Man Calls Girlfriend's Dad Racist After a 'Compliment' 😲

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A 28-year-old man, of Korean and Iraqi descent, found himself in a difficult situation with his white American girlfriend's family. After dating for 8 months, he was invited to meet her family at her sister's wedding. However, the meeting turned sour when the father started making racist jokes. Despite feeling uncomfortable, he decided to give the family another chance at a picnic. But things took a turn for the worse, leading him to question his relationship and seek advice.

First Encounter: Sister's Wedding 🎩

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Racist Jokes Begin 😡

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Laughing Along 😞

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Avoiding Family Reunions 🚫

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Picnic: A Second Chance 🌳

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K-pop 'Compliment' 🎤

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Mocking Laughter 😠

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Girlfriend's Warning ⚠️

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Leaving the Picnic 🏃

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Girlfriend's Fury 😤

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A 'Handsome' Compliment? 🤔

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Staying at a Hotel 🏨

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Expressing His Feelings 💔

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Update: Breaking Up 💔

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Thumbs Up Reply 👍

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Moving On 🌅

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Thank You 🙏

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A Painful Encounter with Racism 😢

After enduring racist jokes and comments from his girlfriend's family, the man finally decides to leave a picnic and confront his girlfriend about her father's behavior. Despite her attempts to justify her father's actions, he decides to end their relationship and move on. He's now focusing on rebuilding his self-esteem and self-worth, knowing he deserves better. What do you think of this situation? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments below. 👇

Dating a racist family? NTA. But why the delay?


NTA for calling out girlfriend's racist family. Relationship needs ending.

ed_lv | ed_lv

Break up with racist girlfriend and her family. NTA 👏

EmilieVitnux | EmilieVitnux

Commenter questions the authenticity of the story, others share similar experiences.

ktjbug | ktjbug

Moving on from a disrespectful partner with a positive outlook 🙌

TinyTeaLover | TinyTeaLover

NTA for calling out girlfriend's racist family and leaving.

del901 | del901

Savage reply to a racist dad with a touch of humor 😂

therREALcomptrollr | therREALcomptrollr

Standing up against racism and questioning harmful remarks 👏

EliannaRys | EliannaRys

Defending against racism and bigotry with a strong stance. 💪

HashTagJustSayings | HashTagJustSayings

Commenter calls out absurdity of racist 'compliment' with evidence 🧐

fakemonalisa | fakemonalisa

Commenter doubts authenticity of story; others share similar experiences.

Just-Like-My-Opinion | Just-Like-My-Opinion

Commenter shares envy for OP's diverse food background 🤤

spurredoil | spurredoil

Dump her and her racist family 😠


Commenter advises to cut ties with racist girlfriend's family 😱

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Mixed-race commenter warns against having kids with girlfriend. 😱

Madea_onFire | Madea_onFire

Standing up against racism, but miscommunication caused relationship tension 😔

IDKareyou77 | IDKareyou77

Dump the picnic and the racist girlfriend 💯

TimisAllia | TimisAllia

Man's girlfriend makes racist comment, he's NTA for dumping her 😱

RandomSleepyPanda | RandomSleepyPanda

Calling out racism and unsupportive partner, NTA wins this round 👏

Rob_using_Reddit | Rob_using_Reddit

Commenter receives support after encountering racist behavior. 👏

ChipWhitley | ChipWhitley

Dump the racist GF and find someone with a backbone 👍

Tribbles_Trouble | Tribbles_Trouble

Dating a racist with a racist family? Time to flee. NTA 😱

Gogowhine | Gogowhine

Commenter's sarcastic response to a racially charged 'compliment'.

YanDoe | YanDoe

Dump her! 🚮 NTA gets support for leaving racist girlfriend.

fargoLEVY13 | fargoLEVY13

Partner's racism and lack of support. Time to move on. 👋

bamf1701 | bamf1701

Standing up against racism in the family. 💪

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NTA drops racist girlfriend, plans to take time off to heal.

Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet

Encouraging response to toxic relationship. 👍

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Man stands up against racist girlfriend and her father 💪

Responsible-Crab2647 | Responsible-Crab2647

Stand up for yourself and find someone who respects you 👍

glassfury | glassfury

Dump her! 🚮 NTA deserves better than a disrespectful partner.

blankspacepen | blankspacepen

BTS Army supports NTA in toxic relationship 👏

VampireCommentsOnly | VampireCommentsOnly

Girlfriend's racist behavior exposed by NTA commenter 😱

Ginger3950 | Ginger3950

Partner's racist family insults are unacceptable. NTA for leaving.

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Navigating family dynamics can be tough. NTA for setting boundaries.

Camp_Historical | Camp_Historical

Standing up against racism. You go, NTA! 💪

behappyaimhigh | behappyaimhigh

Confronting racism disguised as compliments 😡

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Cut ties with family, including girlfriend. You're not the a**hole 👏

Reasonable_racoon | Reasonable_racoon

Supportive comment offers hope and reassurance to OP ❤

Pterodactyl_Noises | Pterodactyl_Noises

Doubting the authenticity of the story 🤔

ozagnaria | ozagnaria

Confronting racism in relationships. Is it worth it?

snarkisms | snarkisms

Toxic relationship? NTA suggests break up with girlfriend 😔

Zefram71 | Zefram71

Stand up for yourself and find someone who respects you 👏

DarlingVirus | DarlingVirus

NTA comment suggests drastic action in a humorous way 😂

SigSauerPower320 | SigSauerPower320

Racist 'compliment' from girlfriend's dad, NTA should run 🏃‍♂️

ilmych | ilmych

Standing up against racism in a toxic family dynamic 💪

VioletFarts | VioletFarts

NTA calls out girlfriend's dad's racist 'compliment' with fiery response 😠

ChapelGr3y | ChapelGr3y

Commenter calls out girlfriend's family for inappropriate behavior 😱

calopie00 | calopie00

GF's family accused of racism, she fuels the fire. NTA.

itsbreezyybihh | itsbreezyybihh

Commenter accuses girlfriend of racism and advises to end relationship. 😕

AniaOnion | AniaOnion

Insensitive 'compliment' causes relationship turmoil 😕

compound515 | compound515

Defending against racism: NTA and verbal defense is key 🙌

LoPanDidNothingWrong | LoPanDidNothingWrong

Girlfriend's family is racist and offensive. Leave them ASAP 😡

rickallen71 | rickallen71

Keeping cool in the face of racism 😎

Azot2n | Azot2n

Break up advice given in NTA comment section 👍

boyboss420 | boyboss420

Commenter rightfully calls out racism and red flags in relationship.

ThrowAwayCatBalloon | ThrowAwayCatBalloon

Dump the racist girlfriend and find someone who respects you 👍

GingerMinx6 | GingerMinx6

Calling out racism in a relationship. You deserve better 👏

kstweetersgirl2013 | kstweetersgirl2013

Brown man grits teeth at girlfriend's racist family, NTA.

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Standing up against racism in a relationship 💪

curly_lox | curly_lox

Standing up against racism, NTA for leaving the girlfriend.

parodyofsincerity | parodyofsincerity

Dump her? Harsh, but maybe necessary. 🤷‍♂️

Inside_Tree8446 | Inside_Tree8446

Supportive commenter advises against isolating oneself during tough times 🙌

Kerrytwo | Kerrytwo

NTA calls out girlfriend's family for racist behavior 😲

Pretend-Panda | Pretend-Panda

Standing up against racist 'jokes' and finding a better partner 👏

sayhummus | sayhummus

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