Woman Refuses to Cook for Lawyer Boyfriend: Was She Right? 😲

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A 25-year-old PhD student finds herself in a moral and emotional conflict with her 24-year-old lawyer boyfriend. As they live together in a nice flat, she has taken up the responsibility of cooking dinner for him every day. However, when she learns more about the nature of her boyfriend's work, she begins to question his ethics and their relationship. A heated argument ensues, leading to a standoff over dinner duties.

The Dinner Arrangement 🍽️

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Working for the Bad Guys? 😈

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Confronting Him About His Job 🗣️

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Kitchen Conversation 🍳

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The Name-Calling Begins 😠

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Dinner Standoff 🍽️💥

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The Insulting Condescension 😤

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Trying to Make Things Right 💔

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Their Relationship Background 💑

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Her Stance on His Job 🏢

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Clarifying His Job 📚

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Defending Criminals? 🚔

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A Love and Law Dilemma: Who's Right? 💔⚖️

After learning about her lawyer boyfriend's work with landlords, a PhD student questions his ethics and their relationship. A heated argument over dinner leads to a standoff, with the girlfriend refusing to cook for him. As they navigate this conflict, they must confront their feelings about work, love, and respect. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments below. 👇

OP and her boyfriend both lack respect for each other. ESH 🙄

centuryblessings | centuryblessings

ESH for belittling each other, but OP needs to stop pressuring bf to change jobs.

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Relationship advice: Lack of respect is a red flag 👍

Purplehopflower | Purplehopflower

Quarantine keeping them together, but ethical differences tearing them apart 🤷‍♀️

pepperbeast | pepperbeast

Lawyer boyfriend defends problem landlords, both suck in relationship. 😑

GenjisWife | GenjisWife

Lawyer defends boyfriend's job while acknowledging boyfriend's disrespectful behavior.

dieabetic | dieabetic

Commenter requests more info on boyfriend's actions as a lawyer.

djternan | djternan

Lawyer boyfriend vs. morals: A narrow-minded debate. ESH 😒

Dry-Expression | Dry-Expression

GF calls out BF's job, starts argument. YTA. 😑

ApexXero777 | ApexXero777

YTA for dismissing boyfriend's job, but he shouldn't be condescending. PhD is valuable too. Consider mutual respect.

basura_time | basura_time

Both sides criticized for their actions and reactions 🤷‍♀️

GenericUser69143 | GenericUser69143

Young lawyer's age questioned, but commenters explain UK legal system 🇬🇧

meganator77 | meganator77

Insulting your partner's job: recipe for disaster 🤪

coffeequeen1738 | coffeequeen1738

Lawyer boyfriend judged for work, both suck for condescension. ESH 🤷‍♀️

ballsofstyle | ballsofstyle

Commenter calls out unreliable narrator in lawyer couple dispute 🙄

darrowreaper | darrowreaper

Commenter called out for being the a**hole in relationship 🤨

Amkitty3204 | Amkitty3204

Controlling behavior or justified concern? YTA comment sparks debate.

Skeedlebobbatweeza | Skeedlebobbatweeza

Commenter calls out OP for being with someone for money 👀

Horror-mrs | Horror-mrs

Commenter calls out OP for being unfair to boyfriend 😑

DueTown | DueTown

Lawyer boyfriend deserves legal representation, YTA for refusing to cook.

dadapizza | dadapizza

Don't be a validation seeker, engage with your audience! 👋

someonesomewherex | someonesomewherex

Curious about the immoral behavior of the lawyer boyfriend? 🤔

felinelawspecialist | felinelawspecialist

Commenter defends woman's career choice and advises her to dump disrespectful boyfriend. Replies suggest both parties are at fault. 🤷‍♀️

rabid89 | rabid89

Is being a lawyer like shoveling sh*t? ESH/YTA debate.

Arawn_of_Annwn | Arawn_of_Annwn

Relationship advice: If you think your partner's job is 'scummy', move on 👬💔

Timster_1970 | Timster_1970

Commenter calls out OP's bias and entitlement, urges to grow up 😠

vitrucid | vitrucid

Lawyer boyfriend works hard, girlfriend needs to show respect. YTA.

Potato_Deity | Potato_Deity

Commenter calls out OP's behavior in relationship, suggests therapy.

HuckleberryAly2 | HuckleberryAly2

Lawyer boyfriend called her 'silly' for not cooking. YTA?

UndeadWaffle12 | UndeadWaffle12

Woman criticized for not cooking for boyfriend who financially supports her 😑

ssbmrai | ssbmrai

Commenter calls out judgmental behavior towards lawyers. 🤔

zoomzoom42 | zoomzoom42

Money talks, but does it justify an immoral job? 🤔

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Reconsider your relationship with someone who doesn't respect you 🤔

chzmonstr | chzmonstr

Unemployed partner causing relationship issues. YTA for not contributing.

StephCarrot | StephCarrot

Woman faces judgement for refusing to cook for lawyer boyfriend 😲

fistingdonkeys | fistingdonkeys

Commenter calls out OP for hypocrisy and being the a**hole

TheKillerMatt | TheKillerMatt

Lawyer boyfriend calls girlfriend silly, she refuses to cook. ESH.

Grand_Imperator | Grand_Imperator

Commenter disagrees with woman's refusal to cook for boyfriend.

Rboy153 | Rboy153

Girlfriend calls lawyer boyfriend's job immoral, he's the bad guy? 🤔

JoeJoegamR | JoeJoegamR

Doctoral student's boyfriend belittles her; commenters discuss landlord issues.

tandoori_taco_cat | tandoori_taco_cat

Is she justified in refusing to cook for her lawyer boyfriend? 🤔

SuperSog | SuperSog

Lawyer boyfriend deserves a meal, YTA for not cooking 🤔

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Commenter disagrees and criticizes leftist views. 🤔

JackedLikeThor | JackedLikeThor

Commenter calls out hypocritical behavior in relationship 🤔

zetrippykitty | zetrippykitty

Lawyer boyfriend demeaning, but woman shouldn't dictate his career choices. 🤔

wonka5x | wonka5x

PhD student calls out hypocritical girlfriend for refusing to cook. 😱

fjkfjldsls | fjkfjldsls

NTA for not cooking, but YTA for wanting him to quit his job during an economic crisis. BF's job isn't black and white, and OP shouldn't judge it. BF's reaction wasn't that bad, and they need his income for their flat. 😕

shennylenny | shennylenny

Lawyer couple defends clients but boyfriend TA for belittling PhD work. ESH.

gainswor | gainswor

Lawyer boyfriend criticized for calling girlfriend 'silly' 🤯

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Lawyer boyfriend's job causes tension in relationship. YTA or NTA?

CrazzzyConnnorr | CrazzzyConnnorr

Partner's immoral job causes argument, both need to communicate better. 🤷‍♀️

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