤔

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Did She Lose Her Family? 😔

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A Lifetime of Neglect Leads to a Bold Decision 🚫💔

After years of feeling unloved and neglected by her mother, a bride-to-be finally stands up to her mom and brother during a disastrous wedding dress shopping trip. She bans them from her wedding, leaving her questioning if she's ruined her chances of ever having a relationship with her family. Will she lose her family for good or find a way to mend their broken bond? Share your thoughts and reactions below. 👇

NTA! The bride-to-be's mom and brother are toxic 💯💯. Therapy recommended 👨🏻‍💻

AverageSkateEnjoyer | AverageSkateEnjoyer

Prioritize therapy to cope with unloving mother and brother. 🙌

bists | bists

Don't let her win. Cut ties if necessary. You're NTA.

Rainbow62993 | Rainbow62993

A heartwarming comment and replies filled with love and support ❤️

LeatherDaddyLonglegs | LeatherDaddyLonglegs

Therapy can help heal the wounds of a terrible mother 💔

drakkya | drakkya

Find a mother figure who can show you the love you need 💛

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Take your fiancé's advice and seek therapy 👍

Texascoastalsunshine | Texascoastalsunshine

Cutting toxic family members from your wedding? NTA, keep moving!

pinguthegreek | pinguthegreek

Daughter shares her experience of being an afterthought in her family 😢

Maleficent_Tart2923 | Maleficent_Tart2923

Cutting off toxic family members can be difficult but necessary 👍

bronagh2001 | bronagh2001

Sibling rivalry and parental favoritism. NTA, seek therapy for closure.

BeaArt78 | BeaArt78

Cutting off toxic family members is sometimes necessary. 👍

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Cutting off toxic family members for happiness. 👏

ewearehere | ewearehere

Supportive comment from a fellow parent, praising the fiancé ❤️

ACB1984 | ACB1984

Unloving mom's favoritism based on looks and figure? Yikes 🤯

SedatedVole | SedatedVole

Find a new mom, borrow mine 😊 #NTA

Ok_Storm1343 | Ok_Storm1343

Cutting toxic family members is hard but necessary. NTA 👏

Glittercorn111 | Glittercorn111

Supportive comment and advice for bride-to-be, NTA 👏

Inevitable-Mastodon1 | Inevitable-Mastodon1

Breaking free from toxic family and finding true love 💞

LatteandWaffles4Ever | LatteandWaffles4Ever

Standing up to toxic family members, NTA wins the day 💪

figuringthingsout__ | figuringthingsout__

Congratulations on your engagement! You deserve better than emotional abuse.

naynay2908 | naynay2908

NTA for standing up to unloving mom and brother 👏, but OP needs to be cautious of mom's behavior 🤔

rapt2right | rapt2right

Cutting off toxic family members is hard, but necessary. 👍

Cateyes33 | Cateyes33

Therapy can help. Consider going together if mom is supportive.

nannylive | nannylive

Set boundaries and stick to them for a happier life 🙌

Potential_Chip9557 | Potential_Chip9557

Supportive comment with no replies. Go OP! 💪

Fleurlamie111 | Fleurlamie111

Cutting toxic family members can lead to a happier life 🙌

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Commenter advises to stop wasting efforts on unchanging family 🙄

Reasonable_Rub6337 | Reasonable_Rub6337

Building a chosen family is valid. NTA for standing up.

EvilEyeV | EvilEyeV

Cutting toxic family ties - empowering and liberating. 💪

CadenceQuandry | CadenceQuandry

Setting boundaries with unloving family member for wedding day 💔

1Kcer | 1Kcer

Cutting off toxic family members for a better future 👏

Zel_lost_it | Zel_lost_it

Take control of your life 💪🏻 and stand up to toxic family 💔

HistoricalInaccurate | HistoricalInaccurate

Bride-to-be confronts unloving mom for not being supportive 😱

Pumpkinkra | Pumpkinkra

Supportive comment suggests seeking help and going no contact with mom.

RemiTwinMama2016 | RemiTwinMama2016

Setting boundaries with toxic family members is important for happiness 🙌

whatsmypassword73 | whatsmypassword73

Empathetic comment supports OP's decision to distance from toxic family. 👍

ReallyThisisLife | ReallyThisisLife

Don't let your unloving mother win. Consider therapy. #NTA

Justafriend34 | Justafriend34

Setting boundaries with unloving mother for wedding planning. NTA 👍

VividEfficiency7347 | VividEfficiency7347

No love lost between bride-to-be and unloving family members 💔

accountavoidstrouble | accountavoidstrouble

Managing expectations with difficult family members. YTA or NAH?

ArtichokeOk1669 | ArtichokeOk1669

Toxic family? Cut them loose and move on. NTA 👍

SilverQueenBee | SilverQueenBee

Breaking away from toxic family for love and happiness 💔

maimou1 | maimou1

Don't blame yourself. Stand up for yourself and be happy! 👏

ExcellentCold7354 | ExcellentCold7354

Bride-to-be stands up to unloving mom, gets support from fiancé ❤️

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Standing up to toxic family members, NTA bride-to-be 👏

SpankMyButt | SpankMyButt

Cutting toxic family ties for a happy wedding day 💔

TheMorrigan_13 | TheMorrigan_13

Choosing love over toxic family. NTA, move on and thrive ❤

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Cutting off toxic family members? NTA, do what's best for you! 👍

Zinthr | Zinthr

Standing up to toxic family, but will it make a difference? 🤔

Prestigious_Form_952 | Prestigious_Form_952

Heartbreaking comment about family neglect. Dad not mentioned. 💔

Illustrious-Tour-247 | Illustrious-Tour-247

Bride-to-be stands up to emotionally abusive mom and gets support ❤

TumbleweedNarrow2935 | TumbleweedNarrow2935

Daughter seeks father's approval but finds validation within. NTA 👏

Fine-Adhesiveness985 | Fine-Adhesiveness985

Freeing yourself from toxic family is liberating 👏

jadesisto | jadesisto

Supportive Reddit user offers comfort to struggling bride-to-be ❤️

Ladymistery | Ladymistery

Encouraging comment on healing from a toxic family relationship 👏

Tizibumps | Tizibumps

Stop seeking validation, walk out of the prison. You're enough 👏

AntiquePangolin | AntiquePangolin

Stand up to toxic family and surround yourself with love 💜

jdragonz | jdragonz

Breaking free from toxic family for inner peace 👏

Biz_Consultant305 | Biz_Consultant305

Cutting toxic family out of your life is tough but necessary 👍

Janetaz18 | Janetaz18

Don't let your unloving mother take away your happiness 🙏

ijustwntevrytobeok | ijustwntevrytobeok

Overcoming guilt and reprogramming responses to toxic family behavior. 👏

Anseranas | Anseranas

Letting go of the perfect version of a toxic parent. 👏

Silent_Attitudes365 | Silent_Attitudes365

Cutting ties with toxic family? NTA, do what's best 👍

AlienBeingMe | AlienBeingMe

Cutting toxic family members for self-care and healing 👏

Super_Reading2048 | Super_Reading2048

Don't wait for validation from unloving family. Make your partner your family 💕

Puzzleheaded-Desk399 | Puzzleheaded-Desk399

NTA OP, take it from someone who's been there. Stand firm! 👏

Distinct_Helicopter9 | Distinct_Helicopter9

Mother prioritizes brother over bride during dress shopping. NTA.

MakingWickedBacon | MakingWickedBacon

Cutting off toxic family members and seeking therapy for healing. NTA 👏

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Take control of your big day! 💔

justasmolgoblin | justasmolgoblin

Supportive comment, prioritize fiance over unloving family 👍

Momo222811 | Momo222811

Choosing self-love over toxic relationships 👏

Affectionate_Ice_658 | Affectionate_Ice_658

Bride-to-be gets support for standing up to unloving family 👏

ghostcat1313 | ghostcat1313

Cutting out toxic family members for happiness. 👍

deepsleepsheepmeep | deepsleepsheepmeep

Starting a new family, cut out toxic relatives. NTA 👏

ultracal31 | ultracal31

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