When a high-functioning autistic man seeks dating advice from his sister, she tells him the truth. But was she too harsh? Read on to find out why her brother's behavior drives her absolutely insane.
Brother with Aspergers asks why he can't get a date. My response causes family drama.
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Dating can be tough, but even tougher when you have Aspergers. Aspergers is a high functioning form of autism that can make it difficult to interact with others. One woman recounts how her brother with Aspergers has been struggling to find a date. While his intentions may be good, his honesty often comes across as demeaning and borderline sexist, causing many women to walk out on him. But is it really his fault? His family's constant coddling and his belief that he is smarter than others, especially women, has not helped his case. When his sister finally told him the truth about his behavior, he was hurt and complained to their parents. But was she really in the wrong for speaking up? Join us as we explore the complexities of dating with Aspergers and the delicate balance between honesty and hurtful behavior. Stay tuned for comments and reactions.
NTA. Sister gives honest dating advice to entitled brother with Aspergers.
CitizenSquidbot | CitizenSquidbot
Being honest with an autistic person is crucial. Direct communication helps.
GrowKinder | GrowKinder
Brother's sexist attitude worsened by parents' coddling. Asperger's not excuse. 🤦♀️
DogsReadingBooks | DogsReadingBooks
Being honest with an Asperger's family member about dating risks drama 🔥
MoreTumbleweed | MoreTumbleweed
Encouraging advice to help a brother with Aspergers understand dating.
larry2o2 | larry2o2
Calling out a sexist narcissist - NTA handled it perfectly 👌
littlepunkbree | littlepunkbree
OP provides constructive criticism, but brother's sexist views cause drama.
galarguy | galarguy
Honesty is the best policy 😊 NTA sister helps brother find love.
JMLKO | JMLKO
Mislead confidence instilled by parents causing family drama. NTA.
WonderfulAtmosphere | WonderfulAtmosphere
Confronting the reality of misogyny and arrogance in social awkwardness 👥
DoULiekChickenz | DoULiekChickenz
Fighting sexism and family drama. You're NTA 👊🏽
Naive-Papaya | Naive-Papaya
Commenter suggests reason for lack of dating success. NTA.
leskenobian | leskenobian
Honesty hurts, but it's necessary. 🤷♀️
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NTA for telling the truth to your brother with Asperger's, who needed to be treated like everyone else. Your parents are TA's for giving him special treatment even though he's no longer a child. Some comment replies suggest that your brother is also being sexist and disrespectful and using his Asperger's as an excuse to take advantage of people.
_shellybean | _shellybean
Don't blame it on the autism, he's just being an a**hole 🤷♀️
Kellogz27 | Kellogz27
NTA gently corrects harmful language regarding autism and misogyny.
progressivepinata | progressivepinata
Autistic lesbian calls out misogyny in response to brother's behavior. 🌈
goodnewsbees | goodnewsbees
Being honest can be tough, but it's necessary for growth. 💪
milee30 | milee30
Honest advice can be tough, but necessary 👍
Abieticacid | Abieticacid
Standing up to bad behavior is necessary, no matter the condition. ⚠️
BicarbonateOfSofa | BicarbonateOfSofa
Honesty with loved ones can be tough, but necessary. ❤️
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Commenter expresses concern for potential emotional abuse in relationships.
Gwenzzz | Gwenzzz
Encouraging response to supporting someone with Aspergers 💛
murderousbudgie | murderousbudgie
Breaking down misconceptions on Aspergers and dating 💕
EveryDisaster | EveryDisaster
NTA! You called out his sexist attitude and superiority complex 🚩
Stunning-General | Stunning-General
Honesty isn't always easy 😬
pmathewstx | pmathewstx
Honesty hurts, but sometimes it's what we need. 💔
wickedkittylitter | wickedkittylitter
Being on the spectrum doesn't justify being a d**k 🤔
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Calling out sexism and standing up for what's right! 👊
Mysterry_T | Mysterry_T
Being autistic doesn't justify misogyny. Being cautious is better.
orphiq | orphiq
Dispelling myths about Aspergers and dating: NTA's response wins.
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Honesty as the best policy? NTA comment causes family drama.
dramaandaheadache | dramaandaheadache
Commenter defends OP's response to sensitive brother with Aspergers.
redheadeddisaster | redheadeddisaster
Addressing demeaning behavior towards women sparks family drama 😬
ms-anthrope | ms-anthrope
Empathetic NTA advises brother with Aspergers on dating.
notkeenontalking | notkeenontalking
Honesty is the best policy. 🤷♀️
RagaMuffinSun | RagaMuffinSun
Calling out ableism and sexism, NTA stands their ground.
Tylermcd93 | Tylermcd93
Honesty is the best policy. 🤔
Order66-Cody | Order66-Cody
Direct communication with those with disorders is key! 🗣️
vonshiza | vonshiza
Insightful comment from a diagnosed autistic woman about coddling autistics 💭
mai_tais_and_yahtzee | mai_tais_and_yahtzee
Brutal honesty or comforting lies? NTA's dilemma in advising brother 🤔
Angio343 | Angio343
Supportive advice to stand up against family drama ❤️
ScammerC | ScammerC
Breaking the cycle of toxic 'nice guy' behavior 👍
TheREALNesZapper | TheREALNesZapper
Logic vs. Hysteria: Dealing with a stubborn sibling 😕
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Encouraging response to brother's dating troubles. 🤝
ReasonableThings | ReasonableThings
Being honest with a sexist brother with Aspergers causes drama 😬
MSAutarkia | MSAutarkia
Blunt honesty may help Aspergers sibling date, NTA for comment.
VirtualBrick2 | VirtualBrick2
Honesty hurts 🤕 but NTA for telling it like it is.
Froot-Batz | Froot-Batz
Mom created disaster. Being misogynistic & unlikeable is not logical. 💁♀️
compassionfever | compassionfever
Encouraging NTA comment suggests treating women with respect and introduces Dunning-Kruger.
sakupocket | sakupocket
Honesty is key in helping those on the spectrum 👏
ThatComicChick | ThatComicChick
Parents' unreasonable expectations hurt brother's confidence. Insulting behavior unlearnable?
randomfemale | randomfemale
Direct communication is key for HFA individuals seeking relationships. 💕
WonderDeb | WonderDeb
Building confidence is key for dating success! 💪
ShiggnessKhan | ShiggnessKhan
Honesty is the best policy 🤝
pthepuff | pthepuff
Helpful response to brother with Aspergers sparks family drama. NTA.
Pvt_Pyle58 | Pvt_Pyle58
Honesty hurts 🤕 NTA gets backlash for brother's dating woes.
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Autism doesn't excuse misogyny, NTA explains. Functioning labels harmful.
Epickirby547 | Epickirby547
Honesty can be tough, but it can also lead to growth 💪
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