New Stepsisters Denied Access to Winter Cabin: Family Feud or Fair Decision? ❄️🏠

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A city dweller with a cozy vacation cabin two hours away finds themselves in the middle of a family dispute. They've been visiting the cabin more often due to remote work and occasionally let their brother or close friends use it. However, when their new stepsisters, who they barely know, ask to use the cabin for a weekend getaway, they're hesitant to agree.

The Cozy Winter Cabin 🏠

fluglehorn7 | fluglehorn7

Remote Work and Cabin Visits 🌲

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Family and Friends' Getaways 🏞️

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New Stepsisters Enter the Scene 👩👩

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Limited Interaction 🤷

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A Request for a Weekend Getaway 📞

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Hesitation and Decision-making 🤔

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Stranger Danger? 🚫

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Concerns About Cleanliness 🧹

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Breaking the News 📢

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Begging and Manipulation? 😢

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Family or Not? 🤷‍♀️

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Dad's Disapproval 😠

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Family Feud Over Cabin Access: Justified or Not? 🤔

A family conflict arises when the owner of a cozy winter cabin refuses to let their new stepsisters, who they barely know, use the cabin for a weekend getaway. The stepsisters argue that they are now family, but the owner remains firm in their decision, feeling manipulated. Their father disapproves, but their brother supports the decision, agreeing that the stepsisters are essentially strangers. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions below. 👇

NTA. Setting boundaries with pushy step-siblings during pandemic times 🙏

bridget1499 | bridget1499

Winter cabin off limits to stepsisters: NTA, your property, your rules ❄️🏠

Flippn_Freddy | Flippn_Freddy

Respectful denial of winter cabin access to stepsisters. ❄️🏠

annah6787 | annah6787

Protect your property, NTA 💪

GeneralBeyak | GeneralBeyak

Step-acquaintance, not stepsister. NTA for denying access. 👍

TypicalManagement680 | TypicalManagement680

Setting boundaries with family over property ownership 📲

SauryAboutThat | SauryAboutThat

Step siblings excluded from cabin: NTA for setting boundaries 👏

panama_violets | panama_violets

Don't let pushy family members ruin your vacation home 🏝🏠 NTA

SheShouldGo | SheShouldGo

Stepsister demands access to cabin, OP stands firm. ❄️🏠

mochaluvr1 | mochaluvr1

adidasbdd | adidasbdd

tritoeat | tritoeat

Setting boundaries is important. No means no 🙌

Severe_Screen | Severe_Screen

Step-sister not entitled to winter cabin. NTA 👍

Luna-Strange | Luna-Strange

Protect your property and boundaries during the pandemic 🙌

WhySoManyOstriches | WhySoManyOstriches

Don't let entitled stepsister ruin your winter cabin 🎖

brambleshade_ | brambleshade_

You have the right to decide who stays there 👍

GothPenguin | GothPenguin

Blended families later in life are just acquaintances. NTA 👍

MoeActionPlus | MoeActionPlus

Respect your host's rules. She could have offered to help.

Oceanwoulf | Oceanwoulf

Stepsister's entitled behavior called out by commenter. 👏

_basil_leaves | _basil_leaves

Stepfamily drama: NTA stands up to hypocritical stepsister 😎

Particular-Raccoon25 | Particular-Raccoon25

Commenter believes person in story is not the a**hole 👍

CopsaLau | CopsaLau

Protecting your home from strangers is reasonable 🙌

Ok_Size_8987 | Ok_Size_8987

Winter cabin is not for entitled stepsisters. NTA.

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Strangers aren't entitled to use my cabin 👍

glimmergirl1 | glimmergirl1

Property rights trump distant familial relations 👍

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New stepsisters demand winter cabin, OP says NTA for refusing ❄️🏠

jinxxed42 | jinxxed42

Polite but firm NTA stands their ground on winter cabin ❄️🏠

simpleredstar | simpleredstar

Agreeing with the decision, commenter receives validation from others.

Talathia | Talathia

Assertive NTA commenter plans to secure winter cabin against stepsisters.

-Little_Gremlin- | -Little_Gremlin-

Dad wants stepsisters to have winter cabin, but won't pay. NTA.

FanofNumbers | FanofNumbers

Stepfamily drama: NTA for denying cabin access 🙅

TheUltradianCyclist | TheUltradianCyclist

Polite decline tips for future cabin requests 😉

Ardeeke | Ardeeke

Stepfamily drama strikes again. NTA but who's the bigger A?

JohnChapter11Verse35 | JohnChapter11Verse35

Doubts on the stepsister's intentions for using the cabin 🤔

skippy886644323 | skippy886644323

NTA! Family only reaching out for favors is not okay 👍

Em4Tango | Em4Tango

Step siblings demand access to cabin, commenter defends decision. ❄️

HowardProject | HowardProject

Owning a cabin is personal and a lot of work. NTA.

hercarmstrong | hercarmstrong

Keep the faith ✌️

R3dB1rd13 | R3dB1rd13

Asserting ownership: fair decision or family feud? ✅

DennisB126 | DennisB126

Strangers asking for access to your cabin? NTA, stand your ground 🙌

xinxinhua | xinxinhua

When is it okay to ask for favors from new family? 🤔

MarvoPanavaris | MarvoPanavaris

Respect boundaries and don't overstep. NTA made the right call 👍

imfancynow | imfancynow

Step-sisters excluded from cabin. Commenter says NTA.

Critical50 | Critical50

Stepfamily drama: NTA says marriage doesn't make siblings. 😱

GriffinsHooman | GriffinsHooman

Don't let entitled strangers ruin your winter cabin ❄️🏠

WingSuspicious1203 | WingSuspicious1203

Respect the house rules or leave. 👍

Hoosier_Mama75 | Hoosier_Mama75

Respectful commenter defends cabin owner's decision to deny access.

ONESNZER0S | ONESNZER0S

Is the winter cabin really 'family property'? 🤔

Freezerzard | Freezerzard

Commenter believes decision was fair 👍

emmu123 | emmu123

Commenter believes decision was fair. 👍

GingerSnappedKneecap | GingerSnappedKneecap

Commenter believes person is not the a**hole. 👍

justlookingrn2 | justlookingrn2

New stepsisters not welcome at winter cabin, OP not the AH ❄️🏠

brerosie33 | brerosie33

When does family by marriage become actual family? 🤔

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Short and sweet: commenter agrees with the decision 👍

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Commenter believes decision was fair. 👍

charitymw7 | charitymw7

Commenter supports decision to deny stepsisters cabin access due to COVID-19.

Tinawebmom | Tinawebmom

Stranger stepsister acting like a child denied cabin access. NTA.

tired-soul- | tired-soul-

New stepsiblings denied winter cabin access during pandemic. NTA.

flyingleaps | flyingleaps

Step-sisters not entitled to winter cabin. NTA 😊

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Commenter believes decision was fair. 👍

Bob4Cat | Bob4Cat

Strangers demanding access to winter cabin. NTA stands firm.

Dana07620 | Dana07620

Stranger stepsister demands winter cabin access, NTA shuts her down 😍

nova9001 | nova9001

Family feud or fair decision? Blood brother never shares cabin.

SaltyDoggoMeo | SaltyDoggoMeo

Respect the owner's boundaries. NTA for denying access.

fin_ss | fin_ss

Asserting property rights and family drama. 👍

SnowWhiteCampCat | SnowWhiteCampCat

Is it ever okay to ask for access to someone's cabin? 🤔

beepbop81 | beepbop81

Short and to the point. 👍

VoodooNova | VoodooNova

Choosing family over strangers: Fair decision or not? 🤷‍♀️

bibbiddybobbidyboo | bibbiddybobbidyboo

Stepfamily drama: NTA stands up to dad's new marriage 👏

catzrob89 | catzrob89

Your property, your rules 👍

Abc123dorayme321 | Abc123dorayme321

New stepsisters denied access to winter cabin, NTA for saying no 👍

diashto | diashto

Stepfamily dynamics questioned, NTA prevails 👏

iiiBansheeiii | iiiBansheeiii

No kids allowed 🚫 👍

Not-a-Kitten | Not-a-Kitten

When family becomes an excuse for bad behavior 🙄

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Entitlement is unbelievable. Not the a**hole here 😊

HappyToasterCo | HappyToasterCo

Respect the rules, respect the house 👍

Forsaken-Rain-3071 | Forsaken-Rain-3071

Respect the owner's right to say no. NTA 👍

nicole1stanley | nicole1stanley

Sassy response to entitled stepsisters' cabin request 😎

TrixIx | TrixIx

Respect boundaries: Not all properties are 'family properties' 👍

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Respectful boundaries lead to peaceful winter cabin retreat 🙌

scorchdearth | scorchdearth

Stranger stepsister demands winter cabin access, OP stands firm. 😡

Spooky-Cat-Lady | Spooky-Cat-Lady

Step sister's entitled behavior exposed, NTA for denying access 😊

CompetitiveLecture5 | CompetitiveLecture5

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