A Sister's Concern About Her Brother-In-Law's Sketchy Behavior

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A woman suspects her sister's husband is cheating, but her sister won't believe her. During a family gathering, the woman notices scratches on the husband's back and makes a comment, leading to an argument. The sister pulls her kids out of the pool and leaves. Now the woman wonders if she should have stayed out of it. This story raises questions about trust, honesty, and faith. Would you have done the same in her situation or stayed quiet? Share your thoughts in the comments.

Grateful OP thanks commenters for help in sketchy situation 🙏

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Bible-inspired aliases for in-laws spark curiosity and questions 🔍

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Sibling struggles to confront sister's sketchy relationship while stuck at home.

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Sibling distance and concern: reconnecting with sister's sketchy husband.

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Empathy for those suspecting a cheating spouse — important reminder ❤️

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Christian sister worried about brother-in-law's sketchy behavior ✨

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🤔 Suspicious behavior raises concerns about possible infidelity.

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Brother-in-law's suspicious behavior raises red flags for concerned sister

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Fun in the sun with a side of suspicion 🤔☀️

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Is Jake cheating on his wife? 🤔

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Sibling confronts sister about brother-in-law's sketchy behavior and beliefs.

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👀 Suspicious pool incident prompts sudden exit

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Sibling loyalty vs. speaking up about sketchy behavior 🤔

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🤔 Is my brother-in-law cheating on my sister?

A woman is concerned that her sister's husband may be cheating. She has noticed many sketchy behaviors from him, including leaving the bed at night and not returning until after work the next day. He also hides money and does not want to conceive another child with her sister. During a family gathering, the woman noticed scratches on his back that looked like fingernails. When she mentioned it to her sister, she was told that it was from a spiritual attack by a demon during a prayer walk. The woman is unsure whether she should have intervened or stayed out of it. Read on to find out what people have to say about her concerns and whether she was in the wrong.

It's hard to break die-hard religious types from their beliefs 🙏

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Don't push too hard, let her come to terms on her own. 💭

decsar20 | decsar20

Support sister, but be cautious. Husband may manipulate her against you. 😕

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Speculations arise about the brother-in-law's sketchy behavior. 🤔

lightwoodorchestra | lightwoodorchestra

Former evangelical explains how indoctrination explains sister's delusional behavior.

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NTA sister sees red flags, but is in denial. You're supportive 👍

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Don't let a sketchy brother-in-law ruin a good relationship. 💔

mael0004 | mael0004

Protecting family: hiring a PI to catch cheating BIL 🕵️‍♀️

The_Thugmuffin | The_Thugmuffin

Is the brother-in-law gambling or cheating? 🤔

Slowplay23 | Slowplay23

Comment section turns into a movie pitch 📷

LeMot-Juste | LeMot-Juste

Being a concerned sister-in-law: walking the thin line 🤔

awkward-velociraptor | awkward-velociraptor

Speaking up for a loved one can come at a cost 😔

GeoWannaBe | GeoWannaBe

Glad they're in a 'dry spell', avoiding STI risk. #NTA

Shmooperdoodle | Shmooperdoodle

Sister's denial is not helping, NTA for being concerned 🤔

soullessginger93 | soullessginger93

Speculation on devout christian family man's sketchy behavior 👀⚠️

space-tardigrade- | space-tardigrade-

Offering support in a difficult situation ❤️

killahkrysti | killahkrysti

Is the brother-in-law having an affair or in a fight club? 🤔

Stunning-General | Stunning-General

Support and solutions for a sister in a toxic religious group ✊🏽❤️

dorinda-b | dorinda-b

Commenter thinks sister-in-law is in denial. 🤔

mextrawork | mextrawork

Cheating with a demon is still cheating. 👏 NTA

davidj90999 | davidj90999

Respect her decision: NTA but you've done all you can 🤝

stefiscool | stefiscool

Supporting a loved one through tough times 🤝

roachsgirl | roachsgirl

A friend turns a blind eye to her cheating husband 🙈

foxyrain | foxyrain

Supportive comment with a hint of resignation. 🤷‍♀️

xaygoat | xaygoat

When to butt in? 🤔 Sister's concern over brother-in-law's behavior.

NeighborhoodTrolly | NeighborhoodTrolly

Comment suggests inappropriate behavior with no evidence, raises suspicions 👀

RoutineReference5 | RoutineReference5

Debating if telling sister about cheating makes OP an a-hole 🤔

poontang_slayer_113 | poontang_slayer_113

Red flags and shared experiences, trust your gut feeling 👁

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👏 Supportive comment urges digging to protect sister and kids.

bynomeansanexpert | bynomeansanexpert

Protect yourself from demons with holy water and squirt guns! 🙏🔫

PrettyLyttlePsycho | PrettyLyttlePsycho

Supportive sister tries to help sibling in denial 👍

beanfiddler | beanfiddler

Supporting a friend through a tough situation 💪

the-last-slice-of-pi | the-last-slice-of-pi

Supportive advice to help a friend leave a cheating husband 💔

EpicKiddo | EpicKiddo

Not the a**hole, but what did the brother-in-law do?

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A skeptical Christian weighs in on supernatural claims of cheating husband

IrishWebster | IrishWebster

Wild speculation about brother-in-law's 'prayer walk' orgy 🤔🤷‍♀️

cranking90sboi | cranking90sboi

Christian support for a sister's concern about infidelity ⛪

ValeriaWildfang | ValeriaWildfang

Sister confronts brother-in-law about sketchy behavior, threatens to expose?

Ksuyeya | Ksuyeya

Misunderstandings happen, but communication is key 📤

Pasttuesday | Pasttuesday

Commenter suggests supernatural solution to sketchy behavior 😈🔮

Throway99038 | Throway99038

Sibling loyalty vs. truth-seeking 🤔

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Supportive comment with a request for drama update.

echosmama | echosmama

Commenter warns of sister's delusion in the face of infidelity 👀

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Support for NTA comment on sister's situation 👍

in35mm | in35mm

It's tough to convince someone in denial. 🤷‍♀️

Jamwithaplan | Jamwithaplan

Denial at its finest. 👀 NTA wins this round.

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Navigating family dynamics and cults can be tricky 🤔

seba_make | seba_make

A Sister stands up for herself and critiques her brother-in-law

trippygg | trippygg

When things get weird... 👀

ZweitenMal | ZweitenMal

Calling out delusion 👀 NTA stands their ground

thicklover | thicklover

Helping a loved one without alienating them can be tricky 😬

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Respect your sister's decision and move on 🤝

yonk182 | yonk182

Heartbreaking. What's the backstory behind this comment?

ancap_rico | ancap_rico

Helpful advice for a concerned sister, including legal options 💼

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Keeping secrets: To tell or not to tell 🤐

Tessorio | Tessorio

Sister in denial about cheating BIL using religion as excuse. #NTA

asphalt_licker | asphalt_licker

Sibling loyalty and morality, 🙌 for the sister's concern! 😇

PepperoniPizzaRoll | PepperoniPizzaRoll

Unexpected demon possession revelation sparks intrigue and confusion 😱

diamondgalaxy | diamondgalaxy

Friend suspects infidelity but sister is in denial 😬

pthepuff | pthepuff

Wow, skepticism towards BS beliefs. 👀

MagicianNew | MagicianNew

Brother-in-law accused of being attacked by succubus, not the a**hole

dashingopal | dashingopal

Brother-in-law's sketchy behavior raises concern, NTA offers support ❤️

hellogawgous | hellogawgous

When a good Christian woman can't keep silent about demonic attacks 👹

lucia-pacciola | lucia-pacciola

Commenter calls out sister's denial of brother-in-law's cheating 🤔

Squishy-Box | Squishy-Box

Talking to the pastor could be a good way to help 💬

fuckoffsenpapaya | fuckoffsenpapaya

Sibling offers support despite religious barriers. 🤝

JAvantGartist | JAvantGartist

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