Woman Tells Fiancé He's Not Her Son's Real Dad: Heartless or Justified? 😨

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A 31-year-old woman is facing an emotional dilemma after her fiancé starts referring to her son as his own. The woman's late ex-boyfriend, who was the biological father of her son, passed away due to drug addiction. Now, she's torn between honoring her late ex's memory and acknowledging her fiancé's role in her son's life. As the situation unfolds, she seeks advice and opinions from others, but the question remains: is she being heartless or justified?

A Tragic Love Story 💔

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The Heartbreaking Loss 😢

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A Life Cut Short 😞

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Finding Love Again ❤️

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A New Father Figure 🤗

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Claiming the Role of Dad 😕

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A Mother's Dilemma 😨

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Preserving the Memory 🕯️

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A Difficult Conversation 🗣️

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The Cold Shoulder ❄️

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Seeking Advice 🙏

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A Harsh Judgment? 😔

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Entitled to Feelings 💭

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A Mother's Struggle: Loyalty and Love 💔

This heart-wrenching story of a mother torn between her late ex-boyfriend and her fiancé raises questions about loyalty, love, and the role of father figures. As she grapples with her feelings and seeks advice from others, she's left wondering if she's being heartless or justified in her actions. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments below. 👇

OP faces backlash for not accepting fiancé as son's father figure 😠

rustyshackleford1301 | rustyshackleford1301

Woman criticized for not appreciating fiancé's love for her son 🙄

PrincessPenelopesMom | PrincessPenelopesMom

Don't deprive your son of a loving father figure. YTA. 🚫

WebbieVanderquack | WebbieVanderquack

Commenter calls out YTA for not acknowledging stepfather's role 🔥

cj519 | cj519

Woman refuses to let fiancé be called dad, internet calls her YTA 😭

Ask_Aspie_ | Ask_Aspie_

Choosing to prioritize the memory of a drug addict over your son's happiness? YTA 😡

rmihich | rmihich

User calls out OP for implying 'real' means biological. 🔥

stares-motherfuckily | stares-motherfuckily

Don't marry someone and expect him to hold your son at arms length. 🤔

nomorepantsforme | nomorepantsforme

Accepting your fiancé as a father figure is a wonderful thing 😍

Dszquphsbnt | Dszquphsbnt

Fiancé told he's not son's real dad after 5 years. Commenters debate YTA verdict 🤔

ItsGoodToChalk | ItsGoodToChalk

Fiancé wants to be there for son, but OP glorifies ex. YTA.

KushHaydn | KushHaydn

OP needs therapy to move on from ex. YTA for hurting loved ones.

Illustrious-Band-537 | Illustrious-Band-537

Commenter calls out the fiancé for being a heartless YTA 🚩

cantgetright10 | cantgetright10

11-year-old son's opinion matters most, not the mother's.

mdpqu | mdpqu

Choosing to prioritize the memory of a deceased father over her son's emotional well-being? YTA. 🙄

JEFFinSoCal | JEFFinSoCal

YTA. Fiancé stepped up as father, you want him to stop? 🤷‍♀️

liquiddenim | liquiddenim

Stepdad vs. biological dad: Two dads or heartless? 🤔

Grinisti | Grinisti

Fiancé steps up as father figure, but YTA wants labels. 🤦‍♀️

Vixter4 | Vixter4

Stepdad's love and care for child should be valued. YTA.

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Don't let your past ruin your present. YTA. 😔

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Should a child's opinion matter in this situation? 🤔

pink_gem | pink_gem

Mom refuses son's relationship with new man. Commenter calls YTA.

L41NEchroma | L41NEchroma

Fiancé is not replacing late boyfriend, but adding to family 🙏

NotASniperYet | NotASniperYet

Fiancé is not son's bio dad. Commenter says YTA. 🤷‍♀️

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Woman upset fiancé is a good dad to her son. YTA. 😨

mild_toadster | mild_toadster

Fiancé raising her son, but not the bio dad. Is she justified? 🤔

the-mirrors-truth | the-mirrors-truth

Recovering addict advises OP to honor ex by providing son father-figure 👏

Strawberry_Tricky | Strawberry_Tricky

Moving on from a toxic relationship doesn't diminish his memory 🙏

Emartyr | Emartyr

Let your son have two fathers. Don't be selfish. 🙏

bearbear407 | bearbear407

Commenter calls out heartless behavior in controversial situation 🤷

ImaginationBetter565 | ImaginationBetter565

Commenter calls out selfish behavior in custody dispute 🔥

PM_ME_CAT_POOCHES | PM_ME_CAT_POOCHES

User calls out OP for expecting less from fiancé. YTA.

dumpsterfireofalife | dumpsterfireofalife

Single mother criticized for not letting fiancé take father role. 🙄

LavishnessBeginning3 | LavishnessBeginning3

Commenter reacts to harshness of situation with shock. 🤯

iamjadeplant | iamjadeplant

OP told fiancé he's not her son's real dad. Commenter calls her out for disrespecting son's deceased father. 😕

learningasura1 | learningasura1

Biological connection doesn't define fatherhood. YTA for denying that.

AnAbstractConcept | AnAbstractConcept

OP's refusal to let son choose dad raises questions 🤔

C0pper-an0de | C0pper-an0de

Commenter deems person in article a big YTA 😡

Current-Read | Current-Read

Step parent struggles: Fiancé loves child like his own, YTA.

notyoursoccermom | notyoursoccermom

Approaching the situation with empathy is key. 💜

OptimisticFoe | OptimisticFoe

Short and not so sweet: YTA. 🤨

loaf1669 | loaf1669

Commenter calls out OP for not accepting fiance as son's dad 🔥

feckoffkevin | feckoffkevin

Is it fair to deny a child a father figure? 🤔

YeetusDeletus-Feetus | YeetusDeletus-Feetus

Is it fair to deny fiancé's role as father figure? 🤔

The_final_frontier_ | The_final_frontier_

Commenter calls out YTA for prioritizing biological ties over love 👏

CarpeCyprinidae | CarpeCyprinidae

Fiancé crushed after being told he's not son's real dad 😢

Chaotic_Newt99 | Chaotic_Newt99

Single mother advises to give son a father figure, apologize to fiancee

darkdisney74 | darkdisney74

User questions woman's obsession with deceased ex-boyfriend, suggests counseling.

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