In a bizarre but true story from a Southeast Asian country, a man is facing backlash from his family for falling in love with someone other than his arranged bride. The man's family had arranged a marriage with a childhood friend, who had been living with the family since she was three years old. However, when the man returned from studying abroad and fell in love with someone else, his family erupted in anger. The childhood friend, who was also supposed to marry him, accused the man's girlfriend of being a 'modern girl' and a 'sl*t.' The man's parents also tried to guilt him into marrying their chosen bride, citing family ties and tradition. Despite the pressure and emotional blackmail, the man has decided to stand by his decision and not go through with the arranged marriage. But is he truly in the wrong? Read on to find out more.
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In a shocking turn of events, a man in his late 20s introduced his girlfriend to his family only to find out that they had arranged his marriage with a childhood friend years ago without his knowledge. The situation escalated quickly with screaming, yelling, and accusations of infidelity and gold-digging. The man, torn between his love for his girlfriend and his loyalty to his childhood friend, seeks advice on whether he is the asshole in the situation. Read on to find out what happens next and join the conversation in the comments below.
Family crisis erupts over arranged marriage, OP not the a-hole.
WebbieVanderquack | WebbieVanderquack
NTA for rejecting an arranged marriage. Empathize with X's situation.
markroth69 | markroth69
NTA. Introducing girlfriend causes family crisis with control freak parents 🤨
meli_ch8 | meli_ch8
Age is just a number - OP should marry who he wants! 👨❤️👩👩 Parents need to chill. 😖
sonja_says | sonja_says
American commenter faces cultural confusion but sides with OP. 🤔
Dangerous-Emphasis44 | Dangerous-Emphasis44
Introducing girlfriend sparks family crisis, but NTA for not knowing.
Sm0ltowngrill | Sm0ltowngrill
Breaking free from a prearranged marriage. 💔❤️
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User defends OP's decision to not call him an a**hole.
teke367 | teke367
Breaking free from family expectations 💪🏼🙌🏼 Congrats on love ❤️
judge1492 | judge1492
Navigating cultural differences in love and family dynamics 💕
fludmaps | fludmaps
ESH in a love triangle that could have been avoided 💔
SMHthrwawaysadguy | SMHthrwawaysadguy
Will introducing girlfriend cause sister to be treated like step-daughter? 🤔
5115E | 5115E
NTA for choosing love over culturally arranged marriage, but X is in a vulnerable position and facing a bleak future. 💔
nickygirl19 | nickygirl19
NTA defends parents' cultural beliefs but urges OP to marry for love.
bsailors24 | bsailors24
Commenter finds it odd that parents didn't mention arranged marriage sooner.
McCrotch | McCrotch
Commenter sympathizes with OP and girlfriend in cultural clash 🤝
indianchikorita | indianchikorita
Commenter raises valid points about arranged marriages vs forced marriages.
catbirb | catbirb
Family acceptance is important for a relationship ❤
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Be a supportive sibling and earn NTA status! 👍
Kyrilla_Mignon | Kyrilla_Mignon
Cultural nuances arise in discussion about introducing girlfriend to parents.
RazerAds_510 | RazerAds_510
Choosing happiness over family expectations. 🙌
endouaiao | endouaiao
Family feud over arranged marriage, NTA defends secret girlfriend 🤫
RhiRhi202 | RhiRhi202
Stand up for yourself! 🙌 NTA comment inspires independence.
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Commenter asks if the sister's arranged marriage made OP expect the same fate. Replies clarify the difference between arranged and forced marriages. 👍
reddit-reader | reddit-reader
Compassion for the girlfriend who is in a tough spot 😔
explodingwhale17 | explodingwhale17
Cultural differences cause confusion and a missed arranged marriage.
Dana07620 | Dana07620
Man falls in love with childhood friend, family reacts poorly 👥💔
OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000
Consent is key, even in arranged marriages! ✌️
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Cultural differences lead to family crisis, ESH. X's life ruined.
dca_user | dca_user
Supportive comment encourages discussion and cultural understanding 🙌
Dreampoplife | Dreampoplife
Not the a**hole for introducing girlfriend to parents 👍
TCGislife | TCGislife
Live your life, forget the strife! 🎉
TheCookie_Momster | TheCookie_Momster
Childhood rivalry and closeness may blur judgement in relationship decisions 💔
RebootDataChips | RebootDataChips
Breaking cultural norms can be tough for all involved 😔
PM_ME_THICK_GIRLCOCK | PM_ME_THICK_GIRLCOCK
Navigating cultural differences can be tough. 🤔
Hiraganu | Hiraganu
Commenter calls out OP's obliviousness and lack of empathy 🤦♂️
Oki-TheOne | Oki-TheOne
Concerns raised for safety of X after family introduction 💔
31337grl | 31337grl
Cultural differences spark discussion about opportunities and fairness 🌍
AffectionateTea | AffectionateTea
Supportive comment encourages man to stay strong for his girlfriend ❤️
Lady_Purrsia | Lady_Purrsia
Navigating cultural differences and family expectations. A no-win situation. 😕
WW76kh | WW76kh
Live your life, but be ready for family fallout 😬
fugly16 | fugly16
X's situation is concerning. Empathy for her is crucial 💔
pinkypie24 | pinkypie24
Arranged vs forced marriages discussion in family crisis situation. 👍
BlueTaco500 | BlueTaco500
👍 Arranged marriages can work if everyone's involved agrees to it.
RagaMuffinSun | RagaMuffinSun
Heartwarming support from fellow Indian redditor. Stay true ❤️
burger151 | burger151
Stand up for yourself! 🙌 NTA for having feelings.
ginger_gorgon | ginger_gorgon
Follow your heart and marry who you love ❤️💍
hannahsflora | hannahsflora
Defending his decision to reject an arranged marriage proposal 🙅♂️
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Commenters suggest using fake names instead of initials. 🤔
omgifos | omgifos
Stand up to your parents and marry the woman you love ❤️ #NTA
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