Mom Throws Baby Shower Against Daughter's Wishes 😱👶🚿

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A 25-year-old expectant mother found herself in the middle of a family drama when her mom insisted on throwing her a baby shower, despite her repeated refusals. The mom-to-be had already researched and created a wishlist of items she wanted for her baby, but her mom dismissed her choices as too expensive. As the baby shower approached, the daughter decided to skip the event and spend the day with friends instead, leaving her mom furious and demanding an apology. The situation has left many wondering who's in the right.

Expecting Her First Child 🤰

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No Baby Shower, Please 🚫👶🚿

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Wishlist Dismissed 📝❌

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Mom's Shower Obsession 🤦‍♀️

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Reasons for Refusing 🙅‍♀️

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Morning Sickness Struggles 🤢

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Mom Ignores Daughter's Wishes 😤

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Skipping the Shower 🏃‍♀️

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Phone Off, Drama On 📵

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Refusing to Apologize 🚫🙇‍♀️

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Cold Shoulder from Mom ❄️

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Unwanted Gifts 🎁

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Returning Gifts and Gratitude 🔄

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Ditching the Shower 🚿

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Others' Opinions 🗣️

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Supportive Boyfriend 💑

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Baby Shower Drama: Who's Right? 🤔

A young expectant mother repeatedly refused her mom's insistence on throwing her a baby shower, only to have her mom go ahead with the event anyway. The daughter decided to skip the shower and spend the day with friends, leading to a heated confrontation with her mom. With both sides refusing to back down, the situation has left many wondering who's in the right. Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments below. 👇

Mom throws unwanted baby shower, daughter asks guests to return gifts 😬

chilloutscout | chilloutscout

Guests were excited to celebrate, but OP's mom was the bigger a**hole.

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OP refuses baby shower, complains about gifts. YTA. 😱

chrisisbest197 | chrisisbest197

Generosity or boundary violation? ESH, but OP clear.

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OP's baby shower becomes a battleground for family drama 🤷‍♀️

zaxscdvfbgbgnhmjj | zaxscdvfbgbgnhmjj

OP rejects gifts after mother throws unwanted baby shower. ESH.

longweekends | longweekends

Mom crosses the line with baby shower against daughter's wishes 😱

MagicMauiWowee | MagicMauiWowee

Putting your own drama ahead of friendships? ESH 😑

LeahKitekt | LeahKitekt

Commenter defends mom's excitement for baby shower, gets support.

ImJustAGirl88 | ImJustAGirl88

OP's decision to return gifts and keep only 10% is controversial 🤔

YMMV-But | YMMV-But

User questioned if daughter firmly declined mother's baby shower offer.

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Wedding disaster foreshadowed by unwanted baby shower 😱

Bigdickswinging38 | Bigdickswinging38

ESH. Mom throws shower against daughter's wishes, daughter has materialistic attitude.

jemholo2017 | jemholo2017

Mom throws unwanted baby shower, called out for being selfish. 😱

Lolapiranha | Lolapiranha

Commenter calls out OP for immature behavior at baby shower.

hammerlocksdontdie | hammerlocksdontdie

Commenter shames OP for not appreciating baby shower gifts 😑

Satanslady666 | Satanslady666

Mother oversteps boundaries, OP comes off as entitled. ESH 😑

Kalle_79 | Kalle_79

Commenter calls out both mother and daughter for entitlement. 🤯

LadyPundit | LadyPundit

Mom throws unwanted baby shower, both parties show entitlement 😱👶🚿

irisheyes1997 | irisheyes1997

Mother throws unwanted baby shower, commenters share similar experiences. 😱

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Commenter calls out OP for being petty about baby shower 🤔

gr8spacegrl | gr8spacegrl

OP's inconsistent behavior raises suspicion 🤔

Horror-mrs | Horror-mrs

Commenter calls out both sides for entitlement and rudeness 🤷🏼‍♀️

WritPositWrit | WritPositWrit

User called out for being rude to guests at baby shower

josie8719 | josie8719

User shares negative experience with surprise shower, advises setting boundaries. 🚫

user18name | user18name

Daughter dislikes baby shower, but her behavior was spoiled and rude 🤷🏻‍♀️

amanda-g | amanda-g

Both parties made mistakes, future support may be impacted 🤷🏻‍♀️

DigitalPelvis | DigitalPelvis

Guest feels disrespected by snobby daughter and controlling mother.

scottinadventureland | scottinadventureland

Guests deserve an apology for being treated like pawns 😔

Bookbringer | Bookbringer

Daughter and mom clash over baby shower plans 😱👶🚿

waughk | waughk

Commenter calls OP a**hole, predicts social fallout. 😱

BTM89 | BTM89

Setting boundaries with parents can be tough 😔

transupbitch | transupbitch

NTA emphasizes importance of listening in communication 👂

Treswimming | Treswimming

Daughter called out for being entitled at her own baby shower 😱

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NTA, mother disrespected your wishes and ignored your boundaries 😱

neon_boba | neon_boba

Guests invited to unwanted baby shower, YTA and mom TA

Maykitsune | Maykitsune

ESH - Mom threw a shower against your wishes, but returning gifts was entitled.

tacopants9 | tacopants9

Engaging with mom could have made the baby shower better 😊

teenxrocket | teenxrocket

ESH. Daughter could have communicated better, but mom is TA.

Givemeahippo | Givemeahippo

Nanny gives practical advice for baby shower gifts 👶🏻

carolweigel | carolweigel

OP accused of being TA for not informing guests about shower

deadlyhausfrau | deadlyhausfrau

Guests punished for OP's actions, ESH but OP more so 😐

ItsNeverMyDay | ItsNeverMyDay

Daughter upset about unwanted baby shower, guests disrespected by leaving.

joosika | joosika

Redditors call out OP for being a terrible mother 👶

noapa | noapa

Skipping unwanted baby shower, but still living with mom? 🤔

408270 | 408270

Mom throws unwanted baby shower, commenter calls her out (YTA) 😱

mspotatohead22 | mspotatohead22

Being a parent means setting boundaries and apologizing when necessary 👶

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Guests may have been put out, but mom is NTA 👍

unwritten_otter | unwritten_otter

Mom throws unwanted baby shower, guests caught in the middle 😱👶🚿

CheruthCutestory | CheruthCutestory

Daughter sets clear boundary, mom ignores it. NTA wins.

Ricoret | Ricoret

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